Straight MM activity. A question.

[AG31]

Here's an OP from over in Fetish and Sexuality. It caught my eye because my masochistic stories often involve a straight male being dominated by another male. It's always seemed too complicated to explain, and I have some evidence that it may be the reason for my low readership. Is this a recognizable thing? There were a few replies to the thread. I'd like to hear from my smart, articulate AH buddies.

Straight men: Have you ever been whipped by another man? Please talk about your experience. Thank you!

 

[Stanfield2025]

I don't know the specifics of how people view straight male-on-male interaction, but I do know that male-on-male action in general is less popular on this site than anything involving women.

 

[NotWise]

I wouldn't expect any straight male to be aroused by being dominated by another male. It's a contradiction in terms. But, of course, there are all types out there.

Maybe you could give the scenario a more common erotic appeal by putting a woman into the setting. The guy might get off because he's being humiliated in front of her. That's an extreme CFNM scenario.

That isn't a common reactions, so you'd have to spend time developing some unusual characters before it makes sense.

 

[dirk2024]

Here's an OP from over in Fetish and Sexuality. It caught my eye because my masochistic stories often involve a straight male being dominated by another male. It's always seemed too complicated to explain, and I have some evidence that it may be the reason for my low readership. Is this a recognizable thing? There were a few replies to the thread. I'd like to hear from my smart, articulate AH buddies.

Even speaking anonymously on a website, I can't imagine many straight men confessing that. Also, it seams to me that the whipping is an extra leap. He'd have to cross the blowing and fucking boundaries first, I would imagine, to get to the place where he's being consensually whipped.

That's a long way from having "simple" heterosexual sex. I think it would have to be a very slow burn story, crossing one or two boundaries at a time. With a LOT of introspection from the part of what was a straight male.

 

[Kumquatqueen]

I think it's another of those things that is less unusual in real life, but doesn't appeal to readers - along with switches, top/bottom rather than d/s, service tops...

Having a guy wanting a good beating but the only person offering is a random bloke - it's not really a story. Unless the recipient slowly realises he wants/is willing to accept sexual contact with the whipping. Which isn't popular among readers.

If you had a domme delegating the whipping to her male assistant, that might be more popular, because most Lit readers want to read about sexy women.

 

[MrPixel]

In my book it's certainly acceptable and I will even assert "normal" in an MFM situation for the men to assist sustaining each others' erections when the F is off in the bathroom douching in anticipation of taking the other to completion. Almost a chevalistic courtesy to assure the other is ready for... uh... "battle".

 

[NotWise]

In my book it's certainly acceptable and I will even assert "normal" in an MFM situation for the men to assist sustaining each others' erections when the F is off in the bathroom douching in anticipation of taking the other to completion. Almost a chevalistic courtesy to assure the other is ready for... uh... "battle".

In your book, is this normally a sadomasochistic courtesy?

 

[MrPixel]

In your book, is this normally a sadomasochistic courtesy?

No. Just in support of the woman of mutual interest. Two cocks, no waiting.

 

[Chatomatic]

When wife and I did mfm with my buddy, I kept him good and hard to fuck her. He had no bi tendencies at all. But I didnt mind

 

[lc69hunter]

Don't know where this thread really originated from as to Mm, but surprisingly, more than a few wives fantasize about their husbands being taken by another man. In real life, of almost 21 years in the lifestyle, I have had 10-15 husbands on their knees, at the request of their wives, and have fucked a couple, though their wives had already been pegging them and felt it was time they felt the real thing.

 

[TheRedChamber]

Reality and I are only really on nodding acquaintance at the best of times, so I won't speculate about what goes on in real life.

There's a lot you can do dramatically built around the idea of Discipline (and whichever other BDSM kinks) are not fundamentally sexual in nature*. Therefore, you can build in tension by having a straight man be given the option or put in the circumstance where he could get to experience M-on-M spanking.

It's probably hard to write these without immediately jumping to the 'that's when I discovered I'm bi' ending - which is fine if it's what the audience/authro want - but that maybe is the great challenge for the author to keep the MC kinky-but-not-curious. I've got a few drafts playing around with this idea.

For some reason, I've now got the whole Pulp Fiction Foot-Rub debate running through my mind.

(*as asserted by pro-dommes the world over)