I find it very arousing when straight men become curious and start to explore sexually with gay guys or gay Doms. If anybody has had this experience and would like to talk about it, please let me know. What triggered the desire? Where did it go? Ultimately did curiosity kill the cat or did you continue your adventures?
Straight men and gay Doms?
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HarleyQuim
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I think that’s two different things. A straight guy experimenting sexually with a guy as a lover/fuck body is different than a straight guy submitting to a guy Dom.
It’s a deep expression of submission for a straight person, especially a man, to accept dominance from a same sex partner. He’s not bending his orientation , he’s overcoming it! I think it’s a beautiful thing for somebody embrace that level of submissiveness.
It’s a deep expression of submission for a straight person, especially a man, to accept dominance from a same sex partner. He’s not bending his orientation , he’s overcoming it! I think it’s a beautiful thing for somebody embrace that level of submissiveness.
I am a straight man. At least I always thought so. For six years, I have been in a relationship with a trans woman. She is a pure top and has never taken hormones. So although she is amazingly feminine in appearance and manner, in bed she is a man.
In fact, before we met, in our first conversation she told me, I will be the man in bed and you will be the woman. I have sexually submitted to her completely and I love to service her big cock with my holes.
In fact, before we met, in our first conversation she told me, I will be the man in bed and you will be the woman. I have sexually submitted to her completely and I love to service her big cock with my holes.
tristantrotsky
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The strict Dom provides the 'excuse' for the supposedly straight guy to suck the cocks that he always wanted to suck but was too scared or socially conditioned to initiate of his own volition...
I was always interested in bondage and for a while I thought I liked the idea to top women, but the more I invested myself in the thought the more I liked the idea of being tied/topped by a man. Sometime in late 20's I built up the nerve to meet up with a guy to make it happen.
Hrdnhrnyhubbie
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I fantasize about being dominated by a man
So what happened?
I searched around on craigslist till I found a guy with similar interests. talked with him for a few weeks before a meet and greet in the parking lot of a 99ct store lol. From there we hashed out some details to meet at a motel. I actually wrote a story on how and what happened in the stories page on this site. https://www.literotica.com/s/first-time-with-my-dom
wouldloveto
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When I was in training with a couple, the woman handled most of my instruction, but I was made to submit to him on occasion, and you summed it up nicely!
Good story. I can relate to how I felt the first time being fucked. Sucking a dick. Having my holes used by a superior cock.
Loved your story. My first time with a dominant man kind of happened so fast that I didn't really have a chance to chicken out. Lol. After that, going back was easy.
The urge to chicken out. My first time I made elaborate travel arrangements which I abruptly cancelled as the date approached. I was ashamed of what I had done and it was a long time before I tried again.
The second time I was tempted to cancel again but I forced myself to go through with it. Thank God.
The second time I was tempted to cancel again but I forced myself to go through with it. Thank God.
Dosxx82256
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I'm a straight Dom but lately have only been looking for male subs to serve me online. There's something about the added humiliation and power that comes with dominating a male and I feel I can be more sadistic with males. I also have a female Domme friend who teams up with me on the males. It's lots of fun on both sides.
alwayshorny2020
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This conversation is so hot. I am a straight acting bi guy. I don't get to play much but when I do I love being submissive and being dominated by a gay dom. I love the fact I am dominated sexually by a man as he wishes.
ChasBozwell30
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Great story. So exciting. The anticipation must have been wild.
Yeah it was the most exciting and nerve racking experience I've had.
ChasBozwell30
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I can imagine, t could have gone badly, but it sounds like the perfect experience. A great first time x
Britva415
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What do you have in mind?
In HS, I was totally straight, dated women and even had an experience with an older one. At the same time, I did yard work for a neighbor (long time friend of the family). One Saturday when I showed up to mow, he invited me in. There, over the next months and years, I was taught to submit to him, to worship his cock, and to drink every drop of his cum.
pussyfreebeta59
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Absolutely GREAT that your experience happened in HS. Thats the time many bi/gay males are just realizing that there interests sexually are not really boy-girl. I knew early that boy-boy was more in my lane. I wish I had a neighbor to teach me to submit and to "go gay"...might have saved some time!
Same here.
How do you dominate them online?
