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[dynamics]

Hey, this is my first post, it was nice to finally find a site that I could post something like this! I had enjoyed giving myself anal pleasure for quite some time before anyone knew, always being scared about what other people might think; "a straight male liking anal? thats crazy" is what I had assumed people would think. My girlfriend found out about my anal cravings by accident not too long ago, and yes, originally she was pretty blown away, and questioned my sexuality (which made me pretty ticked off...) But after much convincing, I did convince her that I was indeed straight, and that it was quite normal for a straight guy to like anal pleasure. Now months later she is talking about fisting my ass and doing me with a strap-on... just shows me how I guess its better to tell people everything sometimes . Is there anyone else out there in a similar situation? And if there is anyone out there wanting to share anal stretching stories, feel free to ask/share.

 

[pandoravampire]

Hello Dynamics.
Thanks for introducing yourself so well. You've asked to hear from other people in the same scenario.
That would be the scenario of having a partner, who is talking about fisting and fucking you with a strap on? I think i had that right?

Usually, people in that situation are too busy to be on the net.

But some have been able to write some wonderful stories in the VAST VAST library here in the bdsm forum.
Also, there is a wonderful resource of stories, written by some very talented people here at literotica.

Also, there is a personal ads section, which i suspect, is where you should of put this post. Im sure a mod can tell you that though. But if your hoping to connect with others via this site. the personal adds are very specific in some cases, as to what they are seeking. And thats brilliant.

Good luck and welcome to lit. Im sure we'll get to know you better over time and through your frequent posts to come.

pandoravampire

 

[Shankara20]

I think an anus is a great playground and I also thing you are lucky to have a partner willing to explore that sort of play with you.

There is a bunch of things about anal training I am willing to discuss with you if you are willing to stay with this thread a continue to post here. In general I will say that the 4 things most important in anal play are 1- lots of lube, 2 - communications, 3 - more lube and 4 - more communications.

Fisting is great play, and has real health risks. Have you done any research on how your lower GI tract is constructed - that is to say, do you know what is going on up and inside your anus?

What are you now using in your anal play? How big? Ever used a butt-plug? An enema for clean-out?

If you are willing to share a bit more I will continue with what I have to offer. I know there are other here that are also willing to help.

Shank.

 

[Climaxamus]

They sell prostate stimlultors if your intrested but I Haven't tried so I call you if it's good or not.

 

[Etoile]

Welcome! I love when a guy says "I'm straight and I like anal" because so many guys think "I like anal, I must be bi or gay" and worry unnecessarily, and/or "I'm straight, I can't enjoy anal" and then deny themselves something fun. A sex act itself is not inherently gay or straight. Anal is anal! If a girl does it to a guy, it's still a straight sex act. So yeah, welcome!

RE: the prostate stimulators - try something called the Aneros, I've heard it's fabulous.