Straight Chick with a Breast Obsession

[iDreamInNude]

I absolutely love boobs. I love looking at them. I love touching mine. I could have my tits touched non stop all day long and if I had a pair to touch and taste I would probably do that all day long too. But I am straight. Yes, I've had one experience with another girl, which was a threesome with my ex-boyfriend. I didn't enjoy the whole experience at all. But when she was touching my tits, ya... I loved it. She had an 'okay' pair, but I was too busy trying to make sure my then boyfriend was pleased that I didn't really get to explore that area. But generally it was a very negative experience.


I'm pretty damn sure I could never have a romantic relationship with a woman. (I'm glad it works for some of you ladies) The all-too-similar female psyche would cause too much conflict for me. And besides that I love cock. I can't help but say it. But there is nothing like a good pounding.

At the same time, I have been fascinated by breasts for as long as I can remember. I began masturbating at a very young age and I remember breasts being one of the very first things that used to get me off. I would love to touch my naked barbies and my cousin and I even used to tell stories to each other about women getting their tits played with. I get off to seeing women's swaying breasts and hard nipples. I can orgasm over and over from having my tits licked and played with. I think about breasts so much. Sometimes having my tits played with turns me on more than having my pussy played with. (Tho that feels awesome too)

I've juggled with the idea that I may be bi.... but I just can't seem to convince myself that I am. I don't want to fuck a chick. Its just that, damn! they can have a nice pair of jugs.

I want to have my breasts pleased all the time and I'm constantly asking my boyfriend to play with them. I just can't get enough and I don't really know what to think anymore. Is this technically a fetish? Should I be 'testing the waters' more when it comes to women? I'm a little confused. Any ideas to find a way so I can find some satisfaction? Funbags are getting me a little frustrated!

 

[Stella_Omega]

If that's a fetish-- and in your case I'd say it is-- than it's a lovely one.

You have two things going on; one is that your own breasts are super-sensitive. I'm jealous at how much!

If you are interested in woman at all, it seems like it's because you imagine that their breasts will be as sensitive as yours. And yeah, tits have women attached! and there's so much more to a woman that only her boobs. So, if you're not interested in the rest of the stuff attached to them... that's what makes it a fetish.

 

[gagginforit]

Of course you're obsessed with boobies, any sane person would be. They're awesome!

Seriously it doesn't make you gay or bi or whatever necessarily. I'm a straight guy but I quite like cock (as do tons of guys on here) but I'm not attracted to men or do I really want to have a gay experience. It's just I think cock and fucking is awesome. It confused me as well for a long time but now I just accept it as part of the complex person I am.

I don't know what you should do, whether you should experiment with girls or not but if you don't like girls then you don't like girls. At least you have a pair of tits to play with whenever you want!

 

[blade_rocknut]

Of course you're obsessed with boobies, any sane person would be. They're awesome!

Seriously it doesn't make you gay or bi or whatever necessarily. I'm a straight guy but I quite like cock (as do tons of guys on here) but I'm not attracted to men or do I really want to have a gay experience. It's just I think cock and fucking is awesome. It confused me as well for a long time but now I just accept it as part of the complex person I am.

I don't know what you should do, whether you should experiment with girls or not but if you don't like girls then you don't like girls. At least you have a pair of tits to play with whenever you want!

Kinda cool and interesting to see this; obviously there are tons of men with the cock only thing going on ( I'm not really one....that's a whole other story), but a boob only fetish? Cool. Millions of men would love to be with a woman who truly ENJOYS breasts

 

[iDreamInNude]

If that's a fetish-- and in your case I'd say it is-- than it's a lovely one.

You have two things going on; one is that your own breasts are super-sensitive. I'm jealous at how much!

If you are interested in woman at all, it seems like it's because you imagine that their breasts will be as sensitive as yours. And yeah, tits have women attached! and there's so much more to a woman that only her boobs. So, if you're not interested in the rest of the stuff attached to them... that's what makes it a fetish.

Alright well I guess that answers the fetish question. I suppose it's hard for me to imagine how it feels for another woman when she has her tits played with, I've just assumed it just feels awesome. (All I'd have to do is watch and I'd already want to cum)

So yup. I'm a girl with a boob fetish. Weeee.

 

[iDreamInNude]

Of course you're obsessed with boobies, any sane person would be. They're awesome!

Seriously it doesn't make you gay or bi or whatever necessarily. I'm a straight guy but I quite like cock (as do tons of guys on here) but I'm not attracted to men or do I really want to have a gay experience. It's just I think cock and fucking is awesome. It confused me as well for a long time but now I just accept it as part of the complex person I am.

I don't know what you should do, whether you should experiment with girls or not but if you don't like girls then you don't like girls. At least you have a pair of tits to play with whenever you want!

It has been quite confusing! But as much as the thought of licking and playing with tits turns me on, I'd have to end the whole lesbian experience at that.

I love playing with my breasts. But it really isn't as good as having someone else play with them. I have an awesome boyfriend and I've been trying to communicate to him how much I love being fondled and such. But he just doesn't seem to get it. He plays with me for a little while and then moves on. It makes me . lol. I have needy tits!

 

[iDreamInNude]

Kinda cool and interesting to see this; obviously there are tons of men with the cock only thing going on ( I'm not really one....that's a whole other story), but a boob only fetish? Cool. Millions of men would love to be with a woman who truly ENJOYS breasts

Well, I have wondered if this is an uncommon sort of thing. A straight girl who's in love with breasts. It's been hard explaining it to my boyfriend and trying to have my "needs" met. But that's a whole other can of worms

 

[subwannabe]

I'd say it is definetly a fetish but I bet it is not that uncommon. Seems like a lot of women are obsessed with other women's boobs. I have seen them check out other women's boobs myself personally. I always kind of wondered if it was just women naturally checking out the competition or whether there was more going on there that met the eye - or the mind.

 

[Stella_Omega]

Well, I have wondered if this is an uncommon sort of thing. A straight girl who's in love with breasts. It's been hard explaining it to my boyfriend and trying to have my "needs" met. But that's a whole other can of worms

Yeah, that's the real issue, isn't it!

 

[luscious pearl]

I love breasts. They are so fascinating to me and I love the way they feel. I have to mention that I have seen a fair amount of them as I used to work in a lingerie department as a bra fitter and I was tempted so very often to just start touching. I quit working retail but I often think back at that job fondly.

 

[gagginforit]

It has been quite confusing! But as much as the thought of licking and playing with tits turns me on, I'd have to end the whole lesbian experience at that.

I love playing with my breasts. But it really isn't as good as having someone else play with them. I have an awesome boyfriend and I've been trying to communicate to him how much I love being fondled and such. But he just doesn't seem to get it. He plays with me for a little while and then moves on. It makes me . lol. I have needy tits!

What would you think about finding a woman who has similar desires and just doing that with her? I would talk to your boyfriend first as I'd never suggest to anyone to cheat or go behind their partners back. But if he's ok with it, and there are other women who feel the same as you do (judging by some of the responses it sounds like there are) then that might be a way to go.

As for your boyfriend... wow he really needs to slow down and smell the coffee doesn't he. Have you tried telling him flat out that you want him to spend more time on your tits, instead of just sort of trying to guide him when you're actually engaged in sexual activity? Maybe try that. Sit him down and explain to him that this is something you really want, and what you'd like to do is for him to just play with your tits and and that's all. Keep your pants on. Then of course make it worth his while and do something for him later. Never be afraid to explain what you want.

 

[iDreamInNude]

I'd say it is definetly a fetish but I bet it is not that uncommon. Seems like a lot of women are obsessed with other women's boobs. I have seen them check out other women's boobs myself personally. I always kind of wondered if it was just women naturally checking out the competition or whether there was more going on there that met the eye - or the mind.

lol. Well I think a lot of women are naturally comparing themselves and/or the way a lot of gals dress these days kind of makes it hard not to look! Personally... I pretty much think the thoughts of the 'stereotypical' male when I see nice breasts. Drool... None of my friends ever seem too interested. But hey, I can't read minds either.

 

[iDreamInNude]

I love breasts. They are so fascinating to me and I love the way they feel. I have to mention that I have seen a fair amount of them as I used to work in a lingerie department as a bra fitter and I was tempted so very often to just start touching. I quit working retail but I often think back at that job fondly.

Well its nice to know I'm not alone in my fascination. I don't know if I could handle working in a store like that. I think it would drive me up the wall.

 

[iDreamInNude]

What would you think about finding a woman who has similar desires and just doing that with her? I would talk to your boyfriend first as I'd never suggest to anyone to cheat or go behind their partners back. But if he's ok with it, and there are other women who feel the same as you do (judging by some of the responses it sounds like there are) then that might be a way to go.

As for your boyfriend... wow he really needs to slow down and smell the coffee doesn't he. Have you tried telling him flat out that you want him to spend more time on your tits, instead of just sort of trying to guide him when you're actually engaged in sexual activity? Maybe try that. Sit him down and explain to him that this is something you really want, and what you'd like to do is for him to just play with your tits and and that's all. Keep your pants on. Then of course make it worth his while and do something for him later. Never be afraid to explain what you want.

Thats a good suggestion. And tempting. But I know that there is always an emotional side to being intimate with a person and I can just see how things could get so mixed up with I tried to juggle (mwaha boob juggling... couldn't help myself) being intimate with two people. Even though I know the physical pleasure would be awesome.

I guess you could say I'm a bit more sexually experienced/educated than my boyfriend and I can tell he's still getting used to his whole sexuality and all that. Its made it a bit difficult to break the stigma that, "You don't just have to play with my pussy to make me feel good!" sort of thing. I would just love it if he would just start sucking and playing with my tits while we're doing some mundane task. But he seems to hesitate until I ask for it. But its just something we'll have to work on I suppose. But maybe that's just who he is... I'm just not sure.

 

[gagginforit]

I love breasts. They are so fascinating to me and I love the way they feel. I have to mention that I have seen a fair amount of them as I used to work in a lingerie department as a bra fitter and I was tempted so very often to just start touching. I quit working retail but I often think back at that job fondly.

I think I'd be great at that job. I keep sending my CV to the lingerie shop but for some weird reason I haven't heard back from them yet.

Fingers crossed.

 

[gagginforit]

Thats a good suggestion. And tempting. But I know that there is always an emotional side to being intimate with a person and I can just see how things could get so mixed up with I tried to juggle (mwaha boob juggling... couldn't help myself) being intimate with two people. Even though I know the physical pleasure would be awesome.

I only suggest this because it might not have occurred to you, you probably won't be into it... but what about an escort?

 

[Stella_Omega]

Thats a good suggestion. And tempting. But I know that there is always an emotional side to being intimate with a person and I can just see how things could get so mixed up with I tried to juggle (mwaha boob juggling... couldn't help myself) being intimate with two people. Even though I know the physical pleasure would be awesome.

I guess you could say I'm a bit more sexually experienced/educated than my boyfriend and I can tell he's still getting used to his whole sexuality and all that. Its made it a bit difficult to break the stigma that, "You don't just have to play with my pussy to make me feel good!" sort of thing. I would just love it if he would just start sucking and playing with my tits while we're doing some mundane task. But he seems to hesitate until I ask for it. But its just something we'll have to work on I suppose. But maybe that's just who he is... I'm just not sure.

And you, of course, don't want to have to ask!

Isn't it frustrating!

You might want to pick up some BDSM 101 books. NOT for the BDSM, but for the sections on negotiation, which BDSM has made legitimate-- and BDSm folk tend to take pretty seriously.

My suggestion requires some serious boldness on your part, which isn't always easy for women! How it goes is that you tell him-- kinda unexpectedly, like when you're sitting on the sofa-- as if you've never told him ever before, which is hard to do-- that he can actually make you come if he only plays with your boobs. "Wanna see?" you say.

You strip, and start off, while he watches, getting yourself about as hot and bothered as you can. Meanwhile you keep telling him that it won't work because you're doing it to yourself-- you'd cum if he took over.

guys do pretty well with practical demonstrations.

 

[jillyjones]

You are certainly not alone

For me I think it comes from being a little smaller on top, so there is a natural fascination with curvier women. I certainly enjoy looking at the female form.

It's not something I've shared with my boyfriend as I'm not sure he would get it

 

[gummibaum]

IDreamInNude, I have the opposite problem, in a way: I LOOOVE playing with tits, fondling them, cupping them, licking and biting the nipples, all that for hours - but it's just not the thing my wife enjoys most. So, if you need someone to give your breasts their due attention, talks about other girls' boobs and all that, feel free to get in contact (virtual only, of course). I'd love to hear from you!

 

[bi_curious6969]

I too love to play with my own tits and love to have them played with. I find my self checking out other females chest. I like them all different sizes. I just wish mine were perky and didn't have to wear a damn bra.

 

[iDreamInNude]

I only suggest this because it might not have occurred to you, you probably won't be into it... but what about an escort?

An escort still strikes me with the same problem. Even if she isn't emotionally effected, it would still effect me and my boyfriend too I think.

I spent some time today with my boyfriend and I've come home a bit unsatisfied. He really doesn't seem to get it. I talked to him about it. And today I literally put his face on my chest to make myself clear. Aaaaand he played with them for about 10 minutes.

 

[CrimsonAlex]

Nothing wrong with that. My gf is a breast fan as well. She loves looking at other women's tits. In fact, she's more likely to want to watch a movie if there are tits in it than otherwise.

 

[iDreamInNude]

And you, of course, don't want to have to ask!

Isn't it frustrating!

You might want to pick up some BDSM 101 books. NOT for the BDSM, but for the sections on negotiation, which BDSM has made legitimate-- and BDSm folk tend to take pretty seriously.

My suggestion requires some serious boldness on your part, which isn't always easy for women! How it goes is that you tell him-- kinda unexpectedly, like when you're sitting on the sofa-- as if you've never told him ever before, which is hard to do-- that he can actually make you come if he only plays with your boobs. "Wanna see?" you say.

You strip, and start off, while he watches, getting yourself about as hot and bothered as you can. Meanwhile you keep telling him that it won't work because you're doing it to yourself-- you'd cum if he took over.

guys do pretty well with practical demonstrations.

I definitely think I will take a look at some of those negotiation techniques. Any suggestions on books or where I could get some information online about that?

I took your advice.... it made him all hot and bothered. But he couldn't seem to focus very long on my tits before he had to fuck me. I'm a little worried. I'm a very sexually assertive person already and I can't think of any more ways to explain to him how much I want him to pay lots of attention to my breasts. I literally have to place his head or hand on my breasts and then he doesn't seem to keep them there very long. I love him to death, but this is a little frustrating!

 

[iDreamInNude]

You are certainly not alone

For me I think it comes from being a little smaller on top, so there is a natural fascination with curvier women. I certainly enjoy looking at the female form.

It's not something I've shared with my boyfriend as I'm not sure he would get it

Lol. Its nice to hear that other straight girls can appreciate another woman's body.

 

[iDreamInNude]

Nothing wrong with that. My gf is a breast fan as well. She loves looking at other women's tits. In fact, she's more likely to want to watch a movie if there are tits in it than otherwise.

Sweet. Its cool that you appreciate that she likes that.

Does she get a lot of satisfaction with having her breasts played with by you? And if so, how did she express to you that it turns her on so much? (besides the obvious of course)