Still feeling guilty..

[Purrde Flower]

OK.. I have been seperated from my ex for almost 8 months now.
I have been dating this one guy for the past seven months now. We meet around the beginning or second week of each month and go out for a whole day. Things are really great between us, we are just friends and we will always be just friends.

Well last week we both had some super amazing sex. Quite a few times that day. I will say I was a bit tipsey but not drunk. I doubt I would have done it withuot a lil buzz though. Nothing is wrong with him. He is simply great.

But now this week Im feeling all lousy/guilty about it because I am technically still married. I'm filing papers in late Jan early Febuary.


I have spoken to a few really awesome friends from here and was basically told I am an idiot for feeling this way. I agree and disagree with them.

I was just courious about other opinions about this so that I can understand hw different people feel about a situation like this.

 

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[Gil_Favor]

you have been seperate 8 months? But with this guy 7 months?


This is a serious rebounder.

You need time alone. Dont be one of those gals who cant live without a man.

Counseling says to wait 5 years!!
I highly recommend it myself.

what she said

 

[Purrde Flower]

I dn't consider us a couple. Just friends.. Maybe rebound but he dates other people. We see each other one day a month. Usualy at the beginning.

 

[kotori]

My wife and I have been living apart since April. I'm meeting with a lawyer on Monday. If you think there is a chance at reconcilliation, maybe your guilt isn't misplaced, but if you're sure it's over, there's no reason you shouldn't live for the present and be thinking about the future.

 

[QuickDuck]

If you think there is a chance at reconcilliation, maybe your guilt isn't misplaced, but if you're sure it's over, there's no reason you shouldn't live for the present and be thinking about the future.

Exactly

 

[Purrde Flower]

My ex and I will not be getting back together. He is/was a very abusive man both physically and mentally.

 

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[Purrde Flower]

Hanns_Schmidt
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Please don't quote this person. I don't wanna see his response.

 

[1aurel]

Purrde Flower

Your Ex is probably out fucking better looking chicks than you

.

 

[peachykeen]

Honey you're a grown woman and you have physical needs. So you got yourself some; good for you. What have you got to feel guilty about?

 

[Purrde Flower]

Just worried about the future if i ever get married again.

 

[leavursmilin]

Don't feel guilty, in your own heart, you are already divorced.