Squirting

[bequ23]

Completely agreed. Sex is so much better when you trust the other person is going enjoy themselves fully and not have to worry about what proof they show you. It's entirely possible for a person, either male or female, to have an amazing sexual experience without having to ejaculate everywhere. Most people automatically connect ejaculation to pleasure. Mr. Voices and I will have incredible sex without him getting off, which I sometimes feel bad about, but it's about the experience and not the end result. Trust that you please the other person and that they please you and not worry about how much either of you squirt.

Yes, yes, yes!! Mr. Bequ also doesn't get off everytime, but we both enjoy it when I squirt and soak the sheets, or sofa, or my pants (or as in the case of this mornig, both our pants!). I start to squirt before my orgasm and continue to squirt during and sometimes even after when I'm having "after shocks". I squirt most from oral, him fingering me or masturbation.

I have had dry orgasms when my body just convulses, and those are really good, too. But I think those were mostly from before I had kids.

 

[thetwolezz]

Gushing

And even though men say they like it...episodes like last night still embarrass, especially if through oral sex, as I feel like I am about to drown the poor man! Just can't help feeling that way.

Well, hope my long reply will offer some insight into one woman's experience.

I still get slightly flushed/embarrassed when I gush (everytime we have sex...at least a couple times a week). My girlfriend absolutely LOVES it! We know now to put down towels, blankets, whatever we can find or end up sleeping in a soaked bed!
As far as gushing or squirting, I think when it first started happening to me (age 30 or so), it was more of a squirt and much less. Now...it seems like a neverending river and I'm glad I read some of this cuz a girl can start to feel freakish after a while of comming like that!

 

[sunandshadow]

I actually strive to avoid gushing - the extra lubrication makes it difficult for me to get my o and I hate the towels/soaked bed issue. I have one toy I had to retire because using it pretty much always resulted in a flood.

 

[CmdrSymax]

Love the squirt...

If you're not using it, can I get your toy for my wife? She's a lover of wet, gushing, crashing orgasms.

 

[thetwolezz]

The gush

I actually strive to avoid gushing - the extra lubrication makes it difficult for me to get my o and I hate the towels/soaked bed issue. I have one toy I had to retire because using it pretty much always resulted in a flood.

Darlin...PLEASE tell me how you avoid gushing??!!

 

[gloriann]

I squirt, but, yeah, the orgasm is intense but it's not as dramatic loooking as you see on the porn sites, but, then, what is?

 

[sunandshadow]

Darlin...PLEASE tell me how you avoid gushing??!!

Well basically, gushing is caused by repeatedly hitting a particular spot deep in the vagina. So gushing can be avoided by not hitting that spot - either vibrating it instead, or using a dildo more as a vaginal plug and not thrusting it in and out, or using clitoral stimulation instead of vaginal, or any combination of these.