Don't be sad, ChinaBandit. It's really not a sign of how sexual or lustful you are and I think it's great that you fuck so often, have big orgasms and obviously love sex so much! Please, don't worry about not being able to squirt. Although, perhaps you can explore on your own- have you tried incorporating g-spot stimulation into your masturbation? If not then try it; you will need something which curves upwards so that you can insert it and apply pressure to the front wall. While you do this, try playing with your clitorous at the same time and most importantly, like Skye said- relax!
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i do not really understand my gspot-even at 36. I have been told it is because I am so concerned about my nipples. That is a point. I am very nipple focused. (SMILE). Thank you for your information. It is nicely exciting to know there is more to discover about my body.
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Kisses,
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That's ok, I think a lot of people aren't really aware of the g-spot... especially men!!! Anyway, I hope you have fun exploring and if you want more info, then this page may help http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/G-Spot
...although you'll have to look at more adult-friendly sites if you want tips & techniques!
...although you'll have to look at more adult-friendly sites if you want tips & techniques!
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hi,
rather than insisting it be your man that makes it happen you could try practising more yourself, many people are under the mistaken belief that some women just cannot squirt, I don't believe that is true at all! I have yet to meet a woman I could not make squirt given time and experimentation. The technique is not the same for every woman, stimulation of the skenes glands must be different for different women because the positioning of the skenes glands is as individual as a fingerprint and stimulating the clusters of them is what needs to happen in order to squirt,as I said earlier in this thread they are scattered around the genitals. They tend to form clusters and depending on where the heaviest clusters are that will determine where the stimulation needs to occur. Yes of course it is most common for them to be centred around the G spot and the urethra however it is not rare for them to be closer to the outside edges of your labia or anus. Find your own. You must have noticed that there are times when you masturbate that you get wetter faster than others think about precisely what you were doing when you got so wet so fast 10 to one you were inadvertently stimulating your skenes glands.
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Hunny,
Please don't be upset. I just started squirting recently maybe a year now. Before that tho, I still had great sex. Had strong orgasm's all that stuff.
For me it just happened, and when it did my hubby and I were like wow.
You should be happy you can O some can't do that....
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Oh no....if you enjoy sex and have intense orgasms, you're really not missing out on anything at all. Unless you long to sleep on a big, cold, wet spot
Don't beat yourself up. Life is too short.
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wow i loved some of the replys in this thread i would love to learn how to squirt Any girls or guys out there in lit land willing and able to show a girl a few moves
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Is not because you are Chinese Lorena, and there is a lot of great advice here. I say that because my Chinese wife who I no longer live with as she has gone back to Singapore also squirted (well flooded the sheets) about 75% of the times she had an orgasm vaginally (never experimented digitally with fingers on that one, and it didn't happen from oral sex) and quite honestly.. i felt like i was swimming inside as it was so wet and often wouldn't cum because of lack of friction. This also started happening later in life.. around her 40's.
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My wife squirted this morning.
It was the second time this has happened. The first was two or three months ago. We have been married for over 20 years, made love thousands of times, experienced thousands of orgasms in every way imaginable, and she is just now squirting. The first time was a shock for both of us; the second time, not so much. In both cases we were in the missionary position, and I had my hips tilted in such a way as to drive my cock deeper than normal. I believe this angle caused the head to slide against her G spot in a more stimulating manner.
Curiously, she observed in both cases that her orgasms were not any harder or more satisfying than usual. For the record, she has her most intense orgasms during anal sex.
It was the second time this has happened. The first was two or three months ago. We have been married for over 20 years, made love thousands of times, experienced thousands of orgasms in every way imaginable, and she is just now squirting. The first time was a shock for both of us; the second time, not so much. In both cases we were in the missionary position, and I had my hips tilted in such a way as to drive my cock deeper than normal. I believe this angle caused the head to slide against her G spot in a more stimulating manner.
Curiously, she observed in both cases that her orgasms were not any harder or more satisfying than usual. For the record, she has her most intense orgasms during anal sex.
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I would love to try and help ya.
Then other night was one of those nights here, the bed was wrecked. And that was with towels a mattress cover etc.
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thank you for the post of the wiki page. it was an interesting and informative read.
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Squirting...
I have done it twice I think. But mine doesnt squirt out with the force I have seen in videos. So I am not sure I did it or not.
Both times I did it, I have been doing oral, swallowing cock into my throat. The first time I was on my back, head over edge of bed with lover standing over me, squeezing my breasts as he fucked my mouth. I always get very aroused, especially sucking cock. I could feel the wetness between my legs, feel it leaking between my butt cheeks. Such intense feelings. When he pushed deep into my throat, he pinched my nipples hard. It felt like every muscle contracted in my body, actually back bowing up off the bed and I felt the vaginal contractions and a gush of fluid, then a couple smaller gushes. My lover leaned over when I spasmed the first time, starting to rub my clit and I was screaming around his cock or trying to because it was too sensitive. I thought I had peed but he said no.
The second time it happened, I was sitting in a chair, once more sucking his cock. When he pushed his cock down my throat, I felt the intense arousal, the spasms and the gush of fluid. It didnt smell like urine or taste like it either. So I dont know since it didnt squirt like a garden hose.
I have done it twice I think. But mine doesnt squirt out with the force I have seen in videos. So I am not sure I did it or not.
Both times I did it, I have been doing oral, swallowing cock into my throat. The first time I was on my back, head over edge of bed with lover standing over me, squeezing my breasts as he fucked my mouth. I always get very aroused, especially sucking cock. I could feel the wetness between my legs, feel it leaking between my butt cheeks. Such intense feelings. When he pushed deep into my throat, he pinched my nipples hard. It felt like every muscle contracted in my body, actually back bowing up off the bed and I felt the vaginal contractions and a gush of fluid, then a couple smaller gushes. My lover leaned over when I spasmed the first time, starting to rub my clit and I was screaming around his cock or trying to because it was too sensitive. I thought I had peed but he said no.
The second time it happened, I was sitting in a chair, once more sucking his cock. When he pushed his cock down my throat, I felt the intense arousal, the spasms and the gush of fluid. It didnt smell like urine or taste like it either. So I dont know since it didnt squirt like a garden hose.
Wow.... I don't know if you squirted or not, but I'd sure love to have you suck my cock! Sounds like you really get into it.
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You don't need to have the "squirt for distance"
I'm a gusher, it is rushes out of me and continues.....
GracefullyYours
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I'm not knocking it, because I know some women (and men) love it.
For me, personally...I've done it twice. Both times it was a mess, and neither orgasm was what I'd consider "really good." If I never squirt again in my life, I won't miss it a bit. I think, based on my limited experience, it was a combination of me being really wet, plus his angle inside me, that made me squirt when I did. Also, I completely and totally agree that it's not urine.
In my personal and humble opinion, focusing on squirting (if it's not something you've ever done or do regularly) is like chasing the smoke and ignoring the fire. I'd rather have my usual mind-blowing, make-my-knees-weak orgasms than a so-so one and wet puddle any day.
But hey...I just cum here, so what do I know.
For me, personally...I've done it twice. Both times it was a mess, and neither orgasm was what I'd consider "really good." If I never squirt again in my life, I won't miss it a bit. I think, based on my limited experience, it was a combination of me being really wet, plus his angle inside me, that made me squirt when I did. Also, I completely and totally agree that it's not urine.
In my personal and humble opinion, focusing on squirting (if it's not something you've ever done or do regularly) is like chasing the smoke and ignoring the fire. I'd rather have my usual mind-blowing, make-my-knees-weak orgasms than a so-so one and wet puddle any day.
But hey...I just cum here, so what do I know.
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A subject near and dear to my heart. And one that is plagued by misconceptions and blatant misdirection.
The medical community (at large, and yes this is a sweeping generalization) has no interest in studying the female orgasm, or female sexuality for the most part as there is no money to be made of it. Learn how to give men a longer, harder more enduring erection and you have won your golden ticket. study how to prevent/remove/ cure ovarian cysts? Ehh not so much.
So there will likely always be an inequity of research based on gender. No offense to men, it is just how the cookie crumbles and sadly those of us who are vagina endowed, get the short end of the stick. No pun intended.
That being said there are a few gallant researchers who have studied it, and yet the scientific community remains divided as there has never been a mass study that was set for peer review.
What I can contribute is from my own knowledge, my own body and my 16 some odd years of experience as a squirter.
1. It does exist.
2a. Not every woman seems comfortable enough to reach the point of it even with proper stimulation. Face it, we all cum differently this is just another example.
2b. Squirting or not squirting does not define ones sexual capability, or sexuality.
3. Though it, as well as semen, contain traces of urea which vary in concentration from even to event and person to person, it is not urine. That's a whole other kink.
4. Most important thing for a squirter! COMMUNICATION! My first time with a lover I was punched int he stomach after I squirted, he didn't understand nor believe me when I explained it. Had I told him upfront we both would have dealt with things differently.
5. Neat sheets! These are lifesavers, time savers and help allow you to keep some fun spontaneity in the bedroom, as we squirters know can sometimes fall by the wayside of "On baby, hold that thought! I have to grabs some towels."
I know some (or most if not all) of what I have said is reiteration of earlier comments. But what is the board if not for throwing in our two cents?
The medical community (at large, and yes this is a sweeping generalization) has no interest in studying the female orgasm, or female sexuality for the most part as there is no money to be made of it. Learn how to give men a longer, harder more enduring erection and you have won your golden ticket. study how to prevent/remove/ cure ovarian cysts? Ehh not so much.
So there will likely always be an inequity of research based on gender. No offense to men, it is just how the cookie crumbles and sadly those of us who are vagina endowed, get the short end of the stick. No pun intended.
That being said there are a few gallant researchers who have studied it, and yet the scientific community remains divided as there has never been a mass study that was set for peer review.
What I can contribute is from my own knowledge, my own body and my 16 some odd years of experience as a squirter.
1. It does exist.
2a. Not every woman seems comfortable enough to reach the point of it even with proper stimulation. Face it, we all cum differently this is just another example.
2b. Squirting or not squirting does not define ones sexual capability, or sexuality.
3. Though it, as well as semen, contain traces of urea which vary in concentration from even to event and person to person, it is not urine. That's a whole other kink.
4. Most important thing for a squirter! COMMUNICATION! My first time with a lover I was punched int he stomach after I squirted, he didn't understand nor believe me when I explained it. Had I told him upfront we both would have dealt with things differently.
5. Neat sheets! These are lifesavers, time savers and help allow you to keep some fun spontaneity in the bedroom, as we squirters know can sometimes fall by the wayside of "On baby, hold that thought! I have to grabs some towels."
I know some (or most if not all) of what I have said is reiteration of earlier comments. But what is the board if not for throwing in our two cents?
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the last two girls I've been with were squirters. It was pretty hot, one would do it mainly during oral, the other with deep penetration. Both seemed to completely lose control when it happened and loved every second of it. Its really fun, but definitely ups the laundry budget!
I have actually never heard the term "gush," though for all extensive purposes I can get the feel of it. I squirt/gush, and its awesome.
My history, is the first time I did it was with my husband when we were dating in high school- he was going down on me and I had no idea I was going to do it, and ended up squirting all over his face! Needless to say, we were both embarassed, but we both got over it (although I thought it was much funnier)!
Currently, to those who are wondering, here is what works for me. I can't really make myself do it. My husband has expert finger skills (the product of video games since age 3 he claims) and oral skills when he will bring himself to do it as it is not his favorite thing. If I am extremely horny, and watch porn first, its just something about the way he does it.
Now, to the useful part, since the last paragraph didn't explain any technique lol. One way he can ALWAYS make me squirt, is if I am on top, and I sort of lay my upper body on his and make out with him and he just barely enters me enough to slide against my g spot and repetitively does that, the combination of vaginal and oral stimulation (the kissing) will push me to the edge that I squirt all over him and the bed. We have left like a 3x3 ft spot of fluid on the bed doing this before
My history, is the first time I did it was with my husband when we were dating in high school- he was going down on me and I had no idea I was going to do it, and ended up squirting all over his face! Needless to say, we were both embarassed, but we both got over it (although I thought it was much funnier)!
Currently, to those who are wondering, here is what works for me. I can't really make myself do it. My husband has expert finger skills (the product of video games since age 3 he claims) and oral skills when he will bring himself to do it as it is not his favorite thing. If I am extremely horny, and watch porn first, its just something about the way he does it.
Now, to the useful part, since the last paragraph didn't explain any technique lol. One way he can ALWAYS make me squirt, is if I am on top, and I sort of lay my upper body on his and make out with him and he just barely enters me enough to slide against my g spot and repetitively does that, the combination of vaginal and oral stimulation (the kissing) will push me to the edge that I squirt all over him and the bed. We have left like a 3x3 ft spot of fluid on the bed doing this before
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I find this to be really accurate, this is what it feels like for me too. Essentially when it happens you feel this uncontrollable urge to just push the cock out of you and squirt.
For me it can gush or squirt, I have shot as far as 2 metres. A couple of times while on top of my ex-boyfriend I had an uncontrollable orgasm and kept cumming and squirting. I was shaking and due to the rush of blood to my head I had 'happy tears'. So intense.
I think that for squirting if you practice on yourself you can do it. That being said, I find it best when I am on top, in missionary or have my legs flipped over my head. It is definitely the angle. I find that hard, deep, quick thrusts work the best.
I also advise (which is also AWESOME) having you lie down with your legs spread apart slightly and have your partner take his middle finger AND ring finger (which ever hand he writes with because it tends to be stronger) and inserting them about 2 inches into you. Instead of pushing them in and out, he needs to pretend like he is spider-man and rapidly start bringing them forward.
Take your own hand right now, look at it and bring your ring and middle finger towards your wrist and it looks like you are going to shoot a web like spider-man. Well, when you are inside of her do exactly that motion but very fast. What this does is it flicks her G-spot really fast and this (in my experience) makes women gush like crazy. My ex-boyfriend read about this and it worked so well that we did it everyday for 6 months...I never got tired of it.
Just try it. I find that people use their index finger and middle finger a lot. with the ring and middle fingers I find you can get in there deeper.
Just a suggestion for those who want to try!
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I find this to be really accurate, this is what it feels like for me too. Essentially when it happens you feel this uncontrollable urge to just push the cock out of you and squirt.
For me it can gush or squirt, I have shot as far as 2 metres. A couple of times while on top of my ex-boyfriend I had an uncontrollable orgasm and kept cumming and squirting. I was shaking and due to the rush of blood to my head I had 'happy tears'. So intense.
I think that for squirting if you practice on yourself you can do it. That being said, I find it best when I am on top, in missionary or have my legs flipped over my head. It is definitely the angle. I find that hard, deep, quick thrusts work the best.
I also advise (which is also AWESOME) having you lie down with your legs spread apart slightly and have your partner take his middle finger AND ring finger (which ever hand he writes with because it tends to be stronger) and inserting them about 2 inches into you. Instead of pushing them in and out, he needs to pretend like he is spider-man and rapidly start bringing them forward.
Take your own hand right now, look at it and bring your ring and middle finger towards your wrist and it looks like you are going to shoot a web like spider-man. Well, when you are inside of her do exactly that motion but very fast. What this does is it flicks her G-spot really fast and this (in my experience) makes women gush like crazy. My ex-boyfriend read about this and it worked so well that we did it everyday for 6 months...I never got tired of it.
Just try it. I find that people use their index finger and middle finger a lot. with the ring and middle fingers I find you can get in there deeper.
Just a suggestion for those who want to try!
I can say I have used the same technique with my fingers to cause a few first time squirters. Just an added tip use your tongue and lips to lick and suck on the clit at the same time and she will be on a whole new level of bliss.
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This is also true, lets you focus on your orgasm, and your squirt comes up a lot more instantaneous.
I find this to be really accurate, this is what it feels like for me too. Essentially when it happens you feel this uncontrollable urge to just push the cock out of you and squirt.
For me it can gush or squirt, I have shot as far as 2 metres. A couple of times while on top of my ex-boyfriend I had an uncontrollable orgasm and kept cumming and squirting. I was shaking and due to the rush of blood to my head I had 'happy tears'. So intense.
I think that for squirting if you practice on yourself you can do it. That being said, I find it best when I am on top, in missionary or have my legs flipped over my head. It is definitely the angle. I find that hard, deep, quick thrusts work the best.
I also advise (which is also AWESOME) having you lie down with your legs spread apart slightly and have your partner take his middle finger AND ring finger (which ever hand he writes with because it tends to be stronger) and inserting them about 2 inches into you. Instead of pushing them in and out, he needs to pretend like he is spider-man and rapidly start bringing them forward.
Take your own hand right now, look at it and bring your ring and middle finger towards your wrist and it looks like you are going to shoot a web like spider-man. Well, when you are inside of her do exactly that motion but very fast. What this does is it flicks her G-spot really fast and this (in my experience) makes women gush like crazy. My ex-boyfriend read about this and it worked so well that we did it everyday for 6 months...I never got tired of it.
Just try it. I find that people use their index finger and middle finger a lot. with the ring and middle fingers I find you can get in there deeper.
Just a suggestion for those who want to try!
Great description but I am not quite getting the full picture so would you kindly demonstrate.
