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Re: Spit or swallow
Whoa.....those are some friends...
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Whoa.....those are some friends...
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We all need friends like that.
Royal Magenta,
In reponse to your post......I have tried discussing it and ran into a wall. She has pretty much let me know that bj's are okay but the moment she tastes pre-cum that portion of the evening is over. We did try adding flavored creams but she insists that she still tastes it and won't continue. Keep in mind that my biggest gripe was not in reference to not being allowed to cum in her mouth (which would be great), but that in addition to barely being able to get a bj (and yes I keep it clean and smelling nice) she won't let me go down on her.
Talk about frustration!!!!!!!!!!
One other thing before you even ask it......as stated earlier I have also asked and been assured that it is not a lack of oral technique.
Royal Magenta,
In reponse to your post......I have tried discussing it and ran into a wall. She has pretty much let me know that bj's are okay but the moment she tastes pre-cum that portion of the evening is over. We did try adding flavored creams but she insists that she still tastes it and won't continue. Keep in mind that my biggest gripe was not in reference to not being allowed to cum in her mouth (which would be great), but that in addition to barely being able to get a bj (and yes I keep it clean and smelling nice) she won't let me go down on her.
Talk about frustration!!!!!!!!!!
One other thing before you even ask it......as stated earlier I have also asked and been assured that it is not a lack of oral technique.
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OK, we're straying to the mirror image of the thread, but...
I thought I'd share my personal observation that there are two different cases (without regard to gender.) There's plain "no" and there's the situation where the answer used to be yes but now it's no. My ex, for example, stopped letting me go down on her, which frustrated me hugely at the time (being a very oral person.)
With the benfit of a time-enhanced perspective, I have come to see this change in intimacy as as sign of trouble in a relationship. If your partner has never liked oral sex (giving and/or receiving) they may have some basis (which you do or don't understand) for their preference... but if it's a change, if the rules seem to be evolving for what is acceptable about intimacy, you should be alert to the possibility that it's a symptom of something larger (which means that you need to stop focusing on the immediately obvious situation and get at the underlying cause.) Physical intimacy is tied to emotional intimacy.
Or ignore this notion and carry on, thinking I'm some pompous, ill-advised divorced guy who doesn't have a chance of understanding your situation.
I thought I'd share my personal observation that there are two different cases (without regard to gender.) There's plain "no" and there's the situation where the answer used to be yes but now it's no. My ex, for example, stopped letting me go down on her, which frustrated me hugely at the time (being a very oral person.)
With the benfit of a time-enhanced perspective, I have come to see this change in intimacy as as sign of trouble in a relationship. If your partner has never liked oral sex (giving and/or receiving) they may have some basis (which you do or don't understand) for their preference... but if it's a change, if the rules seem to be evolving for what is acceptable about intimacy, you should be alert to the possibility that it's a symptom of something larger (which means that you need to stop focusing on the immediately obvious situation and get at the underlying cause.) Physical intimacy is tied to emotional intimacy.
Or ignore this notion and carry on, thinking I'm some pompous, ill-advised divorced guy who doesn't have a chance of understanding your situation.
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difference in circumstances
its one thing for a woman to LET you cum, and swallow FOR you, it is quite another to have her URGE you to cum so she CAN swalow,because she cant wait to make you cum,,, much different,, the difference between turning on the tv and passing out from estacy!!!!!!!
its one thing for a woman to LET you cum, and swallow FOR you, it is quite another to have her URGE you to cum so she CAN swalow,because she cant wait to make you cum,,, much different,, the difference between turning on the tv and passing out from estacy!!!!!!!
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Re: OK, we're straying to the mirror image of the thread, but...
I hear you and agree........ Wonderful insight.
By the way, cool sig line.
LukkyKnight said:
I hear you and agree........
Wonderful insight.By the way, cool sig line.
You all crack me up....
Medic82's post actually reminded me of something that has a lot to do with the whole situation. 10 years ago, when I first started dating my current wife, and for the first few years of wild and happy sex, we would give each other oral sex all the time, including her sucking my dick without my having to ask. Maybe not as frequently as I would have liked, but does anyone really get enough head??? Then as the novelty wore off and as kids came and as we got a little complacent, things that are bound to happen, sex kind of got put on the back burner. Everyday, turned into two or three times a week has turned into two or three times a month. Life is very fucking hectic and busy around my house. I realize she can be tired and not want sex all the time. I am not complaining about that, well not too much. What I find bullshit is that she has stopped giving bj's and as I said once before, she said she feels like she doesnt want to give head anymore because she is married. What kind of fucking logic is that? She should want to because I like it. I do all kinds of shit for her I dont want to do.
I actually got off on a tangent.... What I meant to say is that, like medic82, I do not think she would think I was very loving if I said to her to get on her knees and suck me. She is just not like that. Shit, she wont even initiate sex but only once a year at most. So the fact of the matter is, I guess I am just going to have to just acknowledge the fact that she is not one of the incredibly hot and sexy chicks like we find at this site and live with it. Now I will have to decide if I can live my life that way or try to find someone else that might share my view of just having crazy, hot, nasty and secretive sex. I am sure that that will be easy.... Ya right, lol
Medic82's post actually reminded me of something that has a lot to do with the whole situation. 10 years ago, when I first started dating my current wife, and for the first few years of wild and happy sex, we would give each other oral sex all the time, including her sucking my dick without my having to ask. Maybe not as frequently as I would have liked, but does anyone really get enough head??? Then as the novelty wore off and as kids came and as we got a little complacent, things that are bound to happen, sex kind of got put on the back burner. Everyday, turned into two or three times a week has turned into two or three times a month. Life is very fucking hectic and busy around my house. I realize she can be tired and not want sex all the time. I am not complaining about that, well not too much. What I find bullshit is that she has stopped giving bj's and as I said once before, she said she feels like she doesnt want to give head anymore because she is married. What kind of fucking logic is that? She should want to because I like it. I do all kinds of shit for her I dont want to do.
I actually got off on a tangent.... What I meant to say is that, like medic82, I do not think she would think I was very loving if I said to her to get on her knees and suck me. She is just not like that. Shit, she wont even initiate sex but only once a year at most. So the fact of the matter is, I guess I am just going to have to just acknowledge the fact that she is not one of the incredibly hot and sexy chicks like we find at this site and live with it. Now I will have to decide if I can live my life that way or try to find someone else that might share my view of just having crazy, hot, nasty and secretive sex. I am sure that that will be easy.... Ya right, lol
jimbo, how many women or men on this site actually put there money where there mouth is? Most are probably just acting out there fantasies or want to get all the guys hot and horny. As far as your wife not giving you a bj, I can sympathize with you. I know how much I enjoy giving it and how much he enjoys it too. Maybe she thinks its just something else she has to do. Try helping out with the kids and housework and maybe she won't be as tired to give you a bj.
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mutual sig-miration
I actually prefer yours, lovetoread. I've seen it elsewhere, and can no longer who it's atrributed to. Since it was already "taken" when I was introtuced to this site I felt compelled to improvise.
OK, people, there's nothing to see here. Move along back to the thread now...
lovetoread said:
I actually prefer yours, lovetoread. I've seen it elsewhere, and can no longer who it's atrributed to. Since it was already "taken" when I was introtuced to this site I felt compelled to improvise.
OK, people, there's nothing to see here. Move along back to the thread now...
1HotNurse said:
Nurse, you said a mouthful with this one! (And, NO, no pun intended!)
Jimbo, you will find, as you read through some of the threads here (especially the Personals) that it's all about how hot and horny one can make themselves out to be. You will read radical ideas, outrageous escapades, impossible lifestyles. And, without knowing the people here, I would say that 70% - 80% of it all is just people talking out their fantasies. In fact, most are probably where you are at right now.
And as for all the "hot and nasty" women? Hon, it's VERY easy for a woman such as myself to present herself to you as the one who love to help you achieve all of your ultimate desires and fantasies. If I wanted to, I could make up stories that would have you cumming in your pants without you even stroking yourself. And pictures? You want pics? That can be easily arranged as well. OH! You want pics of ME??? Well, maybe in another lifetime. For now, you would receive pics of the person I want you to think I am.
This is a fantasy site. It's all about smoke and mirrors. Some people are sincere and honest. But, hey, like the saying goes: if it's too good to be true? It most certainly is!
So, sit back, relax, and enjoy. Just keep things here in perspective.
And good luck!
this is the reason I LOVE this site
Nurse and sexychele are both right on the money!
First of all, most men are blithering idiots when it comes to women. The man brain can't comprehend how a woman thinks. And some just don't care. You two women have insight that most men find very attractive and frightening at the same time.
Its most guys dream girl, that just submits to his every whim and want in bed. And when we don't get it, WE BITCH!! So we get on a site such as this and read about all these ladies that give head AND swallow, and we are green with envy.
Men, we are the scum that slime scrapes off its feet. We tend to be oblivious to our ladies wants and needs (I'm not saying all of us..) and focused on our own. But, thats why we are men.
But I have to disagree with nurse on one point. Taking the load of family life off a woman by doing something extra in order to get head, is usually a frustrating battle. And for a woman to say that she's too stressed with childcare and household duties to orally please her man, is B.S. I agree that men should be more active in the chores and needs of the home and children. But to use it for the sake of getting head is wrong. It doesn't work that way.
Nurse and sexychele are both right on the money!
First of all, most men are blithering idiots when it comes to women. The man brain can't comprehend how a woman thinks. And some just don't care. You two women have insight that most men find very attractive and frightening at the same time.
Its most guys dream girl, that just submits to his every whim and want in bed. And when we don't get it, WE BITCH!! So we get on a site such as this and read about all these ladies that give head AND swallow, and we are green with envy.
Men, we are the scum that slime scrapes off its feet. We tend to be oblivious to our ladies wants and needs (I'm not saying all of us..) and focused on our own. But, thats why we are men.
But I have to disagree with nurse on one point. Taking the load of family life off a woman by doing something extra in order to get head, is usually a frustrating battle. And for a woman to say that she's too stressed with childcare and household duties to orally please her man, is B.S. I agree that men should be more active in the chores and needs of the home and children. But to use it for the sake of getting head is wrong. It doesn't work that way.
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Re: mutual sig-miration
*said in a breathless southern drawl*Oh...I'm sorry did you want it? I didnt know it was popular, nobody said anything to me....please forgive...
LukkyKnight said:
*said in a breathless southern drawl*Oh...I'm sorry did you want it? I didnt know it was popular, nobody said anything to me....please forgive...
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Well hell, belle, I am leaving words out of posts composed to you, but I don't really want to purloin your sig... maybe we can mix them together?
That drawl thing is... kinda fetching.
That drawl thing is... kinda fetching.
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LukkyKnight said:
Why Lukky, you'll turn my head with those kind of words...
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mystic,
i guess im luckey, my wife of 14 years loves going down on me,she'll grab me in the car, or when im fast asleep. my favorite thing she does is she will lick my balls for an hour, its incredable,and i recipracate with her as well.if shes haveing a stressful day with the kids, we'll put them down for a nap and i'll lick her for an hour.
my advise to those who dont get bjs,go down on your wife as much as possible, get her to open up sexualy, she'll return the favor
i guess im luckey, my wife of 14 years loves going down on me,she'll grab me in the car, or when im fast asleep. my favorite thing she does is she will lick my balls for an hour, its incredable,and i recipracate with her as well.if shes haveing a stressful day with the kids, we'll put them down for a nap and i'll lick her for an hour.
my advise to those who dont get bjs,go down on your wife as much as possible, get her to open up sexualy, she'll return the favor
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I'll have to work on my drawl, ma'am
There go the swallowers, and I must follow after them for I wanna get lukky.
lovetoread said:
Why Lukky, you'll turn my head with those kind of words...
There go the swallowers, and I must follow after them for I wanna get lukky.
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phaedrus45~~
Way to go! I agree with you. If you open up to your partner more and more, a little bit at a time, the more apt they'll be to open up sexually with you. Sometimes taking things a bit slower, and with a little class, are the key to getting what YOU want as an end result! (I believe that goes for men or women. There are lots of women out there who are more sexually open than their spouses as well... *smile*)
You said you were a pretty lucky guy to have your wife, yeah, I agree... But I also have to say that I think your wife's one pretty lucky lady as well! (An hour? You lick her for an hour?? And you never complain about your tongue cramping? I do hope your wife knows JUST how lucky she is! *smile*)
~~Mystic
phaedrus45 said:
Way to go! I agree with you. If you open up to your partner more and more, a little bit at a time, the more apt they'll be to open up sexually with you. Sometimes taking things a bit slower, and with a little class, are the key to getting what YOU want as an end result! (I believe that goes for men or women. There are lots of women out there who are more sexually open than their spouses as well... *smile*)
You said you were a pretty lucky guy to have your wife, yeah, I agree... But I also have to say that I think your wife's one pretty lucky lady as well! (An hour? You lick her for an hour?? And you never complain about your tongue cramping? I do hope your wife knows JUST how lucky she is! *smile*)
~~Mystic
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how i got started
i wanted to expand on what i said the other day. i got started
swallowing back in college before my husband and i got married.
When we started having sex i was so afraid of getting pregnant
i begged him to please not cum inside of me.As He didn't want to wear a condom i pleaded with him to please pull out before he
filled me with his potent seed. i loved him dearly (and still do)
and i was so hot for him and HAD to feel his wonderful cock,i wanted to have sex with him but we were at odds and i wasnt
so sure i could trust him in the heat of the moment to remember
his promise. For the first few times we tried either he or i would stroke his cock slick with my juices until he exploded on my stomach but that left us both feeling somewhat unfullfilled. So we settled on a compromise that i would finish him off with my mouth as he would reach between my legs and rub my clit. We
both then would climax close together with me drinking down his
sticky cum as he massaged me. At first i didnt think i could swallow it as i almost gagged at the volume and taste but soon
i was slurpping away for i knew i would soon be experiencing a
wonderful climax of my own. i came to relate the taste of cum
with my pleasure so that now when i suck him i have a tiny
orgasm sometimes without even being touched. Most times now
him fills my pussy with his seed and i have grown to love that
feeling so much but sometimes now like early in the morning i will
wake him with a blowjob and suck him until his tight balls empty
deep down my throat.Both ways are GREAT!
i wanted to expand on what i said the other day. i got started
swallowing back in college before my husband and i got married.
When we started having sex i was so afraid of getting pregnant
i begged him to please not cum inside of me.As He didn't want to wear a condom i pleaded with him to please pull out before he
filled me with his potent seed. i loved him dearly (and still do)
and i was so hot for him and HAD to feel his wonderful cock,i wanted to have sex with him but we were at odds and i wasnt
so sure i could trust him in the heat of the moment to remember
his promise. For the first few times we tried either he or i would stroke his cock slick with my juices until he exploded on my stomach but that left us both feeling somewhat unfullfilled. So we settled on a compromise that i would finish him off with my mouth as he would reach between my legs and rub my clit. We
both then would climax close together with me drinking down his
sticky cum as he massaged me. At first i didnt think i could swallow it as i almost gagged at the volume and taste but soon
i was slurpping away for i knew i would soon be experiencing a
wonderful climax of my own. i came to relate the taste of cum
with my pleasure so that now when i suck him i have a tiny
orgasm sometimes without even being touched. Most times now
him fills my pussy with his seed and i have grown to love that
feeling so much but sometimes now like early in the morning i will
wake him with a blowjob and suck him until his tight balls empty
deep down my throat.Both ways are GREAT!
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*blushing*
thank You Jim,,,,,a girl just has to do what she can to take care of
herself and please her Man *s*
thank You Jim,,,,,a girl just has to do what she can to take care of
herself and please her Man *s*
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I used to think that receiving oral sex was just a simple blow job, but after an incredible experience of a long time releationship I grew to understand that it just gets better and better with time. When you really know what each other likes - no loves, the sex just builds upon itself. I can still taste her now ... AHEM
One night stands are much less appealing now . Reading the posts by Dirty Knees and Vegas Catwoman make me squirm for what I once had.
What a great starting place you all paint for fiery passion!
Darrren
One night stands are much less appealing now . Reading the posts by Dirty Knees and Vegas Catwoman make me squirm for what I once had.
What a great starting place you all paint for fiery passion!
Darrren
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mysticswing,
well if my tounge gets tired dureing that hour, i just start to suck her clit, that drives her wild.
well if my tounge gets tired dureing that hour, i just start to suck her clit, that drives her wild.
Nicodemus said:ahhhhh.....
the wonderous Cassidy. To bring you such pleasure is truly an honor both to the taste buds and the soul.
.........Of course that is assumig you were reacting to my post. If not then excuse the presumption...........
Wonderous Cassidy.... god, that sounds erotic...
Pleasure to taste buds and soul??? You are making me cum with words only
Cassidy,
reacting to you again, again..*moaning*
