Spicing things up

[playfulprincess]

done

i love my husband

 

[vtarider]

meeting your needs

When mu husband and I were dating, we had more adventurous sex. Once we committed, all of the "thrill" seems to have disappated from his side. We talked about it, and he said he would never have the drive that I do. When I asked him why the change, he said it means more now, it's not just sex, etc etc. I know he has a kinky side just based on what his fantasies are.....so how do I get that to come back out again? We have had conversations about doing whatever it takes for the relationship......how do I let him know how much it means to me to have that with him without making him feel like he's not performing (which is how he said he feels once we started talking about it)? He has jokingly said I should have "relations" on his bowling nights so I am satisfied. I want to get it across it is Him I want to be fooling around with. Any suggestions???

Hook up with someone like me who is in the same boat your in.

 

[vtarider]

Im me if you'd to chat.....

 

[erodream351]

xxxxx

 

[mjl2010]

When mu husband and I were dating, we had more adventurous sex. Once we committed, all of the "thrill" seems to have disappated from his side. We talked about it, and he said he would never have the drive that I do. When I asked him why the change, he said it means more now, it's not just sex, etc etc. I know he has a kinky side just based on what his fantasies are.....so how do I get that to come back out again? We have had conversations about doing whatever it takes for the relationship......how do I let him know how much it means to me to have that with him without making him feel like he's not performing (which is how he said he feels once we started talking about it)? He has jokingly said I should have "relations" on his bowling nights so I am satisfied. I want to get it across it is Him I want to be fooling around with. Any suggestions???

Four times a week, when he is sleeping, handcuff him to the bed and have your way with him. I mean, you did say he was kinky, right?

Seriously though, are you sure there's no chance he's getting it somewhere else? Seems odd he'd make that joke about you having relations on bowling night. Men don't usually joke about that sort of thing.

I'm not saying he is...I'm just asking. Are you sure? Why was it so good before and not it's not?

Another possibility...Get his testoserone checked. Maybe it's low and having it raised up would help.

Maybe, you just need to find the thing that flips his switch and flip it more often.

Everytime I see something like this I'm like, WTF. Guys all over the world would kill to have sex twice a week or four times a week or whatever. Then someone comes along, has someone who'd like that and guess what, they ain't interested. WTF?

I wish I had better answers for you. Sorry.

MJL