Spankings-Naughty or Nice?

[WildDaisie]

What is your favorite method to give a spanking? Is it for punishment or pleasure?

 

[Acktion]

I only do pleasure spankings.

Punishment is withholding them.

 

[WildDaisie]

I only do pleasure spankings.

Punishment is withholding them.

Thank you! I love learning from others!!

 

[HUNGRYHOLLOW]

What is your favorite method to give a spanking? Is it for punishment or pleasure?

The punishment can turn into pleasure

 

[Roughscrewu]

For Plessure or attitude adjustment with a Sub

 

[Goldenfinger]

Not in to it. A long time ago I met a woman who loved it. But wanted it way past a playful paddle. Turned me off.

 

[Acktion]

Not in to it. A long time ago I met a woman who loved it. But wanted it way past a playful paddle. Turned me off.

I get this.

There was a gal I was entangled with. I watched her participate in a demonstration where she made a hardened Sadist back off and put his hands up before she safeworded. She later told me she would have after one more.

She was so incredibly proud of her "corgi butt" (massive intense bruising) that she posted pics.

That was the moment that I had to acknowledge that one just wasn't going to work out. I couldn't give her what she needed.

I have paddles, floggers, whips, crops, ratan canes... I know how to use them and use them well. And over the decades, I've enjoyed using them on lovers that have enjoyed such.

But, I just can't go down that road. Not to the point it causes deep tissue trauma and heavy bruising bordering on hematoma. Nope. I wasn't her huckleberry. My inner sadist lies in different directions, and balks at potential lasting harm.

 

[Spanky1372]

Spanking- both naughty and nice but it's the fondling of the mind I enjoy the most.

Will he spank me, won't he.....

 

[wallstreetguy]

A firm hand, as nature intended it.

 

[Luv2watchuplay]

For mutual pleasure

What is your favorite method to give a spanking? Is it for punishment or pleasure?

Over the years I’ve been surprises by the number of women who enjoy being spanked often quite hard. For me it usually forms part of sub/Dom roleplay. I find it quite a turn on.

 

[SlinkyGoddess]

What is your favorite method to give a spanking? Is it for punishment or pleasure?

Pleasure. A nice hard spank to get my nipples hard, but just to leave a rosy glow, not pain. My lover wouldn't enjoy harming me but loves to spank my bare ass and more recently a sharp tap to my pussy to remind me he's in charge. But nothing more than that.

 

[ClitlickerMaster]

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[alabasterbreasts]

I think it works best when it is a mixture of both.

This - a punishment that is an exquisite pleasure.

 

[BigDaddy71231863]

What is your favorite method to give a spanking? Is it for punishment or pleasure?

Always for pleasure

 

[Kumquatqueen]

Not for punishment, just for my own satisfaction.

Offering a bit of pleasure with it enables them to take more pain and continue squirming beautifully.

 

[Caseygrl]

Nice nice nice. Love it!!

 

[WildDaisie]

Nice nice nice. Love it!!

Reddening my alabaster cheeks as my round buttocks shudder.

 

[Smoothshavendad]

Reddening my alabaster cheeks as my round buttocks shudder.

You would be a delight to punish and to pleasure...all at once.

 

[Thatdurtydawg]

Pleasure.
it isn't punishment for being naughty, but I will tell her she is naughty while I spank her.
Besides, good girls need spankings too

 

[EdwardsOtherSide]

It is a fine line between "oooh" and "OW!".
I like to dance on it.

A pleasure spanking can have a little bit of sting to it, and a punishment spanking can be a gentle spanking as the Dom withholds more stimulation.

It can work very well when the Dom alternates between something with a little sting on the ass, and a gentle caress someplace that makes their sub beg for more.

 

[Darkrhytm]

Both; everything is about the state of mind and what’s appropriate and most arousing for my partner, to get her wetter, hungrier, begging…

 

[Saintdragonslayer]

Yes. Both. Whenever she offered me some "sass" or back chat, I would take that for an invitation to turn her arse a bit pink... I knew her limits, mind and stopped short of them.

 

[sweettalk4u]

When how and why to spank
http://rncblog.blogspot.com/2007/05/different-types-of-spanking.html?m=1

This is a blog entry that discusses a variety of spanking situations. It is not just for discipline anymore. It may be used to reinforce her submission to you in addition to discipline. Paddling may help to put her in her special place. This could be a place you like her to be in mentally or perhaps it is a place where she wants to be but needs a little help getting there. Of course spanking can always turn into foreplay leading to more arousal and sex.
One unique spanking situation is stress relief. There are times when the stress from a certain situation or multiple sources in general have been too much. Spanking can bring immediate relief. All of these are dependent on your special relationship. You may find a need for all 7. Currently I can see needing only four and usually only two licks from my wooden paddle. Yes Doms should make their own paddles. This allows you to customize it just for her and you too.
Maintenance Spanking: once a week at the same time. Two licks. To help you both focus on your duties and responsibilities to yourselves and to each other.
Discipline Spanking: if she has deceived you been disrespectful or disobedient. I think spanking for disobedience should not be the first alternative for discipline. When it is repeated it may however be the only alternative. Again two licks seems sufficient.
Stress Relief Spanking: this is where the Dom’s attentiveness is important. This spanking can actually head off a more serious emotional crisis by relieving the stress built up in her. It can also show her that you care about her.
Erotic Spankings: used in everything from arousal to role play, foreplay and even aftercare. It is a special spanking brought on by a touch, a glance, a word or just the twinkle in her eyes.
These four situations would seem to work fine for me. How about you?

 

[StockingGirlJ]

Speaking theoretically, of course, if one, certainly not myself, enjoyed an occasional behind warming, it might be that even when received as "punishment" or ""discipline" the warming of ones cheeks might be received with pleasure, the various attendant circumstances and intensity largely being minor, albeit delicious, details.

So I imagine.

 

[sweettalk4u]

Speaking theoretically, of course, if one, certainly not myself, enjoyed an occasional behind warming, it might be that even when received as "punishment" or ""discipline" the warming of ones cheeks might be received with pleasure, the various attendant circumstances and intensity largely being minor, albeit delicious, details.

So I imagine.

You are correct if pleasure is also derived from serving her Dom