Spanking

[easygoing123go]

50 and never had an orgasm. Poor lady.


Can a woman chime in?


I was thinking G spot stimulation too. I'm going to assume you know where to find it. Have her get on her knees face down shoulders into pillow. Maybe blindfold her for sensory stimulation.
Come up behind her. Don't penetrate her accept with your fingers. Find her G spot and massage it. As she starts to move smack her. Here you can control her by saying if she moves she gets smacked harder. If you want to keep snaking then do so. Don't back off that G spot stimulation.

If she's lucky maybe she might gush too for the first time!

Thank You

 

[walkawayrenee]

If she's that age and never orgasmed, it's more than just not having been spanked. A womans orgasm is mostly mental, so you need to fuck her mind first. She needs to get to a place where SHE can let go..a woman thinks most of the time and sometimes they are unable to shut off their minds long enough to cum.

The spanking may allow that...the extra physical stimulation might let her focus on the sting of your hand, or a paddle, a flogger perhaps.. and forget about holding back. She's gotta want to cum. Shes gotta want YOU to push her over the edge.

IMO,spanking a woman involves a frame of mind with the dom and the sub. I think you need to assert yourself as the dominant one. Unless you're just screwing around and beating on her for the pure physical sensation. If thats the case, then jerk her down over your knee and pull her panties down. I've slid a vibe in a womans pussy in that position, and ordered her not to let it fall out not using her hands, while i reddened her ass. The added mental part of her being forced to hold it in, can add to the intensity. Spank her a bit softly but firmly at first...Cup your hand and kind of glance off her cheeks, then rub in circles around the spot you connected.. Go back and forth, increasing the intensity. Then rub it in. I like to stop and order them to their knees and have them suck my cock...then jerk them back over my knee.

Something you can try if she doesnt cum after a bit... climb up on the bed and lay on your back with your head near the headboard... then let her straddle your face. One woman I dated LOVED that... I'd grasp her breasts and rub her nipples on the cold, rough wall.. she'd ride my face for a minute or two and completely lose control..


there are others things to try... personally, I think the hour long erotic massage is as good as anything.. get some edible warming massage oil. start at her neck and work in about a foot square at a time..then eat it off.. go all the way down her back.. then long licks up and down her spine.. growl in her ear...lick suck and bite on the back of her neck.. work all the way down to her feet.

Flip her on her back...and lick your way up and down her body.. never touch her clit til youve licked everything else... move in closer and suck and nibble her inner thighs.. then work to her outer pussy lips...suck them just like you'd want a woman to suck your balls. When her lips swell, her clit will harden and rise.. start slow.. and work her up into a frenzy...lick her clit then every where around it... thighs, lips belly.. then clit..it can be frustrating but they love it..if she cant let go then, slip a finger in her pussy.. or one in her ass. Those can help push her over the edge.


Own her body.. unless she has something else wrong with her...she'll cum.

All I have to do is read that....and I'm over the edge......Now what was I just doing?

 

[Roxanne_Smith69]

If she's that age and never orgasmed, it's more than just not having been spanked. A womans orgasm is mostly mental, so you need to fuck her mind first. She needs to get to a place where SHE can let go..a woman thinks most of the time and sometimes they are unable to shut off their minds long enough to cum.

The spanking may allow that...the extra physical stimulation might let her focus on the sting of your hand, or a paddle, a flogger perhaps.. and forget about holding back. She's gotta want to cum. Shes gotta want YOU to push her over the edge.

IMO,spanking a woman involves a frame of mind with the dom and the sub. I think you need to assert yourself as the dominant one. Unless you're just screwing around and beating on her for the pure physical sensation. If thats the case, then jerk her down over your knee and pull her panties down. I've slid a vibe in a womans pussy in that position, and ordered her not to let it fall out not using her hands, while i reddened her ass. The added mental part of her being forced to hold it in, can add to the intensity. Spank her a bit softly but firmly at first...Cup your hand and kind of glance off her cheeks, then rub in circles around the spot you connected.. Go back and forth, increasing the intensity. Then rub it in. I like to stop and order them to their knees and have them suck my cock...then jerk them back over my knee.

Something you can try if she doesnt cum after a bit... climb up on the bed and lay on your back with your head near the headboard... then let her straddle your face. One woman I dated LOVED that... I'd grasp her breasts and rub her nipples on the cold, rough wall.. she'd ride my face for a minute or two and completely lose control..


there are others things to try... personally, I think the hour long erotic massage is as good as anything.. get some edible warming massage oil. start at her neck and work in about a foot square at a time..then eat it off.. go all the way down her back.. then long licks up and down her spine.. growl in her ear...lick suck and bite on the back of her neck.. work all the way down to her feet.

Flip her on her back...and lick your way up and down her body.. never touch her clit til youve licked everything else... move in closer and suck and nibble her inner thighs.. then work to her outer pussy lips...suck them just like you'd want a woman to suck your balls. When her lips swell, her clit will harden and rise.. start slow.. and work her up into a frenzy...lick her clit then every where around it... thighs, lips belly.. then clit..it can be frustrating but they love it..if she cant let go then, slip a finger in her pussy.. or one in her ass. Those can help push her over the edge.


Own her body.. unless she has something else wrong with her...she'll cum.

*fans myself*

Oh my. Yes please.

 

[The_Fool]

A womans orgasm is mostly mental, so you need to fuck her mind first.

Own her body.

Slinger offers some excellent techniques, but, IMO, the two statements above are the most important.

And with owning her body, you have to take away her ability to act or react in a way that lessons your control.

Spanking creates a sensation, typically pain, that provides feedback to the recipient on their helplessness, their lack of control, and how they are controlled by the person spanking. Vary those sensations but do not vary the control.

 

[cowslinger64]

oh...you girls are just horny...

Slinger offers some excellent techniques, but, IMO, the two statements above are the most important.

And with owning her body, you have to take away her ability to act or react in a way that lessons your control.

Spanking creates a sensation, typically pain, that provides feedback to the recipient on their helplessness, their lack of control, and how they are controlled by the person spanking. Vary those sensations but do not vary the control.

Thanks Mr Fool...

I started to add more...but just had the feeling that was TMI. I think dom/sub relationships are a lot of fun. When you are with someone that wants to play that role, any ways. Not all women I date are into that, and that's fine. I personally don't have control issues, and I don't hate women...so I don't NEED for her to be a sub.

I can't really explain why some women love that submissive role and why they love to have their butts busted... but they do. I've found that I am a natural at it, and it can be extremely hot..It can be very liberating to submit yourself to someone and to trust them. You can still be a force in the bedroom without the spanking tho..

I think women crave for a man to know what he's doing, but also be in tune enough to know the subtle varieties of touch that each need. Women want to be cherished, craved and made sweet love to...and some times they want their hair pulled, pushed against the wall, and get fucked like the good little whores they are. I think what you said below, ties in with that.


And with owning her body, you have to take away her ability to act or react in a way that lessons your control.

 

[easygoing123go]

Slinger offers some excellent techniques, but, IMO, the two statements above are the most important.

And with owning her body, you have to take away her ability to act or react in a way that lessons your control.

Spanking creates a sensation, typically pain, that provides feedback to the recipient on their helplessness, their lack of control, and how they are controlled by the person spanking. Vary those sensations but do not vary the control.

Thank You, could you please go into depth on taking control, and when and if I get her over the edge, I don't let up correct.. I have purchase some Ben Wa Balls, and flogger from lelo store, I though we try those along with and good spanking,

http://www.lelo.com/index.php?collectionName=cosmetics-accessories&groupName=DARE-ME-PLEASURE-SET

and not let her take than out, I plan giving her a massage after the spanking, and a Yoni Massage, should insert her ass with anal beads too.Any and all input is welcome.

 

[peekingone]

I must admit, I never thought so many women would care for the harder spankings

 

[easygoing123go]

More Input Welcome

oh...you girls are just horny...









Thanks Mr Fool...

I started to add more...but just had the feeling that was TMI. I think dom/sub relationships are a lot of fun. When you are with someone that wants to play that role, any ways. Not all women I date are into that, and that's fine. I personally don't have control issues, and I don't hate women...so I don't NEED for her to be a sub.

I can't really explain why some women love that submissive role and why they love to have their butts busted... but they do. I've found that I am a natural at it, and it can be extremely hot..It can be very liberating to submit yourself to someone and to trust them. You can still be a force in the bedroom without the spanking tho..

I think women crave for a man to know what he's doing, but also be in tune enough to know the subtle varieties of touch that each need. Women want to be cherished, craved and made sweet love to...and some times they want their hair pulled, pushed against the wall, and get fucked like the good little whores they are. I think what you said below, ties in with that.


And with owning her body, you have to take away her ability to act or react in a way that lessons your control.

Thank You, could you please go into depth on taking control, and when and if I get her over the edge, I don't let up correct.. I have purchase some Ben Wa Balls, and flogger from lelo store, I though we try those along with and good spanking,

http://www.lelo.com/index.php?collec...E-PLEASURE-SET

and not let her take than out, I plan giving her a massage after the spanking, and a Yoni Massage, should insert her ass with anal beads too.Any and all input is welcome. Thanks for all your help.............

 

[jason28053]

for me the most erotic of spanking is over the knee. A firm hand applied to both cheeks alternating from one to the other. Occasionally running a finger along my slit to check for 'reaction' and continuing with the spanking. Once I am rosy and wet it is then time to switch to fingering my pussy while administering sharp, little taps to my clit!!! Over the edge my dear! Over the edge.

hmmm... I would like to be the one giving this spanking