Spanking

[easygoing123go]

Hi, my girlfriend has ask me to spank her, I need some advice, how hard, how long, etc. with a flogger or my hand. and it's a fanstsy of hers to be spank.. I'm a newbie this.. Help Needed..

Thank You, could you please go into depth on taking control, and when and if I get her over the edge, I don't let up correct.. I have purchase some Ben Wa Balls, and flogger from lelo store, I though we try those along with and good spanking,

http://www.lelo.com/index.php?collec...E-PLEASURE-SET

and not let her take than out, I plan giving her a massage after the spanking, and a Yoni Massage, should insert her ass with anal beads too.Any and all input is welcome.

 

[ejredlady]

for me the most erotic of spanking is over the knee. A firm hand applied to both cheeks alternating from one to the other. Occasionally running a finger along my slit to check for 'reaction' and continuing with the spanking. Once I am rosy and wet it is then time to switch to fingering my pussy while administering sharp, little taps to my clit!!! Over the edge my dear! Over the edge.

 

[easygoing123go]

Thank You

for me the most erotic of spanking is over the knee. A firm hand applied to both cheeks alternating from one to the other. Occasionally running a finger along my slit to check for 'reaction' and continuing with the spanking. Once I am rosy and wet it is then time to switch to fingering my pussy while administering sharp, little taps to my clit!!! Over the edge my dear! Over the edge.

My girlfriend has a diffcult getting over the edge, she 50 and has never had a orgasms.. This week were trying some those special lelo ball and insert than in her pussy and then I going to spank her.. Hope this put her over the edge...Any suggestion..Thanks

 

[cowslinger64]

My girlfriend has a diffcult getting over the edge, she 50 and has never had a orgasms.. This week were trying some those special lelo ball and insert than in her pussy and then I going to spank her.. Hope this put her over the edge...Any suggestion..Thanks

If she's that age and never orgasmed, it's more than just not having been spanked. A womans orgasm is mostly mental, so you need to fuck her mind first. She needs to get to a place where SHE can let go..a woman thinks most of the time and sometimes they are unable to shut off their minds long enough to cum.

The spanking may allow that...the extra physical stimulation might let her focus on the sting of your hand, or a paddle, a flogger perhaps.. and forget about holding back. She's gotta want to cum. Shes gotta want YOU to push her over the edge.

IMO,spanking a woman involves a frame of mind with the dom and the sub. I think you need to assert yourself as the dominant one. Unless you're just screwing around and beating on her for the pure physical sensation. If thats the case, then jerk her down over your knee and pull her panties down. I've slid a vibe in a womans pussy in that position, and ordered her not to let it fall out not using her hands, while i reddened her ass. The added mental part of her being forced to hold it in, can add to the intensity. Spank her a bit softly but firmly at first...Cup your hand and kind of glance off her cheeks, then rub in circles around the spot you connected.. Go back and forth, increasing the intensity. Then rub it in. I like to stop and order them to their knees and have them suck my cock...then jerk them back over my knee.

Something you can try if she doesnt cum after a bit... climb up on the bed and lay on your back with your head near the headboard... then let her straddle your face. One woman I dated LOVED that... I'd grasp her breasts and rub her nipples on the cold, rough wall.. she'd ride my face for a minute or two and completely lose control..


there are others things to try... personally, I think the hour long erotic massage is as good as anything.. get some edible warming massage oil. start at her neck and work in about a foot square at a time..then eat it off.. go all the way down her back.. then long licks up and down her spine.. growl in her ear...lick suck and bite on the back of her neck.. work all the way down to her feet.

Flip her on her back...and lick your way up and down her body.. never touch her clit til youve licked everything else... move in closer and suck and nibble her inner thighs.. then work to her outer pussy lips...suck them just like you'd want a woman to suck your balls. When her lips swell, her clit will harden and rise.. start slow.. and work her up into a frenzy...lick her clit then every where around it... thighs, lips belly.. then clit..it can be frustrating but they love it..if she cant let go then, slip a finger in her pussy.. or one in her ass. Those can help push her over the edge.


Own her body.. unless she has something else wrong with her...she'll cum.

 

[easygoing123go]

If she's that age and never orgasmed, it's more than just not having been spanked. A womans orgasm is mostly mental, so you need to fuck her mind first. She needs to get to a place where SHE can let go..a woman thinks most of the time and sometimes they are unable to shut off their minds long enough to cum.

The spanking may allow that...the extra physical stimulation might let her focus on the sting of your hand, or a paddle, a flogger perhaps.. and forget about holding back. She's gotta want to cum. Shes gotta want YOU to push her over the edge.

IMO,spanking a woman involves a frame of mind with the dom and the sub. I think you need to assert yourself as the dominant one. Unless you're just screwing around and beating on her for the pure physical sensation. If thats the case, then jerk her down over your knee and pull her panties down. I've slid a vibe in a womans pussy in that position, and ordered her not to let it fall out not using her hands, while i reddened her ass. The added mental part of her being forced to hold it in, can add to the intensity. Spank her a bit softly but firmly at first...Cup your hand and kind of glance off her cheeks, then rub in circles around the spot you connected.. Go back and forth, increasing the intensity. Then rub it in. I like to stop and order them to their knees and have them suck my cock...then jerk them back over my knee.

Something you can try if she doesnt cum after a bit... climb up on the bed and lay on your back with your head near the headboard... then let her straddle your face. One woman I dated LOVED that... I'd grasp her breasts and rub her nipples on the cold, rough wall.. she'd ride my face for a minute or two and completely lose control..


there are others things to try... personally, I think the hour long erotic massage is as good as anything.. get some edible warming massage oil. start at her neck and work in about a foot square at a time..then eat it off.. go all the way down her back.. then long licks up and down her spine.. growl in her ear...lick suck and bite on the back of her neck.. work all the way down to her feet.

Flip her on her back...and lick your way up and down her body.. never touch her clit til youve licked everything else... move in closer and suck and nibble her inner thighs.. then work to her outer pussy lips...suck them just like you'd want a woman to suck your balls. When her lips swell, her clit will harden and rise.. start slow.. and work her up into a frenzy...lick her clit then every where around it... thighs, lips belly.. then clit..it can be frustrating but they love it..if she cant let go then, slip a finger in her pussy.. or one in her ass. Those can help push her over the edge.


Own her body.. unless she has something else wrong with her...she'll cum.

Thank You, I got work some work to do...

 

[MsTexas]

If she's that age and never orgasmed, it's more than just not having been spanked. A womans orgasm is mostly mental, so you need to fuck her mind first. She needs to get to a place where SHE can let go..a woman thinks most of the time and sometimes they are unable to shut off their minds long enough to cum.

The spanking may allow that...the extra physical stimulation might let her focus on the sting of your hand, or a paddle, a flogger perhaps.. and forget about holding back. She's gotta want to cum. Shes gotta want YOU to push her over the edge.

IMO,spanking a woman involves a frame of mind with the dom and the sub. I think you need to assert yourself as the dominant one. Unless you're just screwing around and beating on her for the pure physical sensation. If thats the case, then jerk her down over your knee and pull her panties down. I've slid a vibe in a womans pussy in that position, and ordered her not to let it fall out not using her hands, while i reddened her ass. The added mental part of her being forced to hold it in, can add to the intensity. Spank her a bit softly but firmly at first...Cup your hand and kind of glance off her cheeks, then rub in circles around the spot you connected.. Go back and forth, increasing the intensity. Then rub it in. I like to stop and order them to their knees and have them suck my cock...then jerk them back over my knee.

Something you can try if she doesnt cum after a bit... climb up on the bed and lay on your back with your head near the headboard... then let her straddle your face. One woman I dated LOVED that... I'd grasp her breasts and rub her nipples on the cold, rough wall.. she'd ride my face for a minute or two and completely lose control..


there are others things to try... personally, I think the hour long erotic massage is as good as anything.. get some edible warming massage oil. start at her neck and work in about a foot square at a time..then eat it off.. go all the way down her back.. then long licks up and down her spine.. growl in her ear...lick suck and bite on the back of her neck.. work all the way down to her feet.

Flip her on her back...and lick your way up and down her body.. never touch her clit til youve licked everything else... move in closer and suck and nibble her inner thighs.. then work to her outer pussy lips...suck them just like you'd want a woman to suck your balls. When her lips swell, her clit will harden and rise.. start slow.. and work her up into a frenzy...lick her clit then every where around it... thighs, lips belly.. then clit..it can be frustrating but they love it..if she cant let go then, slip a finger in her pussy.. or one in her ass. Those can help push her over the edge.


Own her body.. unless she has something else wrong with her...she'll cum.

It's hard to believe you're single ....

I would give my first born to be with a man that thought exactly this way.

Ok, maybe not my first born, but you get the jest of it.

 

[cowslinger64]

It's hard to believe you're single ....

I would give my first born to be with a man that thought exactly this way.

Ok, maybe not my first born, but you get the jest of it.

lol...suckass.






thanks darlin...guess Im just too hard to get along with.

 

[PlayfulLittle1]

If she's that age and never orgasmed, it's more than just not having been spanked. A womans orgasm is mostly mental, so you need to fuck her mind first. She needs to get to a place where SHE can let go..a woman thinks most of the time and sometimes they are unable to shut off their minds long enough to cum.

The spanking may allow that...the extra physical stimulation might let her focus on the sting of your hand, or a paddle, a flogger perhaps.. and forget about holding back. She's gotta want to cum. Shes gotta want YOU to push her over the edge.

IMO,spanking a woman involves a frame of mind with the dom and the sub. I think you need to assert yourself as the dominant one. Unless you're just screwing around and beating on her for the pure physical sensation. If thats the case, then jerk her down over your knee and pull her panties down. I've slid a vibe in a womans pussy in that position, and ordered her not to let it fall out not using her hands, while i reddened her ass. The added mental part of her being forced to hold it in, can add to the intensity. Spank her a bit softly but firmly at first...Cup your hand and kind of glance off her cheeks, then rub in circles around the spot you connected.. Go back and forth, increasing the intensity. Then rub it in. I like to stop and order them to their knees and have them suck my cock...then jerk them back over my knee.

Something you can try if she doesnt cum after a bit... climb up on the bed and lay on your back with your head near the headboard... then let her straddle your face. One woman I dated LOVED that... I'd grasp her breasts and rub her nipples on the cold, rough wall.. she'd ride my face for a minute or two and completely lose control..


there are others things to try... personally, I think the hour long erotic massage is as good as anything.. get some edible warming massage oil. start at her neck and work in about a foot square at a time..then eat it off.. go all the way down her back.. then long licks up and down her spine.. growl in her ear...lick suck and bite on the back of her neck.. work all the way down to her feet.

Flip her on her back...and lick your way up and down her body.. never touch her clit til youve licked everything else... move in closer and suck and nibble her inner thighs.. then work to her outer pussy lips...suck them just like you'd want a woman to suck your balls. When her lips swell, her clit will harden and rise.. start slow.. and work her up into a frenzy...lick her clit then every where around it... thighs, lips belly.. then clit..it can be frustrating but they love it..if she cant let go then, slip a finger in her pussy.. or one in her ass. Those can help push her over the edge.


Own her body.. unless she has something else wrong with her...she'll cum.

Holy hell. Bookmarking that post for later use.

 

[MsTexas]

lol...suckass.






thanks darlin...guess Im just too hard to get along with.

As if ....

See the attention I get you

LOL

 

[cowslinger64]

As if ....

See the attention I get you

LOL

you'll get your postcards!!!

 

[Scentofawoman]

If she's that age and never orgasmed, it's more than just not having been spanked. A womans orgasm is mostly mental, so you need to fuck her mind first. She needs to get to a place where SHE can let go..a woman thinks most of the time and sometimes they are unable to shut off their minds long enough to cum.

The spanking may allow that...the extra physical stimulation might let her focus on the sting of your hand, or a paddle, a flogger perhaps.. and forget about holding back. She's gotta want to cum. Shes gotta want YOU to push her over the edge.

IMO,spanking a woman involves a frame of mind with the dom and the sub. I think you need to assert yourself as the dominant one. Unless you're just screwing around and beating on her for the pure physical sensation. If thats the case, then jerk her down over your knee and pull her panties down. I've slid a vibe in a womans pussy in that position, and ordered her not to let it fall out not using her hands, while i reddened her ass. The added mental part of her being forced to hold it in, can add to the intensity. Spank her a bit softly but firmly at first...Cup your hand and kind of glance off her cheeks, then rub in circles around the spot you connected.. Go back and forth, increasing the intensity. Then rub it in. I like to stop and order them to their knees and have them suck my cock...then jerk them back over my knee.

Something you can try if she doesnt cum after a bit... climb up on the bed and lay on your back with your head near the headboard... then let her straddle your face. One woman I dated LOVED that... I'd grasp her breasts and rub her nipples on the cold, rough wall.. she'd ride my face for a minute or two and completely lose control..


there are others things to try... personally, I think the hour long erotic massage is as good as anything.. get some edible warming massage oil. start at her neck and work in about a foot square at a time..then eat it off.. go all the way down her back.. then long licks up and down her spine.. growl in her ear...lick suck and bite on the back of her neck.. work all the way down to her feet.

Flip her on her back...and lick your way up and down her body.. never touch her clit til youve licked everything else... move in closer and suck and nibble her inner thighs.. then work to her outer pussy lips...suck them just like you'd want a woman to suck your balls. When her lips swell, her clit will harden and rise.. start slow.. and work her up into a frenzy...lick her clit then every where around it... thighs, lips belly.. then clit..it can be frustrating but they love it..if she cant let go then, slip a finger in her pussy.. or one in her ass. Those can help push her over the edge.


Own her body.. unless she has something else wrong with her...she'll cum.

Damn.

Think I'm going to start selling tickets to BFE. First come first serve. Name your pleasure get your spank.

 

[MsTexas]

you'll get your postcards!!!

You're the bestest ...

 

[Chaingun]

This is why I don't describe my technique. I've got no interest in being offered someone's first born.

Besides, they'd offer me more than that.

 

[PlayfulLittle1]

This is why I don't describe my technique. I've got no interest in being offered someone's first born.

Besides, they'd offer me more than that.

Your modesty is astounding.

 

[Scentofawoman]

This is why I don't describe my technique. I've got no interest in being offered someone's first born.

Besides, they'd offer me more than that.

Hey... Let my people go!

 

[MsTexas]

This is why I don't describe my technique. I've got no interest in being offered someone's first born.

Besides, they'd offer me more than that.

Perfect .....

Since I've got no interest in offering.

 

[cowslinger64]

This is why I don't describe my technique. I've got no interest in being offered someone's first born.

Besides, they'd offer me more than that.

Actually....I just put down a few thoughts to try and help the guy. It wasn't my technique...I wasn't attention whoring and trust me when I say those are just a few of the things I do and have done.


I'll put my repertoire up against yours any day.

 

[Scentofawoman]

50 and never had an orgasm. Poor lady.


Can a woman chime in?


I was thinking G spot stimulation too. I'm going to assume you know where to find it. Have her get on her knees face down shoulders into pillow. Maybe blindfold her for sensory stimulation.
Come up behind her. Don't penetrate her accept with your fingers. Find her G spot and massage it. As she starts to move smack her. Here you can control her by saying if she moves she gets smacked harder. If you want to keep snaking then do so. Don't back off that G spot stimulation.

If she's lucky maybe she might gush too for the first time!

 

[Scentofawoman]

Actually....I just put down a few thoughts to try and help the guy. It wasn't my technique...I wasn't attention whoring and trust me when I say those are just a few of the things I do and have done.


I'll put my repertoire up against yours any day.

Oh oh can I be the ref/ judge!! Please please please!!

 

[Daizie]

thanks darlin...guess Im just too hard.

hehehe

 

[Chaingun]

Your modesty is astounding.

Ain't it?

Hey... Let my people go!

Never.

Perfect .....

Since I've got no interest in offering.

Chilluns, please!?!?!

Actually....I just put down a few thoughts to try and help the guy. It wasn't my technique...I wasn't attention whoring and trust me when I say those are just a few of the things I do and have done.


I'll put my repertoire up against yours any day.

Slow down, Sailor. I don't want to date you.

 

[cowslinger64]

Slow down, Sailor. I don't want to date you.[/QUOTE]


Boy, projecting?or just wishful thinking?




You funny daizie

 

[veryviolet1]

Slow down, Sailor. I don't want to date you.

Boy, projecting?or just wishful thinking?




You funny daizie[/QUOTE]



Lawd, you two! Get a room! ( I've got the keys )

 

[Scentofawoman]

Slow down, Sailor. I don't want to date you.

Boy, projecting?or just wishful thinking?




You funny daizie[/QUOTE]

Ain't it?



Never.



Chilluns, please!?!?!



Slow down, Sailor. I don't want to date you.

Woohoo I called it first! Scent sammich!

 

[Ellafun]

If she's that age and never orgasmed, it's more than just not having been spanked. A womans orgasm is mostly mental, so you need to fuck her mind first. She needs to get to a place where SHE can let go..a woman thinks most of the time and sometimes they are unable to shut off their minds long enough to cum.

<snip>

Own her body.. unless she has something else wrong with her...she'll cum.

I'm sorry, what was the question again?

*swoon