Spanking

I’d like to be slowly fucked in the ass and start with gentle spanking, then perhaps a big harder to see how I liked it. Or perhaps have my wife pegging me and spank me, Ah ain’t fantasies a great thing.
 
An act of physical assault that leaves the victim's buttocks scalding with pain and usually causes feelings of humiliation in the victim as well.

And yet, as counterintuitive as it is, some of us crave it.

For those of you who enjoy having your bottom turned red and throbbing, how did you discover that you had a fondness for this sort of punishment?
I can't say that I have a particular fondness for this but it can be very erotic and often leads to extreme sexual pleasure. The first time I was "sexually" spanked ( as opposed to childhood misbehavior) was by an ex-boyfriend. A few years later, my then boss and I got into a furious disagreement about something one day and this led to him spanking me in his office.
 
I can't say that I have a particular fondness for this but it can be very erotic and often leads to extreme sexual pleasure. The first time I was "sexually" spanked ( as opposed to childhood misbehavior) was by an ex-boyfriend. A few years later, my then boss and I got into a furious disagreement about something one day and this led to him spanking me in his office.
Oh god, there's more to this office spanking story. I'm panting in anticipation of more ;-)
 
I've had this fetish for so long. I think a lot of fetishes develop due to wires being crossed at certain ages and this is certainly what happened to me without going into any detail at all.

But my interest in spanking men has been only a fetish in my adult life, since I was in my twenties or so. I guess first I imagined spanking some male celebrity crushes, and then I dated someone who let me spank him and I loved it! Writing fiction about it (just for fun, not shared) made the desire even more intense. Now I share my work on this site and it's still just as strong a desire. I know I'll have this for the rest of my life.
 
An act of physical assault that leaves the victim's buttocks scalding with pain and usually causes feelings of humiliation in the victim as well.

And yet, as counterintuitive as it is, some of us crave it.

For those of you who enjoy having your bottom turned red and throbbing, how did you discover that you had a fondness for this sort of punishment?
For me it was with a partner I had
He was into those things and ask if I would try it
I was curious and from the first moment onwards I just thought why haven’t I tried it before
 
Being spanked by my boyfriend, later he became my husband, introduced me to being submissive. As my desire to be submissive grew, so did my experiences with impact play. I really just loved it!
 
I always said that I would try anything once in the bedroom. About twenty years ago, one woman, who was a switch decided to put me over her knee and spank me until I couldn't take anymore. Since that time, I have loved it. Especially, the release of control to her hand andher wishes.
 
My husband is of of town. A friend is coming over for drinks after she get off from work. I have been gathering spanking implements and have them on the island in the kitchen. I have a wooden spoon, a wooden spatula, a plastic spatula, a leather strap, a flogger, a belt and a small vibrator in case she doesn't take the hint. I am on pins and needles about what she might say. I want her to take the clues and use them on me. Although, I would also be very open to using them on her. She has hinted that she has been with another woman long ago.
Edit: I chickened out and moved the vibrator to the bedroom but I picked up and have put out two cucumbers. One sexy, skinny one and one that is almost obesely fat. It is at the limits of what I can take. She should be here in about a half an hour. Butterflies...
 
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My husband is of of town. A friend is coming over for drinks after she get off from work. I have been gathering spanking implements and have them on the island in the kitchen. I have a wooden spoon, a wooden spatula, a plastic spatula, a leather strap, a flogger, a belt and a small vibrator in case she doesn't take the hint. I am on pins and needles about what she might say. I want her to take the clues and use them on me. Although, I would also be very open to using them on her. She has hinted that she has been with another woman long ago.
Edit: I chickened out and moved the vibrator to the bedroom but I picked up and have put out two cucumbers. One sexy, skinny one and one that is almost obesely fat. It is at the limits of what I can take. She should be here in about a half an hour. Butterflies...
Good luck!!!
 
My husband is of of town. A friend is coming over for drinks after she get off from work. I have been gathering spanking implements and have them on the island in the kitchen. I have a wooden spoon, a wooden spatula, a plastic spatula, a leather strap, a flogger, a belt and a small vibrator in case she doesn't take the hint. I am on pins and needles about what she might say. I want her to take the clues and use them on me. Although, I would also be very open to using them on her. She has hinted that she has been with another woman long ago.
Edit: I chickened out and moved the vibrator to the bedroom but I picked up and have put out two cucumbers. One sexy, skinny one and one that is almost obesely fat. It is at the limits of what I can take. She should be here in about a half an hour. Butterflies...

Julia was nearly a half hour late. I spent the entire time wondering, thinking ad worrying about my plan. After greeting at the door, we moved to the kitchen and to the barstools while I prepared drinks and nervously watched as we chatted about things. The toys were on the counter almost between us. Nothing was said about the toys until after we nothing had drinks in our hands. We touched our glasses together and she asked a direct question. "Are these something that forgot to put away or did you leave them out deliberately." I was completely embarrassed. I was beet red and admitted that I put them out deliberately wondering what reaction they would bring. She reached through the items and seemed to consider each piece one at a time. I was near tears. She looked at me and said: Your not using them on me! - pause- But, I might use them on you. She moved to me and kissed me on the lips. Her lips were cold from our drinks but her tongue was warm and insistently probing.
It hurts to sit. I have teeth marks on my my breast where she bit me. Hard. I found out that her fantasies included inflicting pain.
She left about noon and we will definitely be together again.
 
I just got a flogging the other day and it was surprisingly very erotic!! The guy made me lay on my stomach. I must admit I thought it would be painful but it wasnt to bad and he was an expert at his technique. I ended up on my back, legs spread and he flogged my cock and balls. It was more of a soft brushing against my skin, and i ended up masturbating as the leather brushed over me making me have a great orgasm. .
 
An act of physical assault that leaves the victim's buttocks scalding with pain and usually causes feelings of humiliation in the victim as well.

And yet, as counterintuitive as it is, some of us crave it.

For those of you who enjoy having your bottom turned red and throbbing, how did you discover that you had a fondness for this sort of punishment?
I discovered the joy of spanking with a long term erotic masseur who gradually added the treatment. Now it is part of the experience in group play!
 
I've never actually been spanked so I've absolutely no idea where my fascination has manifested from but there's certainly something powerful about the thought of someone exerting that authority over you. Whether it's as punishment or just as a way of reinforcing their control.
 
For me, the moment of impact, where my hand feels the bounce of her ass, with force, how she reacts, wincing, biting her lip, gasping, droplets coating her pussy…
 
I've never actually been spanked so I've absolutely no idea where my fascination has manifested from but there's certainly something powerful about the thought of someone exerting that authority over you. Whether it's as punishment or just as a way of reinforcing their control.
How about just for the heightened sense of pleasure?
 
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