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[spankableBelle]

Have any of you ever thrown caution to the wind and told someone something personal (like you love them or like them or would like to be lovers or whatever) and only realized afterwards that it would have been best just to have kept your mouth shut, because now you've opened yourself up for a rejection that you know will come, because only moments later, it does?

belle

 

[MissTaken]

Oh yes!

And he still has something on me.

Dirty rotten &*&)*&+_(**(*&(^(^&$*$




Sometimes, I think there is a piece of us that denies what we know is true. AS if to say this, opening ourselves up could make it really happen. Hoping, yet knowing deep down in the depths of all that is us, what the answer will be.

Are we stupid?

No, just human.
And hopeful.

 

[1sexylady]

Sometimes.....

you just have to let it go and move on....

 

[lilrosie lips]

Re: Sometimes.....

you just have to let it go and move on....

I've done it, probably will do it numerous times again in my life. I would like to be invunerable, but at the same time, I know somewhere deep inside me that being vunerable is one of the paths we have to walk down to attain anything close to love. I think the only thing that comes with age is that we pick a little better who to be vunerable to...

Btw: Welcome to Lit Belle.

 

[knightstalker]

Somehow I get a feeling everyone here has done this..I have done it and have regreted it to this day but like someone mentioned you just move on..

 

[Bug Eyed Monster]

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[spankableBelle]

thanks so much

i can't tell you guys how completely idiotic i felt after saying what i had to said person...but, i am so glad that i am not the only one that has done this sort of thing...sometimes just need that reassurance that everyone else is just as human...

belle

 

[naded]

spankablebelle,

Don't worry about it too much, we all say things that we think are idiotic once in a while. At least you don't have this horrible illness called "Bluntitiss", like me. I seem to be putting my foot in my mouth waaaay too much.

 

[spankableBelle]

bluntitis

i don't have a constant case of blutitis...but i have been known to suffer from it...and i have been the victim of it way too often...but don't be too hard on yourself...if look at blutitis as people saying exactly what they mean to say when they say it...it definitely gets the point across without any room for misinterpretation...

belle

 

[Ram Unreal]

oh gods have I ever... thing is I'm slowly learning. It's getting easier not to say anything though but the feelings still hurt. It gets to a point where I don't talk as much because I just know I'm going to say something that'll ruin everything even though all my senses are screaming out for that person.

 

[tonitits]

oh gods have I ever... thing is I'm slowly learning. It's getting easier not to say anything though but the feelings still hurt. It gets to a point where I don't talk as much because I just know I'm going to say something that'll ruin everything even though all my senses are screaming out for that person.

I think we all do this. for years I guarded myself and not let anyone anywhere near me for fear of being hurt. but then realized that by doing that i might not get hurt but was not really living either! As far as open mouth/insert foot. ...I have done that some many times i was beginning to think that foot was a food group!!!! LOL

 

[russell]

everyone has done foolish things

 

[MizTabby]

sure enough

I was foolish enough on 2 occasions to go blurting out just how much I felt towards who I honestly thought were my soul mates, only to discover that I wasn't exactly their "one and only"
Then once, I got told off and left totally confused, because I did just the opposite, never really wanted to let on just how strong my feelings were, you know the once bitten twice shy thingie? well, that time I lost out because I failed to say what my feelings were. *siiigh* go figure

 

[TantaLiza]

Got the Tshirt to prove it!!

Have put my foot in my mouth several times...some I regretted for a moment...some I still regret... as all have said, Life goes on! At least you know and won't ask yourself, "What if....." Take heart, sugar!!

Hugs!

Liza

 

[ArtifexLignorum]

Yes I have.

Quite recently. The wounds opened in the process still bleed. But one must grab for the brass ring when it comes round. One doesn't get the oppotunity often.

 

[JohnRock42_69]

...interesting question.

Long story short, sort of long distance dated a girl and got to know her really well over the course of a few months. (Sort-of, because she used to work with me and I already knew her, but she was 5 hours away) We had a little fight, afterwards I told her that I knew why I was upset, because I loved her. Went over really well!

 

[highlandlassie224]

Honestly, I've certainly told guys things I wish I hadn't because it led to heartache, but I don't think it's ever foolish to share how you're feeling with someone. It's honest and eventually you'll put your feelings out there and they'll be returned in kind by the right person.

 

[EllaPure]

Have any of you ever thrown caution to the wind and told someone something personal (like you love them or like them or would like to be lovers or whatever) and only realized afterwards that it would have been best just to have kept your mouth shut, because now you've opened yourself up for a rejection that you know will come, because only moments later, it does?

belle

Oh I could do that right now, but I don't want the smack in the face reality would hand me, so I'm keeping it to myself...

 

[respeito]

i'm always doing something foolish. i think it's my middle name.

 

[littlelovedove]

Have any of you ever thrown caution to the wind and told someone something personal (like you love them or like them or would like to be lovers or whatever) and only realized afterwards that it would have been best just to have kept your mouth shut, because now you've opened yourself up for a rejection that you know will come, because only moments later, it does?

belle

Damn but I could be the poster child for this!!

 

[ivantheterrible]

Sometimes, I think there is a piece of us that denies what we know is true. AS if to say this, opening ourselves up could make it really happen. Hoping, yet knowing deep down in the depths of all that is us, what the answer will be.

Are we stupid?

No, just human.
And hopeful.

done it. too many times. had my heart broken twice this year. i'm afraid all it will take is one more time and i will turn into one cold heartless son of a bitch.

 

[papadoc19]

More times than I care to admit...

 

[papadoc19]

I often feel like the John Mayer song "My Stupid Mouth"