So you thought she loved you...

[Black_Bird]

... and you're going to end your life because she's now fucking someone else. She; the mother of your child. She; your first, last, and only. She; your reason for living.

GIVE IT THE FUCK UP. I'm sorry, but once upon a time, she was just a peice of ass to you. If she's going to run off and fuck the first grungy prick she finds in the gutter, then she should have never been anything more.

No man or woman is worth ending your life for, especially when your still in your early twenties, god damn it!

 

[Mad_Jack_Rabbit]

Ain't going to happen to me.

I keep her chained up in the basement.

 

[intrigued]

Hi BB!

I don't think you can say now, after the fact, what someone should "never have been". It's too late for that. I "ditto" that no one is worth ending your life for, and I hope your friend will be OK.

 

[Black_Bird]

Hi BB!

I don't think you can say now, after the fact, what someone should "never have been". It's too late for that. I "ditto" that no one is worth ending your life for, and I hope your friend will be OK.

Yeah...

I just sometimes hear about that kind of shit happening and realize at one point in time *I* was close to doing the same thing. Just today, I found out that a childhood friend had killed himself over a woman; I have to ask myself what did I have that he didn't.

It's a fucked up world.

 

[Debbie]

BB? Sometimes it seems easier to take one's life than to struggle on. I had a friend like this, he told me he wasn't as strong as I was. It is totally fucked up. I will always miss him, what happened wasn't worth him taking his life over.

 

[SilverVeil]

Yeah... * snip *
Just today, I found out that a childhood friend had killed himself over a woman; I have to ask myself what did I have that he didn't.

It's a fucked up world.

Strength of character. Belief in yourself hidden somewhere in your misery that you will survive the pain of having your heart broken somehow.

Too often we give up the fight before we have even given ourselves a chance to join the battle. It is the ones who find that strength to go for one more day, sometimes even just one more hour that survive lifes cuts and bruises.

 

[DéjàNu]

Is so sad

But sometime the break-up is only the drop that make overflow the glass. All a bunches of things wasnt right anyway and the person couldnt see a way out of it.

If only everyone would stop talking about the bullshit of One love of in your life or One soul mate in your life, maybe poeple would know they can fall in love again, it might help...

 

[kidthor]

...yes I did...do...did...umm...Fuck I don't know anymore...

 

[Guest]

If only everyone would stop talking about the bullshit of One love of in your life or One soul mate in your life, maybe poeple would know they can fall in love again, it might help...

I agree. Too many think that they only have one shot with the 'right' person...so they forsake all the 'could be's'

 

[Rambrat]

Every heart sings a song, incomplete, until another heart whispers back. Those who wish to sing always find a song...

__ Plato

 

[juicylips]

I agree. Too many think that they only have one shot with the 'right' person...so they forsake all the 'could be's'

You always say the coolest things.

 

[intrigued]

Yeah...

I just sometimes hear about that kind of shit happening and realize at one point in time *I* was close to doing the same thing. Just today, I found out that a childhood friend had killed himself over a woman; I have to ask myself what did I have that he didn't.

It's a fucked up world.

I'm very sorry. I tried to take my life more than once back in my 20's, but apparently my will to survive was stronger than the depth of my pain. As Debbie said, the pain can be unbearable, the hopelessness overwhelming. Sometimes, so much so that you can no longer help yourself...this is when we need someone else the most, but usually are too far gone to even reach out for help. Ever noticed that when its really bad, thats when we have the hardest time asking for anything at all? Usually, we don't even believe there can be help for "someone like us/me".

I don't know what to say, there really isn't much that can be said, but I'm sorry for your pain, for the whole mess.