So what kind of Domme am I

froggy_day

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I want a male to submit to me, kind of like a pet ... I want him to be service oriented and enjoy bondage with me (me tying him up) I want to in control of his release and I want to share him with my girlfriend. I like erotic spanking with the hands to a paddle of some sort. I like the looks of a bound male and the idea of being trusted.

I don't want to degrade of humiliate anyone. I don't want to beat, or cause too much pain, that's just not my thing. I don't want to have to constantly punish someone because they need to be reassured of my dominance ... I think that's what discipline is for ...

Where do I fall? I'm lost.
 
froggy_day said:
Where do I fall? I'm lost.

Does it matter? Is a label necessary? All you have to do is find the type of subs who can submit to You.

Eb
 
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Ebonyfire said:
Does it matter? Is a label necessary? All you have to do is find the type of subs who can submit to You.

Eb

I'm posting for Her at the moment (as She is laying on the floor on the other side of the room and not logged in)...

anyway, She doesn't care, but She wants a label to put up to try and keep some of the jackasses & idiots away... We have had quite a bit of trouble with boys the last couple of days... We want to make sure that We still fall in the realms of what is considered D/s, since We have both been told in the last few days that We don't.
 
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aerofreak said:
I'm posting for Her at the moment (as She is laying on the floor on the other side of the room and not logged in)...

anyway, She doesn't care, but She wants a label to put up to try and keep some of the jackasses & idiots away... We have had quite a bit of trouble with boys the last couple of days... We want to make sure that We still fall in the realms of what is considered D/s, since We have both been told in the last few days that We don't.

Welcome to the Domme club. It seems that lately there are lots more fakes and wannabes. I do not bother to define myself. I just tell them to go away. If they do not, I help them go away.
 
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Ebonyfire said:
If they do not, I help them go away.


hehehe, We've been doing a lot of that lately... the ignore button on yahoo is a wonderful thing...

We were just hoping for a way to cut them off. apparently, there is no way to do that *sigh* oh well.
 
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aerofreak said:
hehehe, We've been doing a lot of that lately... the ignore button on yahoo is a wonderful thing...

We were just hoping for a way to cut them off. apparently, there is no way to do that *sigh* oh well.

The fakes do not treat you with respect. they are aggressive in their manner. If they are submissive, they will be more respectful and ask to speak to you.
 
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Ebonyfire said:
The fakes do not treat you with respect. they are aggressive in their manner. If they are submissive, they will be more respectful and ask to speak to you.
yeah, tha'ts pretty much how We've been sorting so far...

and My G/f says "woohoo, We've been doing it right" lol
 
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aerofreak said:
yeah, tha'ts pretty much how We've been sorting so far...

so, my point is that you are not required to explain anything to them. they have a hidden agenda, so the best defense is to cut short the dialog as soon as possible.
 
froggy_day said:
I want a male to submit to me, kind of like a pet ... I want him to be service oriented and enjoy bondage with me (me tying him up) I want to in control of his release and I want to share him with my girlfriend. I like erotic spanking with the hands to a paddle of some sort. I like the looks of a bound male and the idea of being trusted ...

Define erotic spanking. Does that mean a mild spanking?
 
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Cuckolded_BlK_Male said:
Define erotic spanking. Does that mean a mild spanking?

the spanking of a nude person over the lap... not for punishment, but enjoyable.
 
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aerofreak said:
We want to make sure that We still fall in the realms of what is considered D/s, since We have both been told in the last few days that We don't.

whomever told you that deserves to be ... uhm...i'd say killed...but that seems kinda harsh...anyway...don't listen to anyone who tells you that sort of thing...they're EEEEEEEEEEEEEEEVvvvvvvvvviiiiiiiiiiiiiiilllllllllllllll
 
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Bondagebunni said:
whomever told you that deserves to be ... uhm...i'd say killed...but that seems kinda harsh...anyway...don't listen to anyone who tells you that sort of thing...they're EEEEEEEEEEEEEEEVvvvvvvvvviiiiiiiiiiiiiiilllllllllllllll


* trying desparately to stay on her chair...* lol that's kinda what we decided, although, we just call them "e-vile"... much shorter & easier to type lol
 
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aerofreak said:
* trying desparately to stay on her chair...* lol that's kinda what we decided, although, we just call them "e-vile"... much shorter & easier to type lol

*laughs* but all those letters make it sound much...uhm...eviler? *blinks* never mind ^_^ heehee
 
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