So what is anal sex like, then?

[Lady_Aline]

My boyfriend has asked me to do something I am unsure about; anal sex. I know that you should use pleny of lube and a condom, but I want to know what it's like from a female point of view. I mean, will I be pleasured by it? Will it hurt...?

Thanx.

 

[Hecate]

Well - i do think the topic has been covered quite a few times about and around here already - so if you care to scroll down the list of posts on this board I am sure you will find all the information you want (and more even *winks*)

Some girls don't want it, some don't mind, some like it and quite a few love it ... it is a matter of personal preference and circumstances I would say.

If you don't want to do it - don't.

But if you like to give it a try I would sum up the approach like follows:
- use a lot of lubricant

- start slow and small
(meaning: don't let your guy slam his best piece into you at once but start to experiment with smaller things like a finger, a small plug etc and take it easy and slow - allow yourself to get used to the sensation and the feeling of it)

- feel free to get any extra stimulation you would like while at it so you feel great about it and satisfied (meaning: if you don't climax just by anal penetration use you or his hands to stimulate you where you like it the way you like it.)

I am sure I forgot a lot of things and this isn't the most elaborate reply, but as I said, the topic has been discussed many times and you should find some useful opinions and hints about it by scrolling down the board a little.

Hope you get to enjoy it - I do

 

[Guest]

To me, it is VERY enjoyable! I can get off more (or stronger) through anal sex then I can vaginal.


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[Earthgoddess]

One of my personal favorites...but do take it very gently and make sure-as with any sex that you are comfortable with it...it can be painful if you really aren't wanting it-I have very intense orgasms while having it...turn about is fairplay-my hubby loves anal stimulation-he has really intense orgasms too-also cleanliness is important-try bathing or showering together first-as a relaxant and as a maintenance issue-enjoy!!! hecate-I am totally enamored of you*Smiles*

 

[dancinvixen]

definitely start slow

Definitely start out slowly. I know from experience that the first time can hurt. Not always, please dont get me wrong and thinnk that anal sex will always hurt, because it doesn't. just like pussy sex, you have to get used to it. Kind of like losing your virginity all over again. But once you start, lemme just say that you may never be the same again. <g>.

 

[Lady_Kathreen_Silas]

This is one of my favortie ways to have sex, especially first thing in the morning before my husband goes to work or when he comes home after PT. (He's in the Army). Yes, start slow, and use whatever means you can to make it even more pleasureable...one thing I have gotten to enjoy, and don't know if anyone else does, but when we are having anal sex, I love the feeling of a vibrator either inside of me or against my clit...makes the orgasm even more intense.

 

[Skitten]

Anal sex is very enjoyable and one of my most favorite to do, but I do agree with the other ladies here to take it slowly and use lots of lube the first time can hurt a little but once you get used to do doing it is is totally awesome and very pleasureable.

 

[Golden]

what it is like is really popular withthe Lit membership!

Lots of old threads on the subject in this and the general board. Go do a search with anal in subject line on any date; or for a shortcut try this old thread ...

have fun!

http://www.literotica.com/forum/showthread.php?threadid=10616

and this one:

http://www.literotica.com/ubb/Forum6/HTML/000003.html

lots good practical advice and encouragement too!

[Edited by Golden on 07-06-2000 at 06:43 PM]

 

[Wizard]

We all love it!!!
and by the way Thats my girl!!! (Skitten)

 

[Skitten]

A little advice to you try it it is totally cool just relax and enjoy and no it is not just for your man once you try it you will be overwhelmed trust me on this one.

 

[Guest]

I have had anal sex with my wife (before we were married) and with a male friend. My advice is that unless you are really experienced - Go Slowly!
When I tried it with my wife we were still in a very experimental stage of dating. I began by massaging her back with warm oil. Then I started to massage her bottom and when she didn't object I massgaed some warm baby oil into her anus. I followed this with my pinky finger and then with a small vibrator. After a considerable priod of time and attention to her ass I was able to move up to a sex toy of a comparable size to my own penis. Then I knew that I was home free!
I had her bent over the arm of a chair wiyh her bottom in the air. After removing the sex toy that was about the same size as my penis I moved in and started to very gently insert my own apparatus for pleasure. At this point we began a wild rutting ride that lasted about fifteen minutes with me gradually increasing the force of my strokes into her. To this day I have not experienced anything as sexy as my beautiful woman begging me to "fuck her ass" harder!
We had a few more experiences with madly passionate anal sex. However, one of our sesions caused her considerable pain. She has not forgotten that pain and will not alow me to enter her ass to this day.
My advice is to go slowly and to use as much lube as you can squeeze out of the tube! But, more important than that! Always, and I do stress, always make sure that the person on the recieving end is completely relaxed and into it. There are so many nerves in that area of the body that all feeling there is intense! One bad experience can spell the end of anal sex in the relationship forever! A bad experience does not necessarily mean that all anal play is off, but it may cause trepedation on the part of the reciever for all eternity. Be careful and use hatever means possibe to avoid a bad experience.

 

[Lady_Kathreen_Silas]

Everyone has a bad experience now and then. My first experience was a bad one and I did not bother to try again until after I was married last year...now I just realize that my first partner in my experience with anal sex had no clue about what he was doing...but it all worked out since this is one of the ways my husband loves to wake me up in the morning...and I'm not about to complain! ;-)

 

[Savage Kitten]

another good point to remember is... breath! may sound silly but its true.. if you hold your breath your muscles get tense and it will be more painful. A she is entering you if (and when) it begins to hurt have him stop right there.. not pulling out though.. and take a couple slow deep breathes until you feel your muscles relax and you pain goes away.. then let him slide in a little further.. continue that until the pleasure over takes the pain

I read somewhere once that anal penetration is the best way to reach a woman's g-spot and the only way to stimulate a man's g-spot