So I put my finger in my bf's ass last night...

After reading this thread, as well as the "Milking" links thread, I decided to try it myself. I lubbed up one of my wife vibrators, and tried it out. I must say I loved it. It opened up a whole new way to masterbate. But, its weird...the first timeI did the milking thing with the prostate and when I came, watched it flow and flow and flow. It was awesome. But the next time, just the idea of using the vibrator made me cum so hard. It was quicker than the first time, and felt different, but was still awesome.
 
i've never had a girl ask me to do it to me, or attempt it with me. i've always been thinking it might be fun to try, but my gf is a little conservative sexually, and i dont know how well it would be received if i asked her.
 
Finally got my wife into it

MY wife has used a finger to stimulate my prostate during oral sex and I had one of the most mind blowing orgasms ever. Just recently talked her into using a vibrator on me. Now we are looking at ordering a feeldoe so that she can get something out of it too. I think that that will make it even hotter for me too.
 
and he loved it. He wants more... but I'm so afraid of making him uncomfortable, and so afraid of hurting him! I cut my fingernails and everything just for the occasion, but...
dammit, his asshole is a lot tighter than the last few people's that I've been with!

I used lots of lube, was very slow and gentle, nice circular massage... and he loved it.

How do I get over my fear of hurting him?!

Just go for it, he said he likes it. or you can come over to my house for a while:)
 
I just noticed this thread for the first time, thought I'd throw in my two cents.

First off, I am a guy, just to be clear.

Building up the confidence to even think about anal play for me took awhile, but a year or so ago I slipped a finger inside myself while I was showering - not really 'trying' to be sexual, just checking it out. I kinda liked it, too. Not overwhelming, but like I said I wasn't really trying.

Now, I'm working up the guts to go to this XXX store near my campus and see if I could find something. Maybe even...*gulp* ask for assistance in picking out something.

I'm...not quite there yet, but every time I walk past, I look at the story and feel a little more drawn to it...
 
Glad to see this thread revived! Occaisional ass play is great, enjoyed it for years since I was 19 and a girlfriend stuck her pearl necklace in me and pulled it out during my climax. I definitely don't recommend using that, you should only use toys meant for ass play. A deep probing finger massaging the prostate or even a vibrating toy can really give a different experience. Don't be shy about buying a toy, just go for it.
 
I don't see a lubed finger hurting anyone as long as your nails are trim.
 
It should be an indicator of interest that this thread is still active after almost four months.

Anyone who wants to either get or give anal stimulation should read the posts about male prostate massage on this site.

http://www.whitelotuseast.com/SacredSpotMassage.htm

I can't vouch for the site, but I've found all the info to be right on the money. For my wife and I, any sex we have now that doesn't include anal play is just a quickie fuck. Besides, prostate health is important and emptying it is a good thing.
 
Buy an Aneros or similar prostate massager. That way you don't have to cut your nails or clean them out after:). Prostate play has taken my husband's orgasms to a new height.
 
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Don't forget the P-Spot

My girlfriend and I discovered ‘butt play’ about a year ago. It has added a whole new level to our love lives. The things to remember are; patience, respect, communication and lots of lube.:D

You girls don't forget, one of the differences between a guy and a girl is the fact that the guy has a prostate. One of the greatest orgasms I have ever experienced was when my girlfriend was stimulating my prostate while I was cummmmming! It is the man's G-spot.:devil:

Have Fun! You Never Knowe Where It Might Lead
 
I have found that with "butt play" I have longer, more controlled orgasms that affect a larger area than just my genitals. It has to be slowly built up though, otherwise it isn't very different from a regular orgasm. Still waiting on getting the feeldoe though. The wife just found out she is pregnant, so I am not sure we should or want to introduce that right now... any thoughts?
 
have you tried to rim him.....that always helps me relax....is he on his hands and knees or on his back.....try him on his side....our favorite lube is Id glide....
 
IM Bi so I can say this weither it be with a man or woman i love anal. My first anal experience was with a woman who fingered my ass i loved it. then she used a strapon with a small dick. then it got bigger . she was the only woman who ever used a strapon but i have had several using their fingers. I'd advise going slow and easy.
 
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