So I got a ring today...

you will make a good obedient little wife. :D
I second that!! :D


I am so happy for you two, NHL!! YAY!!!! :)

:rose::rose: !!!!!CONGRATULATION!!!!! :rose::rose:


I so understand your "been there done that" when you speak about marriage! I been there and done that, too! You been thro the bad times of marriage, allow yaself enjoy the good times now!! You DO deserve to be happy, loved, treasured and all that! You are worth ALOT! And I am glad to see MasDom thinks the same, made me smile.

Love the rings!!! I am sure if will look just awesome on your wee subbie finger and will make you endlessly happy as well! :) *HUGGS*
 
Master has kind of unofficially proposed. LOL. I'm not ready for an actual marriage as of yet, even though he is. I've been there, done that,:rolleyes: However, I'm the first woman he's proposed to though. So it's very meaningful to him. I've done some posting about some medical issues I've been having, and I'd really like to wait until I have biopsy results saying clearly you do or don't have cancer before we move forward with anything. Especially something this big. We both need to be in the right mindset.

We didn't want traditional rings. I found the most awesome Nightmare Before Christmas Set on ebay.

The male ring says. " My dearest friend if you don't mind, I'd like to join you by your side.

The female ring says. " For it is plain as anyone can see, we are simple meant to be."

Problem is Disney discontinued them, and they are almost impossible to find. Found them on ebay for $900, however the female ring is only a size 5 and they can't be sized without messing up the text. *pouts*

So today he took me to Zales and these are the one's he picked out. His isn't exact to the pic. The skulls are up and down, not side to side. Mine is exact, black diamonds and all!:D

http://i98.photobucket.com/albums/l263/nicolehaines23/Mastersring.jpg

http://i98.photobucket.com/albums/l263/nicolehaines23/myring.jpg

I am however feeling very happy and want to share the news!:)

Love the rings. :)

I can relate to the feelings too. For a long while after I seperated and then even for a few months after the devorce was final I felt like I wasn't sure about the whole marriage thing. I think I'm ready now. :eek:
 
Congrats!

I too had a horrible first marriage but I took the chance on a second one because he wanted me too. I've not been sorry!

:rose:
 
Congrats to you both!
Thank you!:kiss:
I second that!! :D


I am so happy for you two, NHL!! YAY!!!! :)

:rose::rose: !!!!!CONGRATULATION!!!!! :rose::rose:


I so understand your "been there done that" when you speak about marriage! I been there and done that, too! You been thro the bad times of marriage, allow yaself enjoy the good times now!! You DO deserve to be happy, loved, treasured and all that! You are worth ALOT! And I am glad to see MasDom thinks the same, made me smile.

Love the rings!!! I am sure if will look just awesome on your wee subbie finger and will make you endlessly happy as well! :) *HUGGS*
Thank you so much!:kiss: My marriage wasn't terrible, it's just. Well I'm jaded enough to know that marriage is hmm.. I don't know how to explain it. :confused:
 
Blessings, luck, and congrats to you both!
Be happy!
:rose::D:rose:
Thank you!:kiss:
Love the rings. :)

I can relate to the feelings too. For a long while after I seperated and then even for a few months after the devorce was final I felt like I wasn't sure about the whole marriage thing. I think I'm ready now. :eek:

Thank you!:kiss: I'm ready for the commitment. I have been. To me becoming his slave showed that much. Like I said jaded I think. It means so very much to him, and I can remember it being new and exciting like that. :)
 
Thank you!:kiss: I'm ready for the commitment. I have been. To me becoming his slave showed that much. Like I said jaded I think. It means so very much to him, and I can remember it being new and exciting like that. :)

You know what, nh?

Make it new and exciting for you, too!
(You deserve that...)
:rose:
 
You know what, nh?

Make it new and exciting for you, too!
(You deserve that...)
:rose:

I'm trying. :) I don't think it's the idea of marriage that has me so anxious so much as it is my health. He's been wanting to tie the knot for awhile now, and I know that, but we're kind of making it official in the midst of a lot of health problems.

So while I know he loves me, my mind can't help but wonder if it's a reaction to his fear of my mortality. I totally know it's not, but my mind...

That's why more of a promise ring thing or pre engagement. When we know more about my health I'll feel a lot better.
 
I'm trying. :) I don't think it's the idea of marriage that has me so anxious so much as it is my health. He's been wanting to tie the knot for awhile now, and I know that, but we're kind of making it official in the midst of a lot of health problems.

So while I know he loves me, my mind can't help but wonder if it's a reaction to his fear of my mortality. I totally know it's not, but my mind...

That's why more of a promise ring thing or pre engagement. When we know more about my health I'll feel a lot better.

*HUGS*
:rose::rose:

I know what you mean...Like putting your life on hold.......

............until.......

(But I'm sending you lovely vibes that will hopefully help! :) and then you can get on with the business of your 'us') :D
 
*HUGS*
:rose::rose:

I know what you mean...Like putting your life on hold.......

............until.......

(But I'm sending you lovely vibes that will hopefully help! :) and then you can get on with the business of your 'us') :D

*hugs back* Thank you.:rose:
 
If mariage doesn't do it for you, how about the honeymoon.

Congratulations!
 
HOORAY!!!!! Ooops sorry.... or to stick with your rings, is it "YAAARGGH"?

Those are fantastic rings, and I bet they look even better being worn.

Dozens of congrats and well wishes come your way! :D:D

And if you're not sure about the marriage (besides the fact that he's a swell guy), you could always have this to look forward to...


http://blogp.murakamiphotography.co.uk/blog/2008/cd_chocolate_wedding_cake.jpg


or maybe this


http://i111.photobucket.com/albums/n142/Bluebellxo/skull4.jpg

LOL..thank you! That second cake is perfect! I'm going to have to save that to have one made.

Although I'm dreaming of a Nightmare before christmas wedding. In ten years or so. ;)
 
LOL..thank you! That second cake is perfect! I'm going to have to save that to have one made.

Although I'm dreaming of a Nightmare before christmas wedding. In ten years or so. ;)
So in other words you want something more like this....


http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_DLz9BT04s0E/SE289fMKB7I/AAAAAAAAAWQ/p7LD1BEUpzc/s400/nightmare_before_christmas_wedding.JPG
linky-dinky


or this one.... and it's link


http://jessicakes.com/library/nightmarebeforech.jpg


or this one?


http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_07szG_fx2Ms/SLrfbOV-1FI/AAAAAAAABBk/YKRIGeJen9M/s400/Nightmare+before+Christmas+Quilt-1.jpg


or perhaps this gorgeous one?


http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3222/2823921282_e8930b9566.jpg?v=0
linkypoo
 
LOL..thank you! That second cake is perfect! I'm going to have to save that to have one made.

Although I'm dreaming of a Nightmare before christmas wedding. In ten years or so. ;)

I know someone who did this basically. Ok, it was a little more Halloween-themed. But it was wicked cool.
 
Thank you!:kiss:


Thank you!:kiss: I'm ready for the commitment. I have been. To me becoming his slave showed that much. Like I said jaded I think. It means so very much to him, and I can remember it being new and exciting like that. :)

This is exactly what I mean, and my mom couldn't get it.

I was never afraid of the commentment. Hell I was willing to jump and move across the ocean long before I was comfortable seriously thinking about the M word. My mom didn't understand, if I wasn't afraid of commentment, then what the fuck was I afraid of. When I sat and thought about it for a while, I realized she was right
 
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