so how do you go about meeting a switch??

[luvpats4unme]

Well I have never met an individual who truely enjoys both giving and receiving sensual spankings. . .not one. . .I have had very little experience in both giving and receiving. . .however when receiving the woman felt "obligated" so it wasn't too pleasureable nor fun. . .so my question is how the heck do you meet others who share the same interests?? I have gone to socials and munches and have been completely ignored (very cliqueish), met others on the internet who "thought" they could switch and met submissives who weren't submissive at all but were very controlling, dominant and wanted everything their way (or is that what a submissive is???). . .I have posted on the Literotica personals and several other web sites without any success and hardly any responses. . .

So what is the secret?? It seems to me that a lot of those who have posted her have had at least some success in meeting others with the same interests. . .there must be some formula for success. . .

 

[Netzach]

I would try looking for spanking and CP and caning groups. D/s doesn't take up as much air time, and simple spank-me-spank-you is much more common.

 

[Ms_Lilith]

I'm a switch. Yup, I enjoy dominating and submitting. I'm a sadist and a masochist.


And pm me if you'd like a website I visit, where I know there are many involved in the lifestyle, and many of them do switch.

 

[hurtme]

I'm a switch as well...I don't actually know of any others in r/l, not in this area anyways, I wonder though (for some reason this thread made this idea pop up) does a relationship work better if it is two switches as oppsed to a switch and a dom or a switch and a subbie?

 

[Ms_Lilith]

I know a couple where both he and she are switch. And they both take dom/me and sub roles. Sometimes, she's in charge, other times, he is. They say that, for them, it works beautifully. However, I've also heard from switches I've spoken to that it can be horribly confusing.. sometimes, they'll both get the urge to dominate, or both want to submit, and it gets frustrating when you can't be the one you want.

 

[hurtme]

lol...I have never had that problem, as I usually am with someone who swings one way or the other definateivly 99% percent of the time, and will once in awhile at most want a change...however I lmao'd at that image..."I want the flogger....no, you said it was my turn!"....or "beat me!....no, you beat me!" Wonder how you settle those arguements...

 

[MissTaken]

bondage.com is a personal's site in which you can search for potential friends by preferance.

I met a number of switches there who became friends .

I didn't meet my match there, but that was simply karma.