So are we all over the vanilla thing, or is it still an insult?

[WriterDom]

My guess is that we aren't.

 

[Never]

My guess is that we aren't.

Whatever balls.

 

[Rubyfruit]

I was never insulted by the term, but then again, I'm hardly 'nilla.

 

[Mia62]

I am 'nilla with enough other flavouring to enhance yet not overpower.

Mind you...the term never bugged me in the first place.

 

[Purrde Flower]

hmm.. I know I had an important answer here but I forgot it.

 

[Wiggles]

One man's sweet pickle is another man's relish.

 

[Bidin~Time]

Wouldn't it depend upon whether it was said with a smile, a smirk, or a sneer?

 

[MissTaken]

What do you think, WD?

A suggestion?

Start a thread "What does it feel like to be vanilla?"

See where it goes.

 

[WriterDom]

I mean, we are a tiny group. Most of our friends and family are nilla. How could that be something bad?

 

[Guest]

Some body please explain that term. I've seen it used in BDSM dovcuments, never really knew what it means. None BDSM?

 

[WriterDom]

Wouldn't it depend upon whether it was said with a smile, a smirk, or a sneer?

It was just said. Never with a smile, or smirk, or sneer.

 

[Bidin~Time]

It was just said. Never with a smile, or smirk, or sneer.

Said matter of factly, no, it shouldn't be considered an insult.

 

[Pixie Mischief]

doesnt bother me also its my bf's favorite scent hehe. but then again to me sex is something awesome to share with someone you care about, I dont see it as "kinky" or "Taboo", sex is just that sex an expression. I wouldnt consider my sex life "Vanilla" that is when I have a sex life LOL and Idont have much to say on I only have had one month's worth of experience.
but I see sex as not something dirty and so shouldnt be offended with terms. I dont know I know some things I've done would be considered quiet "Taboo" by society but I personally dont care. I think as long as people are adult and concenting, then enjoy

 

[Spinaroonie]

Fucking cinnamon.

 

[Pixie Mischief]

what a mature statement that is spina

 

[Spinaroonie]

what a mature statement that is spina

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