Snowball ...sort of.

[13bones]

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[LadyJeanne]

of course i would and i have, she on the other hand wont kiss me after i have gone down on her, she just runs to the bathroom to clean up and makes me brush and gargle before she kisses me... usually not even then

I'm amazed people keep having sex when they have so many hang-up about it. Talk about a mood killer!

I love kissing my SO after he's gone down on me, and as someone else said, I love going down on him after he's been inside me. Tasting each other, in fact, is often how we refer to oral in the midst of sex play..."I want to taste you now..."

*shakes head*

good luck with your GF.

 

[LadyJeanne]

Yes I would if she would swallow.

Would she kiss me after I eat her wet pussy?

Would you?

Absolutely! All the time!

Well, not YOU, but my SO. See my reply above.

 

[cocktan]

I'm amazed people keep having sex when they have so many hang-up about it. Talk about a mood killer!

I love kissing my SO after he's gone down on me, and as someone else said, I love going down on him after he's been inside me. Tasting each other, in fact, is often how we refer to oral in the midst of sex play..."I want to taste you now..."

*shakes head*

good luck with your GF.

thank you

 

[gemron]

love to kiss her before, during and after. Luv the taste of precum.

 

[Not Normal]

Might be.... but if he thinks it's disgusting or whatever for HIM, why does he expect her to let him cum in her mouth? That sounds like the REAL double standard here.

Boundaries are fine, but they go both ways then....

I think the issue is "re-ingesting" if you will. The odd thing is If something just came out of me, I'm not sure I want it going back in. That's where its can get weird for me anyway.

On the other hand, I don't mind what comes out of a woman (sexually no piss or scat please) going into me.

 

[13bones]

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[Worker11811]

...no piss or scat please...

Urine is sterile when it comes out of the body, the exception being if the person has a urinary tract infection. (In which case, I don't think the person would feel much like having sex.)

Feces is, of course, not sterile, even in the cleanest of situations.

This is not to say that I LIKE putting my mouth near my wife's urinary tract. No. In fact, when you think of it that way, it's pretty gross. But, as long as she takes reasonable hygenic measures, I am not concerned at all.

If, during the course of lovemaking, one of us has to use the bathroom the rule of thumb is to, simply, use a warm, wet washcloth to clean up afterward. In the great scheme of things, it might not make a big difference but we consider it a courtessey to the other person.

The anus is a different story. Touching or fingering or using "toys" is OK, provided the person is reasonably clean, but anal intercourse or putting the mouth near the anus is out of bounds. Buttocks, inner thighs and perineum (taint) are in-bounds if clean.

"Hershey Highway" sex is out! That is probably my only prohibition. (Hang-up, if you will.)

Oral-genital sex and anything else that might come with it is no problem. (Pun intended. )

 

[hippyfreak]

a newbes 2cents: double standards are not ok. i love to go down on my woman and give her a sloppy kiss to share it with her. or finger her and have her taste it. she does this very willingly, tho it dosn't really turn her on. so if she wants a sloppy kiss after swallowing or even with a face or mouth full of spunk, i'll happily oblige. the act in and of itself dosn't do anything for me, but it turns her on which turns me on which makes for hotter sex. i'm thinking about coming on her tits/belly then licking her clean and sharing it back for a real snowball. we'll see how she reacts. also feel free to take this with a grain of salt since we're a little nastier than average probably-she'll suck me after i've been in her ass, and kiss me after i've eaten her ass (up there on my fave things to do to her)

 

[noodlebonce]

stupid double post ...

but while I'm here...

I'd like to add, that the point is to not rinse my mouth, and to not give him a mouth full. Just simple swallow and kiss.

I don't understand why my fellow males don't like it? I love it and have always kissed my partners afterwards and have loved licking their dripping pussy's thick with my own cum. I have many times had my GF hold my legs over my head and finger/dildo my ass while she stroked me to a massive orgasm aiming all, or most, of my load into my mouth. She also got wicked pleasure over spraying it all over me face and all

Now if anyone else would like to share this fun with me feel free to drop me a line

 

[The Gimp]

A man who can consistently be sucked off to orgasm while being blatant about not kissing afterwords must be very good at what he does. That's almost as bold as expecting oral while advertising that you don't give oral at the same time. I wouldn't know what to do with myself if I ended up in a relationship with a person who felt obligated to suck my dick regardless of how I treated her. That would be like having a job that sent me a paycheck even if I didn't show up to work

 

[hippyfreak]

I wouldn't know what to do with myself if I ended up in a relationship with a person who felt obligated to suck my dick regardless of how I treated her. That would be like having a job that sent me a paycheck even if I didn't show up to work

while i would take the paycheck, any relationship in which one partner feels "obligated" to do something doesn't seem like a very healthy relationship. my SO sucks my cock cause she loves it, loves my cock, loves me. i eat her pussy cause i love it, love her pussy, love her. we cumswap cause we're both kinda kinky freaks in love with eachother

 

[ickle_stace]

I'm not the biggest fan of sucking since my ex used to force me to do it to him (long story that i've mentioned before), but I don't expect oral off anyone that i'm with. I told the last guy i slept with that I had a few issues in that way and he said it was cool and I didn't need to go down on him if I was uncomfy with it, but he still wanted to go down on me. Made me feel bad but he said I had no need to cos he loved doing it. But I didn't not kiss him afterwards. He was the 1st guy who's ever given me oral, and it meant alot to me him doing it, so he deserved all the kisses he wanted hehe

 

[eyeretinaeye]

French snowballs

Some many double standards, it's like ok for her to go down on you after being in her, why should any man baulk at performing cunnilingus after climaxing in her. I like it and have done it many times, even better is to climax in her mouth then share a deep french kiss with each other. The know the kind where you feel her tongue slide over yours and mine over hers.

I've always wondered about those men whom thought there cum was not to be shared and only deposited.

 

[KokopelliRises]

Have pixie sticks handy. Have one right after you swallow and it helps, apparently. I was sort of dealing with the same problem and that's how I solved it. Plus pixie sticks are good and one every once in a while, or how often you have sex, will not kill you.

 

[eyeretinaeye]

Double edge swords it sounds like to me, so if she goes down on you afterwards you should being doing the same for her. Nothing is better then a lover which will do the same as he wants to do to them. And snowballs are the best french kisses that there are. My only desire is to share those snowballs while it's still warm. The first time I asked my lover to do this she could not believe it. And when I went down on her after we made love she was like in heaven. Her husband never did this for her ever, she just bloomed like a rose while we were together.

 

[M's girl]

A man who can consistently be sucked off to orgasm while being blatant about not kissing afterwords must be very good at what he does. That's almost as bold as expecting oral while advertising that you don't give oral at the same time. I wouldn't know what to do with myself if I ended up in a relationship with a person who felt obligated to suck my dick regardless of how I treated her. That would be like having a job that sent me a paycheck even if I didn't show up to work

Cool! My thoughts exactly....

 

[ryno23]

I've swallowed hard and drank all kinds of things to get rid of the taste for years now... I'm tired of it, what is so bad about it... stupid hang ups!

I love kissing him after hes gone down on me!

the taste, the consistancy ?

And then I come here, post my mini triumph and everyone is all "hell, I don't mind!" oi !!

His favorite is getting a blowjob, hes the type of guy that almost prefers it to sex ... and I love giving, love love love ... sometimes more then him, if that can be imagined.

I am just so so turned on, and then I have to stop and "rinse" I don't want to snowball him full on, I am conciderate, I swallow (because i want to) I'm never going to ask him to take it in full lol, I understand THAT hang up, and I don't mind it ... I just want kisses, I love his kisses, our kisses ...

maybe next time I'll buy that "good head" gelly creamy stuff at the shop, I don't mind the taste, maybe it'll help him. ::shug::

I'm still not going to ask for a while, poor thing, lol.

And I know there are things that he enjoys and there are things that I enjoy ...that we'll get each other to try a few times, and then stop bec it doesn't give the other pleasure ...

I'm just sharing, venting, asking opinion.

I say, all of those that haven't tasted themselves... do so!

I consider myself to be as straight as they come, but if a woman is gracious enough to give me head and let me come in her mouth I kiss her without hesitation. First, I don't think it's right to expect her to have my cum in her mouth, and ask her to swallow it when I act like the thought of having it in my mouth is repulsive. That's extremely hypocritical. Second, after performing such an intimate act for me how can I shun her? Kissing is infinately more important to a woman than a man. After she's done something that's given me so much pleasure, how can I deny such an easily fulfilled request. Lastly, I've found that in the heat of the moment, it's not a big deal, and is actually a turn on. Just my two cents.

 

[The Gimp]

A while back I asked my girlfriend to make me taste my cum and she responded by treating me to a snowball. Between me and ya'll it wasn't so much that I wanted to taste my own cum but rather I couldn't remember the last time that she had sucked me to orgasm. Since the thought of tasting my own cum doesn't turn me off and the blow job turns me on I figure it's a win win proposition

 

[KnightWing]

How did this get to be a thread about loosening women up to suit men?

Would you kiss your GF after coming in her mouth?

I would be disapointed if she didn't kiss me,,, and deeply!

 

[xknightx]

the snowballing hangup

I read so much about this subject from others who have tried it, and some had the same outcome as me.
My wife has tried many times, but at the end of the orgasm I lose all sensation to do it.
I want to try it so much during, but in the end the feeling just goes like shutting a door.
Not sure exactly why, any suggestions besides just do it?

-just a newbie looking for advice, thanks

 

[BlueSugar]

I read so much about this subject from others who have tried it, and some had the same outcome as me.
My wife has tried many times, but at the end of the orgasm I lose all sensation to do it.
I want to try it so much during, but in the end the feeling just goes like shutting a door.
Not sure exactly why, any suggestions besides just do it?

-just a newbie looking for advice, thanks

I had someone tell me this too. The great release.

Have a conversation with her, and tell her its ok, just swallow most/all of it.
The next time she blows you, do the 5-10minute relax thing, then think of it as a thank you sort of ... lift her chin, smile, look her in the eyes, tell her shes wonderful and beautiful and kiss her.

or... go down on her after she gets you off, work it into 'the routine'... them come up to kiss her... its only fair that everyone shares Then, of course, go back down and almost finish her off -- hopefully you'll both be so turned on -- you'll get hard again ... and the rest I'll leave up to you.

 

[DrHappy]

The brain secretes a large amount of prolactin at orgasm which causes a sudden drop in sex drive. As I guy, I think that it's an odd phenomenon as well. Over the course of one second, things that seemed slippery, sensuous, and wonderful, suddenly become sticky and icky. Don't beat yourself up over it, and I hope that women will be patient with open minded men who inexplicably change their mind at the last second. However, I think that the guy should be kicked in the butt if he doesn't at least try if his girl would really like him to do it.

I read about a study where they found that multi-orgasmic men do not have this release of prolactin at orgasm. Bromocriptine is drug used to treat Parkinson's disease that blocks prolactin release, so in theory this might block the repulsion to slippery substances after orgasm Does he have Parkinson's? If so, then make sure that he takes his medication about an hour before giving him a blowjob I think that vitamin B6 may also have some anti-prolactin effects, but don't quote me on this. Too much B6 can be toxic, so beware.

if you wait long enough, a guy will get his drive back enough to kiss anything. However, I suspect that a girls doesn't won't to wait around with cum on your face for 5-30 minutes Maybe only wipe a little bit next time and work your way up.

 

[Footyman187]

Me Like!

I love kissing and have her atleast swap some cum into my mouth, such a huge turn on! Its soo damn kinky its too much for me! ha!

 

[golferhhi]

To go for it or not???

Yes I do it after my wife swallows and have no problem kissing her deeply. What I would like to try is when she has more in her mouth. Also am deeply interested in having oral sex on her after I cum. The dilemma is it seems to mean that before and during sex I am all fired up to do it and say yes to myself but as soon as I cum all my sexual energy and horniness is gone and alas I dont do it. I have plenty of fantasies of doing it and are fired up about doing it but after cumming those wants vanish.