Small cock psychology

I've always known that I wasn't BIG of course, but it was only recenlty that I realized how truly small I am when soft. Cock size never really mattered to me until a couple years ago. I was chatting with someone, and saw one of his pictures. He was noticably larger than me and for the first time that made me feel (more) submissive.

I'm not sure why it took so long for me to feel that way, but now it's pretty common that when I see someone bigger I feel submissive.
Does it make you want to suck that cock or bend over and take it?
 
I am about 5 1/2". But I could hit the G spot on my wife. Still I wanted her to try larger cocks. We got married right out of high school and were both interested in a little kink so we started doing other couples and threesomes. I think everyone was larger than me. Most were 6 or 7 inches. She does like the larger sizes mainly for their length. But out of all the guys that have fucked her very few ever hit her G spot. One guy and one woman hit her G spot while eating her pussy. She really liked that. I felt very submissive and became a cocksucker...and a sissy. My wife loved the kinkiness and there's not much we haven't done.
 
I'm very average and the majority of cocks I've sucked (more than I can count) are at least slightly larger than me. I've always wondered if my size has anything to do with my lust for cock. Not that I care but just curious. I love sucking off other guys and am glad to be a cocksucker.
 
I'm a bit above average (almost 7"), but I'm not swinging 9" and I'm perfectly content. The guys I've been with have ranged from about 5-6.5" and have been a blast to play with. Honestly, I'm fascinated with smaller cocks and would love to play with a guy on the smaller side. I'd gladly bottom for a smaller guy, I don't think that size should dictate role, although I know that a lot of time that it does
 
I'm a bit above average (almost 7"), but I'm not swinging 9" and I'm perfectly content. The guys I've been with have ranged from about 5-6.5" and have been a blast to play with. Honestly, I'm fascinated with smaller cocks and would love to play with a guy on the smaller side. I'd gladly bottom for a smaller guy, I don't think that size should dictate role, although I know that a lot of time that it does
You are actually well above average but the Lit porno mindset has everyone here thinking that 8 and 9 inch cocks are perfectly normal rather than rarities.
 
You are actually well above average but the Lit porno mindset has everyone here thinking that 8 and 9 inch cocks are perfectly normal rather than rarities.
Very fair point-I definitely occupy a good spot on the bell curve.

To be honest, outside of porno, I didn't really have an honest concept of cock size until I started fantasizing/playing with men. Men aren't really exposed to hard cocks IRL, so they don't know the variation in cock size and that an "average sized" cock is still plenty! Even when it comes to exhibitionist posts of "real" guys online, it always seems to be the larger guys that like to show off, you don't get a true representation of average, either in size or the number of guys who are average.
 
Very fair point-I definitely occupy a good spot on the bell curve.

To be honest, outside of porno, I didn't really have an honest concept of cock size until I started fantasizing/playing with men. Men aren't really exposed to hard cocks IRL, so they don't know the variation in cock size and that an "average sized" cock is still plenty! Even when it comes to exhibitionist posts of "real" guys online, it always seems to be the larger guys that like to show off, you don't get a true representation of average, either in size or the number of guys who are average.
Yeah, all the guys with 4,5,6 inch cocks are not showing off their goods. I used to have people asking me to show them my average sized dick and I would ask them, really? Why?
 
Yeah, all the guys with 4,5,6 inch cocks are not showing off their goods. I used to have people asking me to show them my average sized dick and I would ask them, really? Why?
I wish more would! Sometimes it's not just the size that's appealing-the shape, how hard it is, the veins, dripping precum...I find all of those things incredibly hot!
 
Not to mention (and this may be controversial) the person that it’s connected too.
I often think that even if my gf did not have a big one, I would still want to see her dick because it is HERS! I love her and I love every part of her body especially my special friend.
 
Sometimes it's not just the size that's appealing-the shape, how hard it is, the veins, dripping precum...I find all of those things incredibly hot!
Exactly!!! Or maybe it's hot simply because it's a cock!!!

Let me confess up front that I'm something of a size queen. I really love a big cock that makes me choke, though I've only experienced a couple such men. But with one exception (because he was a bit of a jerk, not because his penis was too small), I've enjoyed the others just as much, even though they were just average or even less than average in size.

If it's clean and not attached to a jerk, I'm ready to get down.

By the way, I'm only 5 or 5.5 inches long, depending how ambitious I feel. And the only person to complain has been my wife, who says I'm too big :unsure:
 
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