Small cock psychology

[CharlieBoker]

Late 50s, 100% bisexual here, with a small cock.

I find it very interesting that over the years, I've always been a little self conscious about my size with a new female partner but it absolutely never bothered me with a male.

In reality, I never had any complaints and I had plenty of repeat girlfriend fuck buddies, so I don't think the sex was lacking. Never the less though, the slight mental discomfort of being smaller than average never left me when I was fucking girls. Pure conditioning, I know, but there you go.

By contrast, with men, my size seemed to fuel the arousal for both parties and therefore I've always felt super comfortable about it.

I guess that with my gay side generally manifesting as being a cocksucker and bottom by true nature, I was always happier to drop into the role of the sub with the smaller cock, submitting to the bigger alpha. My hard little cock and the size difference between us, was actually part of the thrill for some of my bigger male partners and thus made me feel sexy too.

Sexual psychology is so interesting.

That's all

 

[BillyWalrus]

I was always happier to drop into the role of the sub with the smaller cock, submitting to the bigger alpha. My hard little cock and the size difference between us, was actually part of the thrill for some of my bigger male partners and thus made me feel sexy too.

Exactly how it is with my trans gf. My cock is just average but she is a good two inches bigger or more. She is a pure top and she says her big cock gives her the right to fuck me whenever she wants. Fine with me!

 

[BInowGay]

I prefer guys with smaller cocks, it's much easier to give a proper blowjob or take anal with them

 

[1960curious]

What is considered small?
I am about 5.5 in long and 5 inches around.

 

[tampdown]

Nice proportions.

 

[tall758]

What is considered small?
I am about 5.5 in long and 5 inches around.

Did I write this? Looks like it. Actually, I really enjoy smaller cocks, especially attached to older guys. I sucked a guy in a theater one time that had a cock about the size of my middle finger (in length and width). Boy did he fill my mouth with cum!

These days, shorter but thick cocks are really fun to suck. I enjoy taking a guy until my nose is pressed against him, then I open my mouth a bit wider and give his balls a tongue bath while continuing to suck him.

 

[t1m1d1]

I prefer guys with smaller cocks, it's much easier to give a proper blowjob or take anal with them

I love blowing any size but smaller is easier to suck deeply. But I like bigger cocks when being fucked.

 

[Rodian77]

Late 50s, 100% bisexual here, with a small cock.

I find it very interesting that over the years, I've always been a little self conscious about my size with a new female partner but it absolutely never bothered me with a male.

In reality, I never had any complaints and I had plenty of repeat girlfriend fuck buddies, so I don't think the sex was lacking. Never the less though, the slight mental discomfort of being smaller than average never left me when I was fucking girls. Pure conditioning, I know, but there you go.

By contrast, with men, my size seemed to fuel the arousal for both parties and therefore I've always felt super comfortable about it.

I guess that with my gay side generally manifesting as being a cocksucker and bottom by true nature, I was always happier to drop into the role of the sub with the smaller cock, submitting to the bigger alpha. My hard little cock and the size difference between us, was actually part of the thrill for some of my bigger male partners and thus made me feel sexy too.

Sexual psychology is so interesting.

That's all

Cock size doesn't matter to me.

 

[2wayroad]

I’ve always been small when soft. When I was younger, my cock would get much, much larger when hard, 7.5x6, sometimes a little bigger. But I was always self conscious of it’s flaccid state. I got many comments on the amazing size differences. Then at 45 or so, ED began and quickly got worse. Now in my 50s, the best I can manage is about 4.5 semi hard inches, and maybe 3” around, even with yellow or blue meds. My balls have really shrunk too. Urologist says my cock is good. Prob doesn’t believe how big I used to get.

I’m still self conscious about it’s flaccid size. I mean, it looks like a micro penis. Good thing I’ve found happiness as a bottom. But I miss those rock hard thick hard ons that I couldn’t even get my thumb and middle finger around.

The only prob with being that thick, with a fat head to go with it, was that there wen’t many asses I could get into, and fewer who tolerated it. Pussy was mostly a good fit, some were uncomfortably small, but no pussy is near as exciting as drilling a willing ass, or fucking a hungry mouth. Now I’m the willing one, and too self conscious to even try and vers activity. The last guy who sucked me off, asked If I came after I shot my load. That was a confidence bust.

Now, I know my cock is small. I mean really small. Don’t know why it atrophied so much. These days I love looking down and seeing a big dick in my ass, while my little limp dick does nothing. I’ve gladly accepted my role as a limp dick cocksucker who takes it up the ass.

 

[PollyGons]

I’ve always been small when soft. When I was younger, my cock would get much, much larger when hard, 7.5x6, sometimes a little bigger. But I was always self conscious of it’s flaccid state. I got many comments on the amazing size differences. Then at 45 or so, ED began and quickly got worse. Now in my 50s, the best I can manage is about 4.5 semi hard inches, and maybe 3” around, even with yellow or blue meds. My balls have really shrunk too. Urologist says my cock is good. Prob doesn’t believe how big I used to get.

I’m still self conscious about it’s flaccid size. I mean, it looks like a micro penis. Good thing I’ve found happiness as a bottom. But I miss those rock hard thick hard ons that I couldn’t even get my thumb and middle finger around.

The only prob with being that thick, with a fat head to go with it, was that there wen’t many asses I could get into, and fewer who tolerated it. Pussy was mostly a good fit, some were uncomfortably small, but no pussy is near as exciting as drilling a willing ass, or fucking a hungry mouth. Now I’m the willing one, and too self conscious to even try and vers activity. The last guy who sucked me off, asked If I came after I shot my load. That was a confidence bust.

Now, I know my cock is small. I mean really small. Don’t know why it atrophied so much. These days I love looking down and seeing a big dick in my ass, while my little limp dick does nothing. I’ve gladly accepted my role as a limp dick cocksucker who takes it up the ass.

Cock size really doesn’t matter to most people I would say. And it’s also worth noting that the most common size is probably not so different from yours.

What is hot about your post though ia your happiness with your role. A sense of confidence in and acceptance of what you are ia very sexy.

 

[Jonnymc]

Well I will put it this way no cock is what you want to be, for a small cock and getting rock hard, and for a long cock that is floppy and soft erect, short dick fast thrusting, long dick slow thrusting, so if it's all about who can deliver the most miles of dick the fast short thrust deliver more dick ,

 

[2wayroad]

Cock size really doesn’t matter to most people I would say. And it’s also worth noting that the most common size is probably not so different from yours.

What is hot about your post though ia your happiness with your role. A sense of confidence in and acceptance of what you are ia very sexy.

Thanks for the kind words. No, it’s very much small now. I would make a very good fem boi, or sissy if I lost 30 pounds and 30 years.

Part of me wishes I would have done that then, but at the dawn of the Internet I had no idea how to access what was needed to be passable. So, I pretended I was straight, with brief and cautious times out of the closet. But I got hit on, or simply asked enough, that I figured I must have had gay boy stamped on me somewhere.

 

[Busy54]

I have a small, 4” penis, when erect. It seems the natural order of things that I bottom for the larger manly cocks. I completely embrace my role of satisfying large cock men.

 

[BillyWalrus]

I have a small, 4” penis, when erect. It seems the natural order of things that I bottom for the larger manly cocks. I completely embrace my role of satisfying large cock men.

That is what my trans gf says but then I think she would be a top even if she had an average sized dick. Still, she loves having a big one and uses it like a man. So my job is to be her "woman" and provide the holes she uses for her satisfaction.

 

[cubbyfire04]

I have a small, 4” penis, when erect. It seems the natural order of things that I bottom for the larger manly cocks. I completely embrace my role of satisfying large cock men.

About the same size here... and bottoming for a larger man is certainly a thrill. Few things hotter to me than comparing sizes especially when he pulls out of me when I'm on my back and rubs it against mine. I'll absolutely melt if he takes my entire cock and balls in his hand to use as a handle when he fucks me.

That being said, I do prefer a smaller cock to suck so I can take all of him with enthusiasm... they also seem to produce the biggest loads

 

[Dave1812]

I've accepted that mine is small at 4 1/2 inches and my wife needs a bullet vibe to get off when I fuck her. We laugh about it's smallness...hence my fascination with cocks bigger than mine.

 

[Jeph77]

I've accepted that mine is small at 4 1/2 inches and my wife needs a bullet vibe to get off when I fuck her. We laugh about it's smallness...hence my fascination with cocks bigger than mine.

You realize how much that big-cocked dude is amused by your small erection as you explore his big johnson.

 

[Justme5757]

I have a small, 4” penis, when erect. It seems the natural order of things that I bottom for the larger manly cocks. I completely embrace my role of satisfying large cock men.

4" , that is sexy hot. I'm bi and love small cocks

 

[Whispor]

I feel like I could write a book about how being significantly smaller than average despite being attractive, masculine, and otherwise "normal" has affected me all throughout my life. The psychology of a man with a small penis like me is... complicated.

 

[tampdown]

I feel like I could write a book about how being significantly smaller than average despite being attractive, masculine, and otherwise "normal" has affected me all throughout my life. The psychology of a man with a small penis like me is... complicated.

If you find your niche, it could be a world of excitement and orgasms.

 

[klippert]

thank the porn industry for the cock-size anxiety. I see it like golf. The tee markers are for your ability. Doesn’t mean you’re not good at golf. You just can’t hit it as big as the other guy… best part about this theory is; when women started playing golf. Men started lying about their handicap.
Is what it is. Billions have been spent on make my dick bigger potions. I’ve been with hung bottoms. And ya, there is something about holding a big thick cock, plus I love hearing my wife’s big cock experiences. That said. Her perspective on cock size is what gave me my confidence back. Because I had that anxiety. I’m 5.875 (rounded up). Her thoughts were…how thick my cock is, is what gets her going. And she was and still is stunned at the amount of cum I produced. (Different topic)
My girth is the same response I got from the men I’ve had.
Try this. The next time you are reading a M/M lit story. Before you start. Play this little game. Guess that The object male in the story. His cock is 8”. That seems to be the goto number. As far as that. Keep healthy. If you want your small to medium sized cock to work. Your dick is directly linked to your health. Not the size. The ability to get it up and keep it up. And that’s actually a bigger unspoken topic; P/E.

 

[liqueur]

I feel like I could write a book about how being significantly smaller than average despite being attractive, masculine, and otherwise "normal" has affected me all throughout my life. The psychology of a man with a small penis like me is... complicated.

Is this the whispor I was friends with years ago? (Not sure about the spelling) Please PM me if this is you...

 

[liqueur]

I don't know if this is relevant to the rest of you or not. I'm pretty average size, myself— maybe a bit larger than average when I was younger. But what's always fascinated me is how effectively a woman can convince any man his cock is too small, if she chooses to.

Whether the man looks to her for reassurance, or to be humiliated, it puts her in a position of great power, should she choose to use it.

 

[BillyWalrus]

I don't know if this is relevant to the rest of you or not. I'm pretty average size, myself— maybe a bit larger than average when I was younger. But what's always fascinated me is how effectively a woman can convince any man his cock is too small, if she chooses to.

Whether the man looks to her for reassurance, or to be humiliated, it puts her in a position of great power, should she choose to use it.

True. I have a perfectly average sized cock but put it up against my girlfriend's seven plus inches, it definitely looks small!

 

[panty_chap]

I've always known that I wasn't BIG of course, but it was only recenlty that I realized how truly small I am when soft. Cock size never really mattered to me until a couple years ago. I was chatting with someone, and saw one of his pictures. He was noticably larger than me and for the first time that made me feel (more) submissive.

I'm not sure why it took so long for me to feel that way, but now it's pretty common that when I see someone bigger I feel submissive.