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i actually woke up this morning, masturbating, and very very close to cumming... lucky my girlfriend didnt notice 
longtimerod
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This happened to me once, before my wife and I were married. It was not as pleasant as a regular fuck, but it was great for my ego that she wanted me that badly.
Something totally different that might be fun to try: start fucking and then try going to sleep. We've tried this a few times and succeeded once. The one time it worked out, we'd go at it for a while, go to sleep while still hooked up, wake up a minute later and go at it for just a bit, then go back to sleep. Did it a few times. The nice thing was that each time, the first motion was really, really nice.
Of course, it certainly gets to a point where you can't stop fucking, and that's certainly OK!
Something totally different that might be fun to try: start fucking and then try going to sleep. We've tried this a few times and succeeded once. The one time it worked out, we'd go at it for a while, go to sleep while still hooked up, wake up a minute later and go at it for just a bit, then go back to sleep. Did it a few times. The nice thing was that each time, the first motion was really, really nice.
Of course, it certainly gets to a point where you can't stop fucking, and that's certainly OK!
Etaski
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Oh, lots of experience here....
One of my hubby's most delightful quirks is his sleephumping; you are not alone! (and frankly he might be glad to hear neither is he). There have been a few times where I just wanted to SLEEP, so I'd push him away, he'd grumble in his sleep, turn over, and wouldn't remember it the next morning. But most of the time I find it thrilling in its spontaneity; like he is overcome with lust and rips my panties off. ("Oh Romeo! I drive you that mad, do I? Quickly, kiss me, you fool!")
He remembers his dreams, and he says it is usually started with an erotic dream. He usually wakes up mid-coitus, but it is hard for me to tell when exactly--he moans/growls/talks sexy the same as he does when he's definitely awake.
I'm sure some medical-type-person could diagnose it as a "disorder", but it's not one I particularly think needs "fixing" (even if they could). I suppose it can be unnerving to the gentleman in question, perhaps a feeling like loss of control, I dunno. I am usually eagerly accepting and regail (?) him with tales of his conquests in the morning, though he takes turns being flattered or embarrassed (and occasionally bewildered if he never woke up). But truly, I find it such an endearing quality that I had to laugh when Cosmo ran an article that described sleepinghumping (not their word!) as if it could *only* be rape. "Could YOU be the next Victim?!?!" *Pfeh* on sensationalist media.
It is all in the particular relationship. If it worries either partner, then see what can be done. I have no suggestions, I'm afraid, I never looked into it. I happen to love it, because I dive right into that "loss of control" with him. It's sexy....I'm rather glad to see others guys have the quality.
One of my hubby's most delightful quirks is his sleephumping; you are not alone! (and frankly he might be glad to hear neither is he). There have been a few times where I just wanted to SLEEP, so I'd push him away, he'd grumble in his sleep, turn over, and wouldn't remember it the next morning. But most of the time I find it thrilling in its spontaneity; like he is overcome with lust and rips my panties off. ("Oh Romeo! I drive you that mad, do I? Quickly, kiss me, you fool!")
He remembers his dreams, and he says it is usually started with an erotic dream. He usually wakes up mid-coitus, but it is hard for me to tell when exactly--he moans/growls/talks sexy the same as he does when he's definitely awake.
I'm sure some medical-type-person could diagnose it as a "disorder", but it's not one I particularly think needs "fixing" (even if they could). I suppose it can be unnerving to the gentleman in question, perhaps a feeling like loss of control, I dunno. I am usually eagerly accepting and regail (?) him with tales of his conquests in the morning, though he takes turns being flattered or embarrassed (and occasionally bewildered if he never woke up). But truly, I find it such an endearing quality that I had to laugh when Cosmo ran an article that described sleepinghumping (not their word!) as if it could *only* be rape. "Could YOU be the next Victim?!?!" *Pfeh* on sensationalist media.
It is all in the particular relationship. If it worries either partner, then see what can be done. I have no suggestions, I'm afraid, I never looked into it. I happen to love it, because I dive right into that "loss of control" with him. It's sexy....I'm rather glad to see others guys have the quality.
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Mr.L.J.M
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well it is encouraging to hear that i am not alone with this one. i think that my problem has to do with the fact that i havent been having any sort of sexual release for a while now and sleeping with my girlfriend can be hard because i am so turned on by her, though she hasnt been in the mood at all lately to oblige (which is totally fine with me, i try hard to understand.)
my biggest problem is she HATES my slumber humping. it really annoys her as her sleep is very important to her. i have been trying so hard lately to stop doing it, like falling asleep with the only thought on my mind being...STAY ON YOUR SIDE OF THE BED BUDDY!.... and she hasnt said anything to me the next morning about my roaming hands... so hopefully that means i have been good. it does make me feel like a dirty sexually minded pervert- "even sleep wont stop me from getting laid."
thanks for the suport anyway guys. did make me feel somewhat better about a bit of a sensitive subject for me. Cheers
my biggest problem is she HATES my slumber humping. it really annoys her as her sleep is very important to her. i have been trying so hard lately to stop doing it, like falling asleep with the only thought on my mind being...STAY ON YOUR SIDE OF THE BED BUDDY!.... and she hasnt said anything to me the next morning about my roaming hands... so hopefully that means i have been good. it does make me feel like a dirty sexually minded pervert- "even sleep wont stop me from getting laid."
thanks for the suport anyway guys. did make me feel somewhat better about a bit of a sensitive subject for me. Cheers
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