Slightly different question about turn-ons...

[Bono13]

I would really like to know about you, turned on.

I mean really, really turned on. Salivating, growling, ready-to-pounce turned on.

What does it take to get you that worked up?
How often does it happen?
What exactly do you feel?
What do you think? (in case all thinking ceases during turn on: what are your thoughts leading up to the turn on?)

Why do I ask? Curiosity, of course. Also, I'd like to be able to get myself and my girlfriend worked up more and more often, so I'm hoping for some inspiration.

Thanks!

 

[SweetErika]

The best way to get your gf worked up is to ask HER what really turns her on and experiment, paying close attention to her reactions. Try having a "no sex" session where all you do is touch each other in different ways and communicate how things feel.

If you really want ideas from others in addition to that, do a title search for all dates for 'turn*' and check The Blank Manual sticky - there are quite a few endless threads on the topic out there already.

 

[sunandshadow]

For me roleplay or reading a story/watching a movie is pretty much required to get to state of being extremely turned on. The theme should involve some sort of desperation for sex or love or a particular person, and some sort of forbiddenness (but not violence or danger). I know that some people are turned off by roleplay though, and other people prefer to roleplay violence and danger, so the 'answer' to your question is going to totally vary by individual, as Erika suggests.

 

[RedCherries05]

Lots of really deep kissing, does it for me everytime! It can be as simple as that. Or some great, really slow phone sex.

 

[Darla_Darling]

A really good argument turns me on more than anything. I don't mean a dispute with personal attacks, but a heated intellectual discussion with opposing sides.

 

[Bono13]

Wow, Darla, I hadn't ever considered that a possible turn-on! That's hot!

Thanks for the replies everyone.