slight problem

[Guest]

I have a little problem. The classic "it happens to al guys" story. I can't seem to keep my cock hard when my g/f and I start going at it. Any other time of the day the little captin can get to full attention. Please give m a little advice.

 

[Guest]

More than likely it is a medical problem.... Are you over 35? It starts happening to all men at about that age. Is your blood pressure slightly high? Have you been drinking a little too much, a little too often? Do you have any new stress in your life?
Get to a doctor soon so you can stop worrying!
Like you said yourself; it happens to ALL men at some point.

Good luck!

 

[Anher]

I've recently discovered I'm having a similar problem. Getting aroused for the first go around is no problem but after that I tend to have to take a break for a half an hour at least. Not that this would be a problem normally there are just days when both my wife and I would like to keep going without any interruptions.

I'm wondering if this couldn't be stress or perhaps diet related, any help or advice would be appriciated.

 

[Blackbich]

I have a little problem. The classic "it happens to al guys" story. I can't seem to keep my cock hard when my g/f and I start going at it. Any other time of the day the little captin can get to full attention. Please give m a little advice.

I'd need more information but is this the only time your little captain doesn't stand at full attention? If so, I'd say (the amateur psychiatrist that I am) it's more about your relationship. Study it indepth. Most people aren't willing to acknowledge when there's something wrong. Has she cheated on you in the past? Is there trust issues there? Have you been mistreated in a relationship before? Etc, Etc, Etc. These are all things you need to look at and you'll have to scratch beneath the surface. If you can't find anything that you can see, check with a doctor but the fact that you are able to get hard at other times and the only time you can't 'keep it up' is when you're with her, I'd say it's not physiological, it's psychological.

Originally posted by Unregistered
More than likely it is a medical problem....

If this were the case, the little soldier wouldn't stand at attention at other times as well.

Originally posted by Anher
I've recently discovered I'm having a similar problem. Getting aroused for the first go around is no problem but after that I tend to have to take a break for a half an hour at least. Not that this would be a problem normally there are just days when both my wife and I would like to keep going without any interruptions.

I'm wondering if this couldn't be stress or perhaps diet related, any help or advice would be appriciated.

This isn't quite the same problem as Unregistered's. You are able to at least achieve an erection. This could be medically related stress, diet or age. Yes, for all of you studlies out there, the body cannot keep up once you pass a certain age and no matter how much you try, you will not be able to achieve a constant erection or more than one erection per day/night. Well, unless you use Viagra.

 

[Anher]

This isn't quite the same problem as Unregistered's. You are able to at least achieve an erection. This could be medically related stress, diet or age.

Thanks much, though I would hope it isn't related to age as I'm only in my mid-twenties. So I'm willing to bet stress or diet at this point. Time to sit down and talk to my wife and see if we can't ferret out any hidden stresses and maybe look into changing my diet.

 

[Guest]

Stress...

Can be a strong factor here. I've known male friends who have had trouble getting hard when with their significant others, but then having no trouble when alone. And trust me, these have never been the type of guys who would cheat or even distrust their women. And, from talking to them, I know they care about their women deeply, so it's not a lack of love or desire in he relationship.

Take a look at what's going on in your life. Have you had any recent work or home life changes? Could your age be getting up there, some, and you're entering a mid-life crisis?

Blackbich, too, had some really good things written there...some great advice. Good luck to you. I really think that the less you worry about it the better things will become for you.