slave barbells

[cymbidia]

I think someone wants me to prove it's me in the pics... ~g~
Okay.
I'm game.
Before and after pics; uncontestable proof enough?


CH, while i appreciate the helpful advice, i *cannot* keep them in because i'd be unable to keep them hidden to the degree i need to do that.

In any case, it's not the end result of the piercing process that we're after. What we seek, He and i, is mostly to give voice and action to the trust that has flowed so fully between us but been so injured in the last few months. We want to feel, again, the twined, pulsing heat of perfectly matched submission and Dominance when view through the focus and sensation of pain. We want a reestablishment of injured intimacy, and a shared touching into a place we've only ever gone with each other. It's really not about the slave bars at all.

Besides, i have a pierced clit hood that he did months ago; it never comes out (and he'll be changing my 14ga ring for a 10ga this weekend, too). Additionally, i have my memories of a number of other piercings he's done on me; i wrote it into a Lit story, actually, complete with pics.

I'm pretty aware of who i am with regard to him, and to the rest of the world. A little bit of metal in my nipples won't make much of a difference in my view of myself in any respect.

 

[Guest]

If I may ask...

 

[batter]

Cym, you know i admire you but i wont be looking forward to the pics mainly because i have a great phobia of needles and i am afraid if i look at the before and after pics i will pass out and ruin the keyboard when my face drops onto it from passing out.

the hair on my neck is standing up now just thinking about the piercing...i wish you well when you get it done.

 

[cymbidia]

MH - talking and time, yes, but more germane to our situation is the fact that both he and i are very experienced in this lifestyle. We've both tested ourselves and our needs over years and years of, in part, seeking internal truths via the outward expression of our BDSM-focused sexuality. We've both had numerous other partners in our lives, before we met each other, and each of them has helped us, individually, fine-tune our set of wants, needs, and desires.

He and i met each other via pure quixotic chance. We meshed because something bigger than both of us flowed between us from almost the very beginning - and we were sophisticated, adult, and experienced enough to realize how rare and unique it is. It's at that point that talking and time came into play. Simply put, we were ready for each other at the same time.

The trust is a function of my being his submissive and his being my Dominant. Deep trust and soul-baring truth are the two absolutely essential ingredients for any healthy long-lasting BDSM relationship. Without those, it's just and only kinky sex. (Um, not that there's anything at all wrong with "just" kinky sex!)



batter, you make me laugh. Don't look at anything that makes you feel bad. Don't do anything that isn't comfy. Don't participate in anything that makes the hair stand up on the back of your neck. That's just nature's way of telling you something's wrong (for you). And heck, why pass out and get key imprints on your face. That's never a pretty sight.

 

[Mensa]

Here we go again!

Twenty-four hours to go, cym, just twenty-four!

 

[cymbidia]

Re: Here we go again!

Twenty-four hours to go, cym, just twenty-four!

How extraordinarily helpful you are, darlin. Thanks, so much.


22, now

 

[Merelan]

How long now? Only a matter of a few hours?
Nervous? Excited? Tummy doing flips? Heart racing?
Soul burning for his touch, his mind, his will?

 

[cymbidia]

oh gods... yes...

... about 16 hours ...

 

[Mensa]

The heat is on!

Time is growing short, cym, can you feel it?
And don't think I didn't see that thread whereby you asked how to change pictures in order to download them. If you're going to try and weasel out with some wussy claim that they won't download properly, be warned, we won't have it! A promise is a promise! WE WANT PICS!

 

[RisiaSkye]

Risia darlin, for a nilla, i believe you know just a little too much about how all this could be working behind the scenes, so to speak. You got anything to confess? C'mon...

Now Cym, darling, who ever told you I was vanilla? I'm sugar and spice. (Actually, I'm a switch. I'm just quiet about it, mostly )

I wish you a profoundly intimate weekend, the kind of sublime that's so hard to achieve. Blessings to you (both).

 

[Silverlily]

Look what I found, lost and lonely on page two!


Are you down to counting the seconds yet?

 

[Wizard]

Okay, I'm curious, too. Before and after pics, PLEASE!

Count me in also I too would love to see before and after please............Teach us...........

 

[cymbidia]

Are you listening Cheyenne, O Goddess of Magic Lotion???

A horrible thing just happened. Horrible. Terrible. I might sound rational at the moment but i'm actually sorta freaked out.

I've been hearing such glowing reports about Magic Lotion here for so long but just stuck by my trusty razor and shaving cream. Well, with the Big Weekend almost here (six hours... six hours... gods my heart is racing... i don't think it can do this for the next six hours...) , i decided the time was NOW to be a little daring, to try something new, to be adventurous - and i was out of fresh blades, too.

I'd picked up some Magic Lotion awhile back, just on the strength of such glowing recommendations here, but hadn't used it. Since i *need* to be smooth as a nectarine tonight, and since i am out of fresh blades, i thought it was a good time to break out of the old and into the new.

About 15 minutes ago, i read the directions and carefully did what i was supposed to do.(Minus the test patch.) (HEY! You would have done the same. Everyone loves this stuff, right?)

About two minutes, maybe, into the sitting-and-waiting time, it was burning. That little experiment with wart remover is still pretty fresh in my mind and so i hurried into the shower and washed the burning stuff off with good old mild, unscented Dove soap. It was still burning I](but it did feel smoother!!! ~g~)[/I] .

I got out, dried off, and looked in the mirror.

There is a very sore-looking, very red, swollen rash all over the whole area. Part of it is even oozing a bit of blood.

Six hours. He's gonna be here in six hours and my privates look like i have some bizarre nasty disease. Don't you think i should have learned by now NOT to smear anything of unknown toxicity anywhere onto my skin? Gods, i *am* a dumb blonde sometimes, i guess.

So now i'm sitting here, naked, aloe slathered all over the area, wondering what the HELL i'm going to do about this in the next couple of hours and writing my little tale of woe to all who pass this way.

Moral of the story: As with wart remover, if you have particularly sensitive skin, don't use Magic Lotion.

At least my breasts weren't involved in the whole stupid process of once more injuring myself via common household products. The piercing can go as planned.

 

[RisiaSkye]

Last minute panic

Cym: I have the same problem, ridiculously sensitive skin. Try a washing off the aloe for a while (blocks pores), and using a little bit of calomine lotion. It *should* settle down the rash, and at least decrease the blotchy-red-bumpy thing a good deal. Don't leave it on long, cuz it's really drying, but it really helps. Don't panic. If you can get your blood pressure down, that'll help too, as dumb as that sounds.

 

[Wizard]

Well.........................Update please.................

 

[Mensa]

The clock is ticking!

Your date with destiny draws ever closer!

 

[Cheyenne]

Re: Are you listening Cheyenne, O Goddess of Magic Lotion???

I'd picked up some Magic Lotion awhile back, just on the strength of such glowing recommendations here, but hadn't used it. Since i *need* to be smooth as a nectarine tonight, and since i am out of fresh blades, i thought it was a good time to break out of the old and into the new.

About 15 minutes ago, i read the directions and carefully did what i was supposed to do.(Minus the test patch.) (HEY! You would have done the same. Everyone loves this stuff, right?)

About two minutes, maybe, into the sitting-and-waiting time, it was burning. That little experiment with wart remover is still pretty fresh in my mind and so i hurried into the shower and washed the burning stuff off with good old mild, unscented Dove soap. It was still burning I](but it did feel smoother!!! ~g~)[/I] .

I got out, dried off, and looked in the mirror.

There is a very sore-looking, very red, swollen rash all over the whole area. Part of it is even oozing a bit of blood.

YOU DIDN'T DO THE TEST PATCH????

OMG! I'm sorry you had a problem with Magic, but I've never ever recommended anyone just "use" it without doing that test patch! Just the opposite, I always stress that people need to follow ALL of the directions! Especially the test patch! You also missed the part about not using soap to wash it off- just clear water. Soap would also make it burn, I think. How is your pussy this morning?

And are the piercings done yet? Still curious to see those pictures.

 

[BlondGirl]

Come on, Cym, when are you gonna cough up the promised goods??????

Subs should not tease, remember?
; )

 

[Guest]

The barbells are a done deal.

Nothing good is ever done quickly; cym and I drug the piercing out for hours.

She's sending the pics to Harold now to be cropped and resized. We'll post them after that's done.

MS

 

[Weird Harold]

Re: The barbells are a done deal.

She's sending the pics to Harold now to be cropped and resized. We'll post them after that's done.

Done and sent back in a zip file. If that doesn't cause a problem, then they should be up as soon as Cym and MS wake up in the morning.

 

[Cheyenne]

I'm going back to bed, but now I have something to look forward to later in the morning!

 

[cymbidia]

Who needs sleep?

Okay.
Don't look if you're squeamish.



(Edit: Sorry - my brain is on overload and i'm screwing this posting process all to hell. I'll get it right at some point...)

 

[cymbidia]

more...

The uppermost ring is brand new. He does piercings on himself and me - and others, too.

 

[cymbidia]

Like i said, brand new...

 

[cymbidia]

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