Sizes?!

[Nymphobiguy]

Ok- age old question:
Does size really matter?? I've had some woman tell me that I'm perfect 1 actually laughed at me (yeah that still hurts) and I've had others say nothing, then I've been told I make up for it by my oral skills?!
I mean what you woman want??? lol. Just trying to get some input here on what you ladies/guys think... I appreciate in advance the feedback

 

[bullus]

Depends on the woman really. But from my experience:

I've been with 4 ladies who told me they've never been able to orgasm from vaginal intercourse. Come to find out later that the men were smaller in size. I don't have a gargantuan penis, but I was able to make them all cum multiple times. I'm not a sexual genius, but I am above average in size. I do believe that size matters to a degree, and ability matters to a degree.

 

[Nymphobiguy]

Depends on the woman really. But from my experience:

I've been with 4 ladies who told me they've never been able to orgasm from vaginal intercourse. Come to find out later that the men were smaller in size. I don't have a gargantuan penis, but I was able to make them all cum multiple times. I'm not a sexual genius, but I am above average in size. I do believe that size matters to a degree, and ability matters to a degree.

Ahhh. Ok. Guess I just get discouraged by all the men I've seen that r hung and just seems like I'm always the "smaller" of the bunch… but what you said makes sense. Thanks!!

 

[LindsayRae]

Ok- age old question:
Does size really matter??

There were mixed answers when this question has been asked (a lot) in the past. Seems most people do say "no" and offer their reasons why. You may enjoy searching on the topic.

 

[Nymphobiguy]

There were mixed answers when this question has been asked (a lot) in the past. Seems most people do say "no" and offer their reasons why. You may enjoy searching on the topic.

Thank u Hun!!

 

[LindsayRae]

No prob.

 

[Stella_Omega]

Once upon a time I had a rather small boyfriend-- about 4 inches if I recall. Thing is, he hit my Gspot on Every. Single. Stroke.

He never really understood what i was trying to tell him about that. he was absolutely convinced that he was too small to satisfy a woman. Stupid fuck.

get yourself educated about sexual anatomy, (now that it's possible to do so) and learn where to point that dick. A big fat dick will hit a gspot by accident, basically. Those guys don't have to learn much in the way of finesse, and mostly they hardly ever do. Once their woman gets bored with the hungahunga humping, what've they got for her?

Some other techniques;

Frottage. Women do this with each other, and men do this with each other, but there's no reason at all that a man and a woman can't do it too, hold each other tight and close, and ride each other's thigh. It's far more intimate than you'd expect. And it puts more emphasis on each person's orgasm, if one of you comes first, there's no need to stop right away-- just help the other person finish their ride.

If your hands are on the small side for a guy, you can fist most women, which bigger men can't do. Who cares about a big lump of a dick when your pussy is filled to bursting with a clever, sensitive hand!

And if you also know how to apply suction and pressure orally-- you are solid gold, man.

 

[PaulBlart]

O.K., I'm not Mr. Experience and I'm certainly not hung like a horse. I'm about average, or so I've read. The women I have been with have appreciated my oral skills more than anything. My wife (who incidentally was quite a slut) has never been shy about telling me all about past partners and experiences (often more detail than I want to know). She told me she had a guy once who had probably close to 10 inches, many who were thick and in the 7-8inch neighborhood and that she'd never been able to have an orgasm during intercourse with any of them. I'm in the 6 1/2 inch neighborhood. She came 4 times the first time we had sex (the last was a simultaneous orgasm with mine that completely blew both of us away) and that was just from penetration. She told me it was different with me because she was just incredibly attracted to me and was more relaxed and at ease. I don't think she told me I was the first she came with to make me feel good. As we were basking in the afterglow of that simultaneous orgasm, she told me all about the time she sucked 6 guys' dicks in a row in the men's room while she was in college.

 

[WastelandVoice]

Yeah I think it really depends on the woman and what she likes and the man's ability to work with what he's got.

There's always going to be women who prefer larger dicks but there's also women who prefer guys on the smaller or more average side.

I look at it this way- There's always going to be men that like big breasts but there's just as many of us who prefer the smaller ones or don't care as much about the size as long as they "work," so to speak.

Also, if you're skilled orally, that certainly helps as well.

Either way, if you're giving your girlfriend orgasms and she seems to genuinely enjoy sex- I wouldn't worry about it too much.

 

[Bwtie123]

7 inches here with a slight curve... never hade any complaints!

 

[StaciRay79]

is this question going to keep getting asked until the guys finally hear someone say "Yes, size is the most important thing?"

 

[IamTom42]

It problably will be...and when we don't like the answer we will think youre kidding.lol

 

[Interested_Girl]

It problably will be...and when we don't like the answer we will think youre kidding.lol

This is so true!

 

[saskatuna1]

is this question going to keep getting asked until the guys finally hear someone say "Yes, size is the most important thing?"

no, that'll just start another discussion entirely.

Blergh.

 

[peachesmelba]

Personally

I've always said "I'd rather be stroked than choked" - Had some big ones wielded by guys who had no idea that a vagina is NOT bottomless or that a bruised cervix can HURT and bleed. NOT a pleasant experience. Don't think I've ever met one too small. My Significant Other fits - "like a sword in a sheath"....so does everything else....

 

[LimoAndPizza]

Yeah I think it really depends on the woman and what she likes and the man's ability to work with what he's got.

There's always going to be women who prefer larger dicks but there's also women who prefer guys on the smaller or more average side.

I look at it this way- There's always going to be men that like big breasts but there's just as many of us who prefer the smaller ones or don't care as much about the size as long as they "work," so to speak.

Also, if you're skilled orally, that certainly helps as well.

Either way, if you're giving your girlfriend orgasms and she seems to genuinely enjoy sex- I wouldn't worry about it too much.

Bingo.

 

[justherhusband]

I never understood why anyone would expect a stock answer to this question. It seems to me it's a matter of personal preference, anatomy, and skill/knowledge.

Some women may get more turned on by the sight of a big unit. Some won't care. Just like men come in all shapes and sizes, women's vaginas come in varying size and elasticity too. This can influence their personal preference of size. And as many have stated here and on the other 1,364,527,389 threads on this topic, knowing what to do, when and for how long is key no matter what your size.

At least these are the findings of my personal research.

 

[klippert]

is this question going to keep getting asked until the guys finally hear someone say "Yes, size is the most important thing?"

I like your answer the best.I can just see it: Prime time television press conference. Big annoucment.....Women prefer men with big cocks....NOT huge....especially you little guys, your exiled to an island...

funny how this question takes off.... Great answer StaciRay. Their must be some men, that LUV this humilated..... Aw well, everyone has a fetish.

 

[cmky]

True Story...

My first real boyfriend had a pretty monster wang. I never measured it or anything, but damn it was friggin enormous.
Point being, it hurt like hell, and I'm not all that petite. Plus, he was a selfish bastard, so that probably had a lot to do with it.
My next experience was with a man, not a teenager. He was much smaller, normal size or smaller I'd guess. My previous experience freaked me out so much I'd do pretty much anything to avoid him putting it in me.
When he finally, and gently, talked me into it, he did this thing where it started out missionary, but he slid forward, almost above my hips, so his unit was, I dunno, positioned weird. Instead of hammering away like I was a piece of meat, he started us rocking back and forth...

Oh. My. God.

I had never come so many times in my life before. It was incredible. When he was done, he was a god in my eyes.

But, because I was a stupid teenager, I ended up going back to the douchebag. Go figure.

ps...me and the roomie have a strap-on. It's normal size, if that tells you anything.

 

[wildchild1981]

penis size

i have had big ones and small ones and average size.
I have to say its all down to technique. I dont care how big or small you are, as long as you make me come! lol.
P.S. There other parts of your anatomy that are just as good if not better at the job too.

 

[LoveToLurk]

My opinion on the matter is (sorry) that size does matter. I love a big cock. True - most women don't have vaginal orgasms, but it still feels good to be nicely filled up. If I had the choice of a guy with a huge cock with no hand or oral skills, and a guy with an average cock with great oral and hand skills, I'd take the average any day of the week. Of all of the guys I've been with over my life, I would only say one was below the size criterion, and he was the last one I would have thought to fall into that catagory....

 

[WastelandVoice]

Here's the thing:

The guys with small dicks want to hear "absolutely not, some of the best lovers I've ever had were guys with tiny cocks."

And the guys with big dicks want to hear: "Absolutely baby, I love nothing better than a big, hard dick like yours."

It's the same thing with women and their breasts. The ones with small want to hear "Anything more than a mouthful is a waste!"

And the ones with big tits want to hear "Oh yeah, we all love them!"

The truth is that everyone has their prefferences and some don't even care all that much. And like I said to the OP- if youre skilled orally, that helps, and if you're giving your woman orgasms one way or another don't worry about it.

If guys are really all that self conscious about it- there IS surgery you can get although from my expeirence most guys don't tend to be happy with the results.

It's an age old question that self conscious folks will always freak out over and the truth is, unless you're crushing after an admitted size queen- you're probably gonna be just fine if you relax and learn to work with what you've got..


And also, just because someone loves the IDEA of driving an SUV doesn't mean they can't be happy and comfortable in a Toyota Corolla... just sayin.....

 

[hotrod79]

From my past experiences, I feel it depends on the woman. I've had gf's in the past that would cum 3 to 5 time's from me just penatrating them. I've also had gf's that have never had a orgasm from penatration no matter how long you banged for. I'm only average standing strong at 6 inches. My wife as of today was one of those women who had never has a vaginal orgasm. She was only able to cum with a vibrator from her past lovers. I have good oral skill's (so she say's) and I was the only one that has ever giving her orgasm's from oral. From living with someone and getting to know there body, we found different way's to give her orgasm's from penatration. Just learn your lover is my best advise.

OR, JUST TELL THEM YOUR SLONG MAKE'S YOU HAPPY

 

[shesnotcheating]

Here's the thing:

The guys with small dicks want to hear "absolutely not, some of the best lovers I've ever had were guys with tiny cocks."

And the guys with big dicks want to hear: "Absolutely baby, I love nothing better than a big, hard dick like yours."

It's the same thing with women and their breasts. The ones with small want to hear "Anything more than a mouthful is a waste!"

And the ones with big tits want to hear "Oh yeah, we all love them!"

The truth is that everyone has their prefferences and some don't even care all that much. And like I said to the OP- if youre skilled orally, that helps, and if you're giving your woman orgasms one way or another don't worry about it.

If guys are really all that self conscious about it- there IS surgery you can get although from my expeirence most guys don't tend to be happy with the results.

It's an age old question that self conscious folks will always freak out over and the truth is, unless you're crushing after an admitted size queen- you're probably gonna be just fine if you relax and learn to work with what you've got..


And also, just because someone loves the IDEA of driving an SUV doesn't mean they can't be happy and comfortable in a Toyota Corolla... just sayin.....

And then there's a few of us that are twisted the other way. I'm small in the cock dept. and my wife has no interest in sex. I fantasize constantly about a huge cock setting free her inner slut.

 

[WastelandVoice]

.....well that's a whole other discussion