Women who don't swallow ?

[Burstplayer]

It took years for the wife to finally confront her inability to swallow and finally get there, though it's still a bit of a struggle. She knew how much I loved it from previous girls who swallowed and knew it was an issue in the bedroom. For her it is the force of the cum against the back of her throat and gag reflex. So as long as I shoot while on my back and hit the roof of her mouth, and have it splash into her mouth, she can take it in and gulp it down. If on her knees or me on top of her, it's facials. Both a good option.

 

[Burstplayer]

It is hard to understand though in a committed relationship. Stopping short of pleasing your partner is off putting to me personally. I would never consider not going down on a girl or eating her ass if she liked either. Speaking to many gay guys, and with my occasional dabbling as well, not swallowing isn't even a option.

 

[LookN2Talk]

It is hard to understand though in a committed relationship. Stopping short of pleasing your partner is off putting to me personally. I would never consider not going down on a girl or eating her ass if she liked either.

Totally agree.

 

[JimmyFlagstaff1964]

OK as a guy the saying goes "There is no thing as a bad blow job" For the most part that is true. I'm assuming a woman treats going down on her man like a man treats going down on a woman.

There is something about it though when a woman swallows my load. I don;t get it when a woman takes everything you got into her mouth only to hold it there to go spit it out. If she doesn't like the taste why hold it wouldn't you just release when I start to come ? Wouldn't it be easier just to let it slide down your throat ?

I've had some hot blow jobs where a woman not only swallows every drop but she continues to lick and suck the top of my head for every drop. I get hard now just thinking about that.

I've also had some of my best blow jobs by woman who get up and spit me out. It kind of takes away from the whole pleasure.

So my question to the ladies is Why ? Why not swallow ? Is there some hidden thing that I'm missing ?

Some girls like to give head and some girls love to give head. I’m lucky, my wife is very skilled and I couldn’t imagine not blowing my load of love lotion down her throat. She will stay on my Irish War Helmet until the well is dry. No swallow =C+ (highest grade you can get).

 

[PoetM]

OK as a guy the saying goes "There is no thing as a bad blow job" For the most part that is true. I'm assuming a woman treats going down on her man like a man treats going down on a woman.

There is something about it though when a woman swallows my load. I don;t get it when a woman takes everything you got into her mouth only to hold it there to go spit it out. If she doesn't like the taste why hold it wouldn't you just release when I start to come ? Wouldn't it be easier just to let it slide down your throat ?

I've had some hot blow jobs where a woman not only swallows every drop but she continues to lick and suck the top of my head for every drop. I get hard now just thinking about that.

I've also had some of my best blow jobs by woman who get up and spit me out. It kind of takes away from the whole pleasure.

So my question to the ladies is Why ? Why not swallow ? Is there some hidden thing that I'm missing ?

For me personally there are many levels those who give head. From those who do it but don't like it to those who are passionate about it and many in between. There is a huge difference in those levels. When I cum in a woman's mouth however if she stops as i'm cumming that is a HUGE let down. Might as well invite me to the amusement park and stop all the rides right before the thrill part. I love it when a woman not only takes me all in her mouth but is good enough to continue to fuck me with her mouth as I cum...just like a second pussy. If she spits after that I'm fine with it...if she swallows during or after that's hot but not essential. Just don't stop the ride as I'm about to really enjoy it.

 

[CajunFisherman]

My wife has never liked the taste of cum and it kind of grosses her out. Even the smell is kinda yucky for her.

I think it started one of the first times she gave me a great blowjob. I came all over her face, unfortunately, in her eyes too. And it burned…

But every once in a blue moon, she will let me cum on her face. As long I clean it up. Absolutely nothing is to go in her mouth or her eyes.

She’s a good sport.

I am married to a good sport, The Mrs. Does not mind giving oral, she is not keen on the Semen Taste in her month, so goes crazy to empty and relieve me in a condom! We have done this since time immemorial and we are almost 70s now. Our method of Oral has been passed on to our daughters to prevent the Tattletale scent from lingering in the house or RV and to prevent pecker tracks off the linen! Very fastidious ladies, the smell and taste of seed is very noticeable and my wife and tell is a woman is has not kept her hygiene in check, the tattletale smell is noticeable to a nurse! She has trained me well!! Our DD had put some clothes in the hamper one night, and when mama bear popped the hamper opened the next morning to do the laundry, my wife had a dozen questions, and lectured DD on the use of the Capote (condoms). She told her that stuff was dangerous! Oral tricks are your friend, and great to know.

 

[bumpinthenight2022]

When they spit, it's a turn off for me. It feels kinda like a rejection, kinda like she's being childish. Like, you held it in your mouth all this time, all the way to the bathroom sink. Like, c'mon. We could've been in bed cuddling or kissing by now. And that break in intimacy just makes me lose interest in it.

 

[bobb_sledd]

After I deposited a rather large donation in her mouth yesterday, she went to the sink to spit, as is her routine. I'd rather she swallow, but who am I to quibble?

 

[Iwillgo]

After I deposited a rather large donation in her mouth yesterday, she went to the sink to spit, as is her routine. I'd rather she swallow, but who am I to quibble?

Try kissing her with her mouthful and you might get your wish

 

[Helpme01]

Even as a man I get bothered by the does she swallow question I can’t imagine how women deal with but it’s simple if it’s important to ask before hand and if she says she doesn’t swallow don’t go through with it!

 

[easyoff]

Women that don't swallow have husbands or boyfriends that find someone that will.

 

[adlon]

Women that don't swallow have husbands or boyfriends that find someone that will.

In that case she's probably much better off without the selfish guy who would appear to be only interested in his pleasure. He's probably a lousy lover anyway.

 

[Encaea]

I'll try to answer that.. of course I can only speak for myself - we are all different

I don't often swallow (I will usually finish him off in my mouth, but just let it run out) for a number of reasons:
1) The taste of cum is ok, but the texture and feel when it goes down your throat is really unpleasant. It stings and sticks and leaves a very salty effect that is difficult to get rid of afterwards.
2) When I give a blowjob, I focus on what makes it feel good - not what it looks like. If I do it right, his eyes should be rolled back in his head by then anyway, not looking at me If I want to put on a show, I will do it as part of foreplay/teasing, not after his orgasm.
3) The desire for women to swallow seems a bit silly/demeaning to me - probably a result of too much porn.

I'm honestly a little surprised by some of the guys responses here. I prefer when she swallows, simply because they can keep sucking after I cum, and it feels intensely good to prolong the climax.

All the same, I don't mind that my wife doesn't swallow, and I genuinely appreciate the fact she'll keep going as long as she can before she goes to spit.

Although whoever suggested she just let the cum fall out of her mouth onto me while she keeps going may be the perfect plan for us. Thanks!

 

[Inthelastrow]

I will tell you from the opposite side, that I have a wife that doesn't give bj's at all. Just the act makes her gag. I married her after a few girl friends couldn't give blow jobs either, for various reasons, some serious. So if you are getting one and she doesn't swallow, be thankful your are getting one. I did have one gf who loved to give bjs and liked to share my load after, so I do know what my cum tastes like.

As an aside, I am told that what you eat and how spicy the food you eat has a direct effect on the taste of your cum.

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[Encaea]

I will tell you from the opposite side, that I have a wife that doesn't give bj's at all. Just the act makes her gag. I married her after a few girl friends couldn't give blow jobs either, for various reasons, some serious. So if you are getting one and she doesn't swallow, be thankful your are getting one. I did have one gf who loved to give bjs and liked to share my load after, so I do know what my cum tastes like.

As an aside, I am told that what you eat and how spicy the food you eat has a direct effect on the taste of your cum.

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As long as I knew going into it, I'd struggle, but survive. That one time I started dating this chick who just constantly wanted to give me head. It was amazing, till I guess the honeymoon phase ended, and she just stopped. Went overnight from like 3x a week to never again, no discussion. That was super not cool. And I know I may sound like a demanding asshole, but I felt deceived, not demanding.

And I can confirm, my cum tastes way different now, since I gave up vegetarianism a few years back. Vegetarian cum is definitely the low sodium option, if you're heart health conscious.

I've also gotta say, I love this community. I don't come across enough conversations where the flavor of my cum is relevant, and the fact that I know - and don't dislike - the taste is not relevant.

 

[MichelleSwan]

OK as a guy the saying goes "There is no thing as a bad blow job" For the most part that is true. I'm assuming a woman treats going down on her man like a man treats going down on a woman.

There is something about it though when a woman swallows my load. I don;t get it when a woman takes everything you got into her mouth only to hold it there to go spit it out. If she doesn't like the taste why hold it wouldn't you just release when I start to come ? Wouldn't it be easier just to let it slide down your throat ?

I've had some hot blow jobs where a woman not only swallows every drop but she continues to lick and suck the top of my head for every drop. I get hard now just thinking about that.

I've also had some of my best blow jobs by woman who get up and spit me out. It kind of takes away from the whole pleasure.

So my question to the ladies is Why ? Why not swallow ? Is there some hidden thing that I'm missing ?

A friend of mine who will suck cock any chance she gets, does not swallow, she says it tastes like ammonia or bleach

 

[Londonguy69]

A friend of mine who will suck cock any chance she gets, does not swallow, she says it tastes like ammonia or bleach

And what is your preference?

 

[MichelleSwan]

And what is your preference?

Always happy to swallow

 

[Londonguy69]

Always happy to swallow

Good choice

 

[Artfan2]

A friend of mine who will suck cock any chance she gets, does not swallow, she says it tastes like ammonia or bleach

Even if she doesn't swallow, how does she avoid the taste?

 

[MichelleSwan]

Well obviously it's difficult if he ejaculates orally, don't you think its sexy to let it run out of her mouth

 

[wouldloveto]

All of my first bjs she swallowed, mostly (maybe) because we were in high school and she did not want to make a mess. So that is what I knew and expected. My college gf never swallowed, but loved cum play. So that really turned me on also. Her cum play included feeding it to me at times, beginning my love for that.
So, any bj is great, swallow, spit, avoid, cum play, snowball, or direct into my mouth. Love it all and would never try to get a woman to do what she did not want.

 

[wouldloveto]

So, as a guy, my perspective to a few statements that the original post makes, yes there is such a thing as a bad blow job.

You make a good point, I did recently receive a sub par bj, too much in a hurry to make me cum, not enough "worship". I stand corrected.

But, I have been with partners that have swallowed and some that have not. What does it matter as along as I am getting a BJ? I don't want to force her into doing something that she is not comfortable doing or likes doing because that will just ruin things altogether. I just allow my partner to do her thing and enjoy the pleasure that I am receiving. That's just me

Agreed!

 

[tristantrotsky]

when I went down on my future husband the first time, I didn't even think of not swallowing..
I still can't now. a girl needs protein..

A girl with a healthy appetite for swallowing cum is a joy. But it is always the cocksucker's choice, it must be voluntary and consensual, no-one should ever be forced to do something they don't want to do.

 

[JoeBeans2751]

SWALLOW!!! Swallow!! She don't even SUCK, LICK, or FONDLE it!