Size Matters

[onceinabluemoon]

I was with a man for two years that, lucky me, was very well endowed. He and I broke up, and I recently began a relationship with another man. Last night, the first time I gave him head, I discovered he is rather ...smallish. I am not going to give up this relationship just because he is lacking in one department, but how can I get over wanting him to be bigger?

 

[eric23ja]

get someone on the side who is bigger or get yourself a large dildo

 

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[Lady Tango]

Size isn't everything - if your new lover knows how to turn you on his lack of inches will not be an issue. Be patient and enjoy your intimate moments together.

LT

 

[hogjack]

Thought

You could try shrinking then his "size" would be relatively as satisfying to you.

Good luck to both you love monkeys.

 

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[shescurious]

I would have to agree with the other posters. Give it some time, as his technique may make up for it.

And later on you can always satisfy the need for a big cock by introducing and dildo or vibe that is to your liking. He hopefully will like using it on you as much as you like him using it on you.

Did that make sense?

 

[sheath]

Size doesn't matter as much as techinque.

I was with a man for a while who was VERY endowed. To a point where it sometimes hurt me if we weren't careful.

The man I'm with now is not like that...but it doesn't matter. He's absolutely the best lover I ever had, hands down.

The well-endowed man? He thought his cock was enough to satisfy.

Like they say...it ain't the ship, it's the motion of the ocean.

S.

 

[Noor]

Size doesn't matter as much as techinque.

I was with a man for a while who was VERY endowed. To a point where it sometimes hurt me if we weren't careful.

S.

I had a guy like that once, size can be a real problem. Hard to be careful all the time and I did get hurt once. I'd rather have a guy with good manual dexterity and a strong tongue ; )

 

[Noor]

Size doesn't matter as much as techinque.

I was with a man for a while who was VERY endowed. To a point where it sometimes hurt me if we weren't careful.

S.

I had a guy like that once, size can be a real problem. Hard to be careful all the time and I did get hurt once. I'd rather have a guy with good manual dexterity and a strong tongue ; )

 

[Nefarious]

Just curious. What was the nature of the injury?

 

[Wiggles]

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[lilpriss]

Well I'm just going to say this, don't judge things until you've actually made love to him (a few times)... because one of the best lovers I've had wasn't all that well endowed... but my goodness he could work the fingers and tongue...

Now on the flip side, My X wasn't all that well endowed either, and he was lazy in bed... it made the lack of size that much more of an issue.

 

[PaulX35]

... I am not going to give up this relationship just because he is lacking in one department, but how can I get over wanting him to be bigger?

My advice would be to either take a person in what he has to offer, or end the relationship. I'm sure you yourself would not feel too comfortable if your new bf would say to you: "Hmm, my ex-gf's tits were a lot nicer than yours" or something the like. It's the same with dick size for a man: don't criticize him on it or he'll never be hard for you again. Men are very sensitive egos!

Other than that I'd agree that size - within certain boundaries - is of less importance than the way the guy plays his flute.

I'm somewhat overaverage myself and I've actually experienced more women expressing discomfort with larger size than exclaiming spontaneous ecstacy over that feature. Both things can be solved, though, but that's all in the department of how to make music, and not in the size of the instrument.

Paul

 

[Noor]

Just curious. What was the nature of the injury?

perineum tearing

 

[Noor]

Do your kegels?

who are you asking?

 

[Wiggles]

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[Belilica]

Lengthening sleeves are also available at most sex shops.

 

[SupaStyles]

The best thing to do is everytime he starts bragging about how big he is around his friends.. Laugh long and hard almost like a crazy person then say ".. oh im sorry.." and excuse yourself. Also do this any time he starts to get it out for you.. then maybe he'll get the hint and have the surgury.. hehe just kidding.. It is probably just a mental thing since you were so used to the other guy..

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I was with a man for two years that, lucky me, was very well endowed. He and I broke up, and I recently began a relationship with another man. Last night, the first time I gave him head, I discovered he is rather ...smallish. I am not going to give up this relationship just because he is lacking in one department, but how can I get over wanting him to be bigger?

 

[dreamer]

I was with a man for two years that, lucky me, was very well endowed. He and I broke up, and I recently began a relationship with another man. Last night, the first time I gave him head, I discovered he is rather ...smallish. I am not going to give up this relationship just because he is lacking in one department, but how can I get over wanting him to be bigger?

This is probably exactly why you're name suits you. Good luck, getting it....onceinabluemoon.

sheesh!

 

[butterfly27]

I guess it's just because you were used a bigger guy. I had it the other way around, first a very small one (who, I have to admit, did miracles - I want him back) and then a pretty big one who was causing me some problems.

I think it's skill that counts. Not size. Actually, I know it is that way

 

[SupaStyles]

I know what your saying but I think its almost a reflex to think that bigger is better and smaller is inferior so if makes since in your mind that a big one is good and when a small one is bad it just figures.. But if you had a good small one then you might feel as if you've found the diamond in the ruff.. hehe

$$

I guess it's just because you were used a bigger guy. I had it the other way around, first a very small one (who, I have to admit, did miracles - I want him back) and then a pretty big one who was causing me some problems.

I think it's skill that counts. Not size. Actually, I know it is that way

 

[intelligencenazi]

If he's too small for your tastes you can either introduce toys, or concentrate on his hands and mouth. If he's insulted by toys and isn't good with his hands and mouth, and refuses to learn, break it off. An unhappy sex life will lead to an unhappy relationship. You might want to read http://www.heartless-bitches.com/rants/equip.shtml http://www.heartless-bitches.com/rants/smalldicks.shtml and http://www.heartless-bitches.com/rants/weenises.shtml in that order.

 

[James G 5]

If he's too small for your tastes you can either introduce toys, or concentrate on his hands and mouth. If he's insulted by toys and isn't good with his hands and mouth, and refuses to learn, break it off. An unhappy sex life will lead to an unhappy relationship. You might want to read http://www.heartless-bitches.com/rants/equip.shtml http://www.heartless-bitches.com/rants/smalldicks.shtml and http://www.heartless-bitches.com/rants/weenises.shtml in that order.

I agree......I know I got a small one, so I got REAL good at oral
The women I've been with have pretty much all said they've had none better
So I know they'll always remember me fondly

 

[WynEternal]

Wow. I guess I'm one of those women who think size doesn't matter. And James, I'm not even going to go there with you. LOL