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The great thing about spanking is that it's such a versatile act. It can be sensual pleasure or painful punishment, spontaneous fun or calculated ritual, a quick blast or drawn out sensation. It has more intimacy than a flogging or caning - there is the comfort of feeling a pair of warm, strong thighs supporting you through whatever type of spanking you're getting which can calm any fears or nerves. And the same thighs can also come in useful if you need to find some friction at short notice! You can use different 'weapons' as well to add variety - hands, obviously, which are cheap and usually easy to find, same with hairbrushes and slippers. Paddles can be good although more painful and require prior acquisition. And for the beginner, or those on a budget, I recommend that you ransack your kitchen - it's surprising the amount of sting that the humble fish slice and wooden spoon can deliver.
I'm pretty new to spanking, but being a submissive I know I LOVE to receive. It's a huge turn-on for me!
It's never just simply spanking...
I love to receive except when pleasure is not the intended purpose of said spanking... Then I love the thrill of being a little brat. Only occasionally mind you.
Something about feeling small, weak, over powered, the thrill, the unexpected nature... oh and the pain. Love the painful reminders.
Giving never tried
Receiving..... amazing with the right man, uncomfortably awkward with the wrong. Prefer hand to ass lol but have been the subject of a bit of playful paddling. Asked this a couple of times in the BDSM forum about things but any reccomendations for noobs of something a bit less vanilla but equally 'second level' not hardcore? yet
Not yet sure how a partner will react when I try suggesting some 'Lit ideas' so want a few options not just spanking but collecting a few disperate experiences and then jusge how one goes down