Simple turn-ons and turn-offs

[ScarlettsNeeds]

What are a few of yours? Like basic stuff...

 

[jameslewis]

Slowly moving or removing her clothing, revealing her body and opening her to my gaze and my touch. I know this involves both the senses of touch and vision, but it's really when things start to get intimate (and exciting).

 

[BCSunshine66]

Watching as I touch him, seeing his reactions. Hearing the sounds he makes as I gently explore. Learning all about him, seeing what I do to him!

 

[Iceprincess12]

Poor spelling and grammar are turn-offs.

People with strong opinions and confidence are turn-ons.

 

[Sir_Sydney]

people who just stop responding and vanish mid conversation turn me off

people who can passionately debate a topic without it being personal, big TICK

 

[ScarlettsNeeds]

Totally agree!

Poor spelling and grammar are turn-offs.

People with strong opinions and confidence are turn-ons.

 

[Sir_Sydney]

you never shared your own Scar.....

 

[ScarlettsNeeds]

It turns me off when people send nude pics. Certain words turn me off, other turn me on. Confidence is so sexy. Water is a turn on...beaches, the ocean, rivers...

I do appreciate a man in uniform, or out of it.

you never shared your own Scar.....

 

[Sir_Sydney]

I'm at peace with water...... I live not far from a river, and will spend entire days and evenings at the beach in summer

 

[riverrunt]

being in the boat, skinny dipping

 

[EctoJohn]

Getting my belt undone, especially if she takes the initiative.

Always a great step and gets my motor going.

 

[julybaby04]

Turn ons....Romance! Making every part of a person's day a part of being together. Knowing the things that please the other and making those a priority. Making the other KNOW that there is simply none other who even compares. Enjoying the simplest of things if it matters to the other.

Turn Offs....Being too busy and letting stresses of life take over what matters in life.

 

[Sir_Sydney]

Turn ons....Romance! Making every part of a person's day a part of being together. Knowing the things that please the other and making those a priority. Making the other KNOW that there is simply none other who even compares. Enjoying the simplest of things if it matters to the other.

Turn Offs....Being too busy and letting stresses of life take over what matters in life.

STALKER!
hehehehehe

 

[ScarlettsNeeds]

I like this one. Doing this.

Getting my belt undone, especially if she takes the initiative.

Always a great step and gets my motor going.

 

[EctoJohn]

I like this one. Doing this.

Feel free to do this to me.

 

[Iceprincess12]

Turn off
-uncertainty
-too nice
-depressing or negative

Turn on
-cockiness
-accents (French & British posh)
-sarcastic humor
-writing skills
-intelligence

 

[jrdexter]

I am really wishing I had paid more attention in "Creative Writing 101" after reading this thread.

Confidence is soooo arousing to me with a woman, that and her actually wanting to enjoy her body.

 

[coacheric]

Poor spelling and grammar are turn-offs.

People with strong opinions and confidence are turn-ons.

Turn off
-uncertainty
-too nice
-depressing or negative

Turn on
-cockiness
-accents (French & British posh)
-sarcastic humor
-writing skills
-intelligence

badd speeling wht do u meen buy that?

And too nice, might rule me out as the sex object I once was in your eyes

 

[Deleted member 1306910]

Turn Ons

Shyness
Real emotion, including sadness when it's felt
Kindness when it is genuine
Vulnerability and the courage to be open about it

Turn offs

Arrogance/Cockiness
Snarkiness
Cruelty
Shallowness
Being Fake

 

[Titts4Tatts]

Pet names and sweet nothings in the heat of passion , major turn on

Wanker pics....as a Nurse I'm sorry eroticize my mind first before you wigggle that Willie in front of my face.

 

[Jonny G]

Pet names and sweet nothings in the heat of passion , major turn on

Wanker pics....as a Nurse I'm sorry eroticize my mind first before you wigggle that Willie in front of my face.

Hello my little kitten

 

[julybaby04]

It's the small things a guy does...noticing and caring what matters to the woman.

Perfect example....

A friend had been eyeing a dress in a local boutique. She decided to take the plunge and buy it. When she walked in, the storekeeper handed her shopping bag and said her boyfriend had been in earlier that day and bought it for her...

THAT is all it takes! Caring AND simply wanting to please the other person...

 

[numeniusa]

Poor spelling and grammar are turn-offs.

Oh, thank the deity of your choice, I feared that was just me...

 

[ScarlettsNeeds]

A small thing my boyfriend did...said...was after we had amazing sex he sincerely said..."I don't even like porn anymore." Biggest compliment ever!

It's the small things a guy does...noticing and caring what matters to the woman.

Perfect example....

A friend had been eyeing a dress in a local boutique. She decided to take the plunge and buy it. When she walked in, the storekeeper handed her shopping bag and said her boyfriend had been in earlier that day and bought it for her...

THAT is all it takes! Caring AND simply wanting to please the other person...

 

[RUlookingup]

Mary GGG