silly?

[THROBBS]

"Different strokes" and all, but I feel silly exchanging more than a post or two of public flirting. I also find reading others' public flirts off putting.

Luckily! I can go elsewhere.
(a bit of a bummer to leave certain threads)

Funny, in that I am as much of an exhibitionist (and voyeur) as the next Litster. We'll not THAT Litster... or those litsters


okay, maybe in a more limited way.


"get a room" — (private message?)

 

[37_ttej]

I'm probably the opposite, THROBBS.

I'm an outrageous flirt - OK, and general idiot - on the boards, but am quite conservative privately.

I'll happily trade lewdities with Litsters on the threads, but naughty PMs make me uncomfortable.

 

[cowslinger64]

"Different strokes" and all, but I feel silly exchanging more than a post or two of public flirting. I also find reading others' public flirts off putting.

Luckily! I can go elsewhere.
(a bit of a bummer to leave certain threads)

Funny, in that I am as much of an exhibitionist (and voyeur) as the next Litster. We'll not THAT Litster... or those litsters


okay, maybe in a more limited way.


"get a room" — (private message?)

I like flirting.. And probably have gotten carried away at times.. It's the on and on and on and on and on that I find annoying.

 

[THROBBS]

I'm probably the opposite, THROBBS.

I'm an outrageous flirt - OK, and general idiot - on the boards, but am quite conservative privately.

I'll happy trade lewdities with Litsters on the threads, but naughty PMs make me uncomfortable.

fair enough.

 

[THROBBS]

I like flirting.. And probably have gotten carried away at times.. It's the on and on and on and on and on that I find annoying.

< that more than anything.

OF COURSE there will be flirting.

and — there will be blood.

 

[jeninifer]

"Different strokes" and all, but I feel silly exchanging more than a post or two of public flirting. I also find reading others' public flirts off putting.

Luckily! I can go elsewhere.
(a bit of a bummer to leave certain threads)

Funny, in that I am as much of an exhibitionist (and voyeur) as the next Litster. We'll not THAT Litster... or those litsters


okay, maybe in a more limited way.


"get a room" — (private message?)

I don't think this is silly, but I haven't experienced it either.

Could be that what you and I think of as exhibitionist flirting is very different.

 

[THROBBS]

There is a bit of awkwardness when someone else wants to post.

*ahem*... pardon me, but back on topic...

As often as not this happens on a flirt's own thread (as much as any thread is "owned"). in that case — lucky flirts!

 

[THROBBS]

I don't think this is silly, but I haven't experienced it either.

Could be that what you and I think of as exhibitionist flirting is very different.

I tend to be visual in my exhibitionistic (and voyeuristic) leanings.<< heehee

What I was noting was more "verbal" (written).

 

[37_ttej]

There is a bit of awkwardness when someone else wants to post.

*ahem*... pardon me, but back on topic...

As often as not this happens on a flirt's own thread (as much as any thread is "owned"). in that case — lucky flirts!

I know what you mean. Does one:

a) politely interrupt the pleasantries
b) barge the fuck in anyway
c) find another thread

I've done all three (heehee).

I think it helps if you know the players and the dynamic. Sometimes a Litster is happy to be relieved from an unwanted thread stalker.

 

[THROBBS]

I know what you mean. Does one:

a) politely interrupt the pleasantries
b) barge the fuck in anyway
c) find another thread

I've done all three (heehee).

I think it helps if you know the players and the dynamic. Sometimes a Litster is happy to be relieved from an unwanted thread stalker.

indeedy.

I usually err on the "I am the intruder" side.

Unless it is a thread that I have started. In that case — fuck off!

The sitch which instigated this thread, was not my business, I happened to enjoy the pics beings posted, the flirts, just derailed that for me. *shrug*

 

[37_ttej]

indeedy.

I usually err on the "I am the intruder" side.

Unless it is a thread that I have started. In that case — fuck off!

Which is where I start my own thread to bitch about the rudeness of certain 'unnamed' Litsters and start the next round of gossip witch-hunting.

Have I got that right?

 

[THROBBS]

Which is where I start my own thread to bitch about the rudeness of certain 'unnamed' Litsters and start the next round of gossip witch-hunting.

Have I got that right?

Sure!

Not so sure I want any "witch burning". Just a general awareness my minimize the situation.

 

[37_ttej]

Sure!

Not so sure I want any "witch burning". Just a general awareness my minimize the situation.

I'm with you on the pic threads though. They're like the library - for quiet enjoyment.
You wanna blurt-flirt, go find one of the ubiquitous 'threads of the day' or go alpha-chaining.

 

[THROBBS]

I'm with you on the pic threads though. They're like the library - for quiet enjoyment.
You wanna blurt-flirt, go find one of the ubiquitous 'threads of the day' or go alpha-chaining.

almost as bad (on pic threads) is quoting of pics to say "she's hot!", "I'd like a piece of that"... Of course it is nice to voice one's opinion, and maybe solicit more imagery along the same vein...but.

Too bad we cannot "thumbnail quote" images.

Again,I can always go elsewhere or ignore. I have ignored a couple serial picture quoters, who have nothing else to contribute.

 

[cowslinger64]

almost as bad (on pic threads) is quoting of pics to say "she's hot!", "I'd like a piece of that"... Of course it is nice to voice one's opinion, and maybe solicit more imagery along the same vein...but.

Too bad we cannot "thumbnail quote" images.

Again,I can always go elsewhere or ignore. I have ignored a couple serial picture quoters, who have nothing else to contribute.

Yanno, on my butt threads that never bothered me.. What I hated is when the pussy guy ass kissers would come on it and only ever call out the pics women posted and never even contributed anything else to my thread. Should be a floggable offense!

 

[THROBBS]

Yanno, on my butt threads that never bothered me.. What I hated is when the pussy guy ass kissers would come on it and only ever call out the pics women posted and never even contributed anything else to my thread. Should be a floggable offense!

True!

MANY suck-up guys about.

 

[37_ttej]

Yanno, on my butt threads that never bothered me.. What I hated is when the pussy guy ass kissers would come on it and only ever call out the pics women posted and never even contributed anything else to my thread. Should be a floggable offense!

They're the worst.

http://maxbrandenberg.com/wp-content/uploads/ass-kisser.jpg

 

[cowslinger64]

They're the worst.

http://maxbrandenberg.com/wp-content/uploads/ass-kisser.jpg

Bwahaha!! Love it

 

[THROBBS]

They're the worst.

Ahhahahahhahaha!!!

 

[THROBBS]

Another Litster to my ignore list, for the only "crime" of quoting pages of pics with inane comments. I'm all "oh! good! some new posts! HEY! These are earlier images. HEY!! This is one guy...OKAY! OKAY! You like the images."

 

[Little_Sister]

I come to lit to flirt on the boards. I would be SO bored without it.

 

[THROBBS]

I come to lit to flirt on the boards. I would be SO bored without it.

I think most people are here for some form of flirtation.


This latest complaint was not even flirting with the posters, it was not on am pics, it was just a regurgitation of images and dull commentary.

As for "ping pong" verbal flirts — I can typically skim over those, and if they are between the OP and "suitor" I'll have to "suck-it-up"... my issue (and it's just mine) is when the threads I have been enjoying get derailed. Often, it is "for a limited time only", as they say.

I try to be aware of my own flirtations and limit them on forums.

 

[DoRaMe]

Just came upon this thread and find the topic interesting. Guess at times I get caught up in my own world and hadn't even noticed.

 

[RoyceConnors]

I agree, flirting sucks and NEVER do that myself. I come for the stimulating conversation and the pics. JK

There's enough threads to flirt in, so a pic thread shouldn't be littered with conversation, just comments on the pics and such. Maybe a bit of story to go with the pic even.

 

[THROBBS]

Everybody — do what you feel comfortable with.

Just have my own 2¢, which, as we all know, is worth.... not much.