shy guy

[SallyIsHere]

I really want my boyfriend to masturbate while I watch. I have watched other boyfriends and it is a huge turn on for me. He is a little shy and doesn't want to. I don't want to make a big deal out of it, but I miss it. Any suggestions?

Sally

 

[Guest]

The first time my wife asked me to masterbate in front of her I was very shy about it. So one night she lit candles and set the mood. Then she started playing with herself very slowly. I was hard and wanted her, but she kept saying no....that I had touch myself for her too first. It worked. I masterbated for her and when I saw how much she loved it,...I did it more often for her and had great sex afterwards too :

 

[Guest]

Here's a Great Way

You must think positive, and outthink your partner for the benefit of both of you. He is shy, most likely, because he is ashamed of the act of masturbating. When we are in grade school, we guys treat the subject of jacking off as something to ridicule. Some guys never grow out of that mentality. This isn't to say he is ridiculing it, but rather, that he is scared of ridicule. This is just a suggestion, of course.

I would start with your usual foreplay. This helps you get into a seductive mindset, and of course gets him hard. Make sure some KY liquid is strategically hidden or kept nearby. Then at a critical moment, you have to stop, look him in the eye, and ask, "Would you like to do something special for me?" Keep that eye contact working, and tell him exactly what you want him to do. Do not fail to express just how much you would love to watch him pleasure himself. If he objects, be smart and give him a positive rebuttal, and always work the angles that you get really turned on by watching him get himself off. Make sure to say, "please," and don't hesitate to beg or offer something in return, because you'll get more out of it if he capitulates, anyway.

He will finally give in to your charm and persuasion. He might bunch up in hesitation once or twice, but each time he does this, calmly wait until his protests end, and ask him to continue. Most likely, he will. Don't forget to encourage him by telling him how hot he looks, and make sure your eyes show your feelings as well. Say things like, "You know how to do it for yourself...that's so sexy," and, "My God, I'm getting so wet watching you." You may want to work into joining him, or at least gradually strip and give him a show, if that's what he likes. Work his mind while he works his cock, and you can't go wrong.

The rest is up to you and your imagination.

Love,

SPR

 

[Julian]

True That...

Let it be totally mutual and you'll be fine. Enjoy.



Julian

 

[Yoc]

If I can put in my twopennies' worth.

Just masturbate with him.

Men like to watch women masturbate as much as women like to watch men.