Should She Snog my Girlfriend.

[Quoll]

Should She Snog Her Girlfriend.

Ok not me.
I was talking to a female friend the other day.
She was talking with some female workmates, and the discussion came round to who had kissed another woman.
One said she had, another said she wanted to.
My friend said nothing.
The one that said she had kissed another woman offered to show the one that hadn`t.

They have agreed to do this at the friends house soon.
The dilemma, my friend is now wondering whether she should try it as well.
I know for some here it is no big deal, but for someone who has never thought of doing this, and is now wondering, what if and where could it lead.

 

[Eritz]

Imagine yourself kissing another girl, if it makes you feel uncomfertable then don't do it. Even if you are okay with full on kissing it doesn't have to go anywhere and you always reserve the right to a simple "stop" as well if it does go to far.

 

[ReadyOne]

Some people say you've got to do something at least two times before you decide if you want to keep at it, just to be sure the first time wasn't a fluke...

 

[Hester]

Nothing wrong with testing the waters.

Kissing girls can be very pleasant.

 

[SweetErika]

If she's curious and wants to, this could be the perfect opportunity. If she's not interested, she shouldn't do it just because her friends are going to try. I know thinking about where it might lead is scary, but even if she goes for and enjoys the kiss, it doesn't necessarily mean it'll lead to anything else or speak to her sexuality.

 

[cymbline]

As a women who has not kissed another, but I am also curious as to what it would be like. A couple of questions. Does she feel safe with this friend? Why would she or is she questioning her sexuality? She needs to ask herself is she afraid that she might enjoy the kiss? And then answer truthfully. Maybe she will think that the relationship with her friend would change. Also she might think of herself as not a very good kisser, and would not want to disappoint her friend.

I know that I would be asking some of these questions if I were given the opportunity to kiss one of my women friends.

 

[invisigirl]

If it can be taken as harmless fun between girlfriends, why shouldn't she go for it? Personally I think the perfect place to kiss a girl is with a bunch of goodnatured and curious friends.

 

[australwind]

First Kiss???

Has anyone of these friends actually suggested that they would like to kiss your friend???

Or is she mentally preparing herself for the possibility?

Kissing another girl "with intent" as opposed the friends "peck on the cheek" etc can be a delightful experience or it can be a disaster, just as it can be with a guy......maybe she would be better to leave it happen naturally if its going to happen at all.

 

[Halo_n_horns]

Not to be rude here, but stop over-thinking this and bring back some pictures!

 

[Quoll]

Not to be rude here, but stop over-thinking this and bring back some pictures!

Now that`s exactly what I told her.

 

[australwind]

Now that`s exactly what I told her.

You'll have to let us know if she took your advice!

this one's for her!

 

[Halo_n_horns]

Now that`s exactly what I told her.

*pacing impatiently while waiting for the photos...*

 

[Quoll]

Minor update, At last check the big night was set for tomorrow night, and my friend has said she is going to go for it. Will just have to wait and see.

 

[australwind]

Minor update, At last check the big night was set for tomorrow night, and my friend has said she is going to go for it. Will just have to wait and see.

...Waiting...waiting.....

 

[Halo_n_horns]

Minor update, At last check the big night was set for tomorrow night, and my friend has said she is going to go for it. Will just have to wait and see.

But is she going to go for it with a camera handy? Otherwise she's just blowing smoke.

 

[entitled]

<hijack>

Snog is such a cool word.

</hijack>

 

[Quoll]

<hijack>

Snog is such a cool word.

</hijack>

Thanks, also rather partial to "pash" as well.

 

[australwind]

Thanks, also rather partial to "pash" as well.

Haven't heard that one in years.........reminded me immediately of "hickey"........

 

[Quoll]

But is she going to go for it with a camera handy? Otherwise she's just blowing smoke.

No camera, but it`s definitely on.

Be gentle it`s her first time.

 

[JustSkye]

you perv, you.

 

[Quoll]

you perv, you.

I ddidn`t honest, well I was just being helpful

 

[Quoll]

Well I didn`t actually get to see my friend, but I did speak to her via IM and got the details.

I am posting them here with her full permission.
She has asked me to thank everyone for their advice, which helped her to try something new.


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Quoll.. G`day Louise how was your day.
Louise.. my day was kind of uneventful
Louise.. I got up got ready for work
Quoll.. grrrrrr
Louise.. LOL
Quoll.. grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr
Louise.. okay
Louise.. you want the good stuff
Quoll.. uhuh uhuh uhuh
Louise.. But does a girl kiss and tell
Quoll .. No never but a pervert does
Louise.. LOL
Louise.. well, it was odd at first
Louise.. lots of giggling
Louise.. about a good 15 mins of giggling. then that started to get tiresome.
Louise.. so we were sitting on the couch, next to each other. I leaned in placed my hand on her cheek, and kissed her. no tongue
Louise.. then we giggled some more
Quoll .. and..................
Louise.. then I leaned in and again placed my hand on her cheek, tilted my head placed my lips upon hers,
Louise.. a couple of quick, soft kisses, then I slid my tongue into her mouth,
Louise.. they twisted around a little and that was it.
Louise.. nothing real exciting
Louise.. it was more nervous then anything
Louise.. lots of giggling
Louise.. but we will try it again
Quoll.. so did you get a wide on?
Louise.. a what?
Quoll.. A wide on, the female equivalent of a hard on
Louise.. yes, I got a little tingle
Louise.. not that I would want to act upon that tingle.
Louise.. I was kissing someone, and got a little aroused.
Quoll.. Oh I so wanted to say "Louise is a Lezzo" "Louise is a Lezzo"
Louise.. LOL
Louise.. no I am not
Quoll.. seriously, was it nice and comfortable, the feeling of kissing your friend
Louise.. it was nice and a little uncomfortable, as it was the first time. I think that when we try it again it will go better.
Louise.. it did not seem natural, in that this is or who I would rather kiss.
Louise.. so sorry, I'm not a lezzo.
Louise.. I don't thing I'm bi
Quoll.. *sigh* that`s ok Louise I still like you
Quoll.. I am just pleased it was not a bad experience for you, and if it goes no further, ok. If it goes somewhere else that is good for you, that`s good too.
Louise.. It won't go anywhere other then to try again without the giggle.
Quoll.. Thats fine, But I can live in hope.
Louise LOL

 

[Halo_n_horns]

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Quoll.. G`day Louise how was your day.
Louise.. my day was kind of uneventful
Louise.. I got up got ready for work
Quoll.. grrrrrr
Louise.. LOL
Quoll.. grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr
Louise.. okay
Louise.. you want the good stuff
Quoll.. uhuh uhuh uhuh
Louise.. But does a girl kiss and tell
Quoll .. No never but a pervert does
Louise.. LOL
Louise.. well, it was odd at first
Louise.. lots of giggling
Louise.. about a good 15 mins of giggling. then that started to get tiresome.
Louise.. so we were sitting on the couch, next to each other. I leaned in placed my hand on her cheek, and kissed her. no tongue
Louise.. then we giggled some more
Quoll .. and..................
Louise.. then I leaned in and again placed my hand on her cheek, tilted my head placed my lips upon hers,
Louise.. a couple of quick, soft kisses, then I slid my tongue into her mouth,
Louise.. they twisted around a little and that was it.
Louise.. nothing real exciting
Louise.. it was more nervous then anything
Louise.. lots of giggling
Louise.. but we will try it again
Quoll.. so did you get a wide on?
Louise.. a what?
Quoll.. A wide on, the female equivalent of a hard on
Louise.. yes, I got a little tingle
Louise.. not that I would want to act upon that tingle.
Louise.. I was kissing someone, and got a little aroused.
Quoll.. Oh I so wanted to say "Louise is a Lezzo" "Louise is a Lezzo"
Louise.. LOL
Louise.. no I am not
Quoll.. seriously, was it nice and comfortable, the feeling of kissing your friend
Louise.. it was nice and a little uncomfortable, as it was the first time. I think that when we try it again it will go better.
Louise.. it did not seem natural, in that this is or who I would rather kiss.
Louise.. so sorry, I'm not a lezzo.
Louise.. I don't thing I'm bi
Quoll.. *sigh* that`s ok Louise I still like you
Quoll.. I am just pleased it was not a bad experience for you, and if it goes no further, ok. If it goes somewhere else that is good for you, that`s good too.
Louise.. It won't go anywhere other then to try again without the giggle.
Quoll.. Thats fine, But I can live in hope.
Louise LOL

Ahhh... the joys of experimentation. *searching frantically for bottle of anti-viagra...*

 

[Quoll]

Now I am not normally one to read between the lines, I much prefer to get it right, rather than guess and I may simply be imposing my own fantasys on this.
But I see so much more in this than what was said, damn now I have to wait until next week. This is better than Days of our Lives

 

[Halo_n_horns]

Now I am not normally one to read between the lines, I much prefer to get it right, rather than guess and I may simply be imposing my own fantasys on this.
But I see so much more in this than what was said, damn now I have to wait until next week. This is better than Days of our Lives

I agree. There's just something about a woman checking these things out, even if she says she won't take it any farther, that is just wonderfully arousing.

Anxiously awaiting the next installment!!!