Should I pop my cherry?

[Unhappy Virgin]

I enjoy masturbating, but I have been considering investing in a vibrator. The only problem is that I am a virgin and I don't think you can get the full effect when the thing is only inserted a few inches. I don't really want to wait any longer, but I'm just not sure if I want to take such a big step. Plus, from what pressure I have put on my hymen, it seems as if it will be pretty painful. So, what do you think I should do? Wait for a man or do it myself?

 

[registered "^^"]

!!!!!!

Save it for the real thing.

 

[roosterboy]

I enjoy masturbating, but I have been considering investing in a vibrator. The only problem is that I am a virgin and I don't think you can get the full effect when the thing is only inserted a few inches. I don't really want to wait any longer, but I'm just not sure if I want to take such a big step. Plus, from what pressure I have put on my hymen, it seems as if it will be pretty painful. So, what do you think I should do? Wait for a man or do it myself?

Sweetie, unfortunately the only opinion that matters in this case is yours. My first instinct is to say wait; letting your man do it would make it a lot more special. Then again maybe your first time would be more enjoyable for you if you take care of it yourself. What to do, what to do?

You see this is a call you will have to make by yourself. Good luck in whatever you choose.

 

[Cheyenne]

Just breaking your hymen doesn't take away your virginity- you still haven't had intercourse so you're still a virgin.

Now, I don't think I ever had a hymen, or it must have broke on its own at some point when I was younger and I don't remember. But, if you can insert something a few inches, aren't you already past the point where the hymen would be?

 

[Sparky Kronkite]

Only if you use.....

A 36" Louisville Slugger and lots of Vaseline.