Should I fuck him??

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i have the most amazing friend who i absolutely adore. We have a very strong sexual attraction for each other and all we ever do is talk about what we want to do to each other. Problem?? He is married...dammit. He is in a very bad marriage and is miserable. Should I wait until he leaves her or fuck his brains out to speed it up.. Just so you know, im not into breaking marriages up!!
 
i have the most amazing friend who i absolutely adore. We have a very strong sexual attraction for each other and all we ever do is talk about what we want to do to each other. Problem?? He is married...dammit. He is in a very bad marriage and is miserable. Should I wait until he leaves her or fuck his brains out to speed it up.. Just so you know, im not into breaking marriages up!!

I say go for it and fuck him if he wants to fuck you. Remember it takes two to tango so it is not just you.
 
I would say go for it.

I'm fairly sure that (being male) he'll go along with the idea :)

Also that way you'll know if the pent up passion and frustration are worth it. It may also make him consider his relationship with his wife a bit more??
 
do it

In that case just go for it, you know he wants it, and your pussy's obviously yearning to take in his cock.
If he rejects you perhaps there's a reason he's not happy in his marriage, maybe he want the cock.:)
 
oh no this one is definetly a pussy kinda guy!!!

he wants to do body shots off me from head to toe in every inch of my body so who wouldnt say YES to that!!!!!
 
i have the most amazing friend who i absolutely adore. We have a very strong sexual attraction for each other and all we ever do is talk about what we want to do to each other. Problem?? He is married...dammit. He is in a very bad marriage and is miserable. Should I wait until he leaves her or fuck his brains out to speed it up.. Just so you know, im not into breaking marriages up!!

No.

If you fuck him now, he might just think he can have the best of both worlds, stay in his very bad marriage, and have you on the side.
 
oh no this one is definetly a pussy kinda guy!!!

he wants to do body shots off me from head to toe in every inch of my body so who wouldnt say YES to that!!!!!

I wouldn't say no to that!

Any body shots already taken?
 
I would have to agree....If you do it now, he will never leave his wife. He's got you on the side along with his wife. And you will be left feeling like shit.
 
No.

If you fuck him now, he might just think he can have the best of both worlds, stay in his very bad marriage, and have you on the side.

Ah, the sensible comments.

Seriously though, Isabella has a point. We men will take what we can get. Inspite of his talking there is a VERY good chance that if you do fuck him he'll string you along.

The other side of the coin is that if it actually comes down to it, will he be able to go through with it?
 
Depends

It depends how you treat him in bed, if you give him the ride of his life, then tell him there's no more till he leaves the wife, he'll be packing his bags quicker than a president ducks when smelly shoes are lobbed at him.
 
go for kill gurl..... yah got nuthin to lose.... just decide if the friendship is more important than a "maybe" good fuck sesh!....
were in OZ are yah?
 
suggestion

this is also a suggestion of what I think is a problem with men. Inability to come to terms about a bad relationship. Who says that he is in a bad marriage? Is it everyone but him? Could he be projecting onto you you things he can't talk with him mate? I'd say don't fuck him, but increase the sexual tension.. I am not saying that talking about fucking in explicit terms is not hot, but behavior and dress.
 
What do you want from him, sex or emotional connection? If it's just sex, going for it has fewer ramifications. If you want emotional connection, then giving yourself the pleasure of fucking him now may eventually lead to some emotional pain later were he to take the position of having you as well is a lot easier than going through a messy divorce. Sounds like a conversation about expectations is in order...perhaps ahead of, "I want you so fucking bad!!"
 
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do it

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I guess it really depends if you just want the 'fuck' or something more.... because i'm sure that if you fuck him now... it will change the relationship, but if you are both looking for FWB (friends with benefits) go for it...... as said before though, it will delay him leaving his wife
If you wait it out.. you might get more.. a relationship
Eitherway, the relationship between you 2 will change if you fuck him now or later.... the cat-mouse game will then be over....
just my 2 cents
 
What an age old question...

Should I fuck him or not? Well let's look at it this way, not to cause a drought mind you...

But have you considered that this "line" about being in a "bad" marriage is the same ole tired shit that guys have been using on women for ages? Honey, he's scoped you out for sympathy pussy!

Yeah, I know you wanna give it to him so bad that you can feel his cock sliding in...But wait, Breathe!

If you give in and he hits it a couple of times...he's gonna start thinking he's the "shit" and pretty soon he'll start making excuses about why he can't see you or call you like he used to...

So, if your heart is involved don't do it...at least not with him, not until you know where you really stand with him. And only time will hold the answer to that question.

Good luck!:rose:
 
You know it is hard to really say. I had a chick fuck me out of my first marriage, we got married and it lasted 6 months. I am considering going back to the original wife at this time and the second is very miserable about this.

But for the record, I am on the streets and every woman that fucks me says that it's pretty good. Maybe you just need a good fuck and you will be okay.
 
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