Should I fuck him??

[ejls]

Don't do it. Wait for that relationship to end. Be his friend first. Would you want a man who would cheat on his wife? What would make you think he wouldn't cheat on you? If it's right, it will happen when you are both available.

 

[RuneBlade]

What do you want from him, sex or emotional connection? If it's just sex, going for it has fewer ramifications. If you want emotional connection, then giving yourself the pleasure of fucking him now may eventually lead to some emotional pain later were he to take the position of having you as well is a lot easier than going through a messy divorce. Sounds like a conversation about expectations is in order...perhaps ahead of, "I want you so fucking bad!!"

Great post. It all depends on what sex is for you as a person. And the answer to this: if this guy wasn't married, would you want a relationship with him?

If you just want to have some tension relieving good times sex and don't care about the rest, then hit it like it's going out of style. Otherwise, hold your ground.

His marriage might be horrible (another poster pointed out perception vs. reality, which you also have to weigh), but chances are if you get emotionally involved with someone coming out of a bad relationship, they'll need some time to chill and adjust. Rebound, ya dig?

 

[Rawhide_101]

I think everyone is missing the obvious here . . .

I believe Aussie should:

FUCK ME!

 

[WinterBlueAbby]

I would hold out until he can give himself to you with an open mind and clear conscience.