She's into it, I'm not so much

acynlacy

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Lacy loves to play the sub, loves to be spanked, commanded and submit to a Master. I love anything that turns her on, but just can't get into the dom role, does nothing for me. I've read a lot on this site and many others to learn the things a dom does, so I get make her hot, but she can tell I'm faking it. Now we have a great sex life without d/s but nothing sets her off like submitting.

She once had an email dom and she loved chatting with him and doing what he would command, but after a while they lost interest due to the limits an online relationship has. Another online dom got on cam with her and she had a lot of fun, I even helped carry out his commands on her, but he went too far. He was commanding her to do destructive things that would have cost her her job, so she ended that.

A couple of years ago, through a chat room, I met a guy who was working on a project near our city and he had a lot of dom experience. I chatted with him about D/s, met him for lunch and decided, if I was there, Lacy would enjoy and evening of submission with him. So we set it up.

She got home from work one afternoon, I took her to dinner and I told her after dinner I was going to take her to a hotel room to be trained by a dom. She was very excited and I spent the evening watching her submit to him completely. She loved the experience and we went home after and both of us were late to work the next day.

We weren't able to meet with him again, the logistics didn't work out.

How do other husbands who are not in D/s do to let their wives experience the thing that turns them on the most?
 
I'd say you're doing a pretty good job of letting her have the experience. It might help to locate a local BDSM club, though.
 
I hardly need mention; the absolute, hard limit, never an exception, rule in these situations is;

If the dude does not respect you, he does not get his hands on your wife.

Period, period, period.
 
If the dude does not respect you, he does not get his hands on your wife.

The guy we met at the hotel was very respectful, the last online guy was not. That's why he got cut off.
 
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