Shemales, (transsexuals)

[TirelessTongue]

Has anyone ever had an experience with a Shemale? I was curious and would like to hear some experiences on it. Does anyone know what its like to cross over?

Shemales on lit and men and women who've had experiences with shemales are very welcome to reply.

 

[madmanmike]

i dont have an experince yet but that is a very nice looking dick you have their. very nice indeed.

 

[Harrowborg]

Depends really what you mean by 'experience'. I've talked to a post op transexual. I'll be honest and say I thought she had been a woman all her life but even when she told me in conversation I wasn't to phased. She was a lot nicer to talk to than some women so I guess that was an 'experience' of sorts.

 

[AndreaTMichelle]

Has anyone ever had an experience with a Shemale? I was curious and would like to hear some experiences on it. Does anyone know what its like to cross over?

Shemales on lit and men and women who've had experiences with shemales are very welcome to reply.

Just so you know...

There is a very big difference bewteen a shemale and a Transexual.

A Transexual is a male or female who feels that they are in the body of the wrong gender. A male to female Transexual feels that he is a femal trapped in a male body. Most not all, want to live, dress and hopefully have Sexual Reasignment surgery to complete the "physical" change. Some cant afford it, and are what others call non-op Transexuals.

A shemale is a term coined by the adult film industry, refering to a pornstar who was a male, has either taken hormones or had breast augmentation, and preforms in movies or as an escort providing services, and using her Male genitals as a "cum" on to attract mostly men. These persons are not alway wanting to have the sexual reassignment surgery, and some even advertise themselves as a "Shemale"

To use that term for all transexuals will create alot of anger, so I would be carefull how and to whom you use it.

Just thought you might like to know.


Andrea

 

[Lightning]

AndreaTMichele...

...that's interesting information that I wasn't aware of before. Thank you for sharing that with us.

 

[Etoile]

Way to go, Andrea! Nicely said.

TirelessTongue, we've had a lot of threads on this topic in the past that have gotten some discussion. You might want to do a search on "transsexual" for all posts in GLBT Chatter. There won't be a whole lot of results, you'll be able to pick out the relevant ones pretty easily.

 

[overthebow]

Depends really what you mean by 'experience'. I've talked to a post op transexual. I'll be honest and say I thought she had been a woman all her life but even when she told me in conversation I wasn't to phased. She was a lot nicer to talk to than some women so I guess that was an 'experience' of sorts.

I met Holly Woodlawn at at radio station once. I met her in the lobby and didn't know who she was. My reaction to her was "Hey, how's it going?" She sort of flirted with me (I'm 6'4", 220) She was doing publicity for a book and when she was leaving, I saw her again, and I knew who she was, my reaction was "Hey, take care of yourself". These are things I would say to a guy, almost never to a woman.

 

[AndreaTMichelle]

Way to go, Andrea! Nicely said.

TirelessTongue, we've had a lot of threads on this topic in the past that have gotten some discussion. You might want to do a search on "transsexual" for all posts in GLBT Chatter. There won't be a whole lot of results, you'll be able to pick out the relevant ones pretty easily.

Thanks, I guess I also forgot to mention that there are also female to male transexuals as well.


Andrea

 

[retrobob69]

shemales

Hi
Yes Ive had sex with post op T/S
If you want to know more let me know
Retrobob

 

[conntom2002]

massachusetts
cape cod
province town

shim had 36d's and a 7 inch dik with a nice big head that i could feel working in my like a plunger

best sex ever

 

[pleasing2you]

Where are the pictures?

I was on this site last week and saw some beautiful pictures. I also posted a reply. Can someone tell me where to go for the pictures?

 

[AndreaTMichelle]

Re: Where are the pictures?

I was on this site last week and saw some beautiful pictures. I also posted a reply. Can someone tell me where to go for the pictures?

That other thread is here:

where you posted....

Hope you can find it... I did.

Andrea

 

[TirelessTongue]

Thank you everyone, You've been a tremendous help.

My curiousity about this pretty much relates to wanting a woman take me from behind with a strap on. I figured that if I was horny enough, I can please the right TS, most likely a post op.

 

[Etoile]

My curiousity about this pretty much relates to wanting a woman take me from behind with a strap on. I figured that if I was horny enough, I can please the right TS, most likely a post op.

Okay, I'm a little confused here. You want a post op MTF tranny to take you from behind with a strap on? Why not just any woman? What is the appeal of a tranny?

 

[Mallory69]

Okay, I'm a little confused here. You want a post op MTF tranny to take you from behind with a strap on? Why not just any woman? What is the appeal of a tranny?

You didn't read the thread properly. He stated that his attraction or curiosity towards m-f transexuals stemmed from the fact that he was curious about having a woman- a genetic one at that- to take him from behind with a strapon.

Anyway, I have often wished I could meet a pretty and attractive pre or post op transexual and have an intimate realationship with one. Not just sex mind you but something more in the long term. I myself am a m-f crossdresser/transgendered/two spirited person. I dress en femme whenever I am home alone (I live on my own) and am not expecting any company or have to go somewhere where I have to dress in male clothes. Sometimes I have more female clothes than male clothes in my laundry.

I don't like the pictures of the trans-type people who dress souly for fetishistic reasons and display pictures of their dark hairy crotches encased in a pair of panties.. A true devotee to being a real trans-type person will make every effort to make themselves look as pretty and feminine as possible. I am aware that not all of those who tryly feel feminine inside are able to shave and I truly feel sorry for them but it would seem that there are a lot of phonies out there as well. When you see shows like Gerry Springer who only serve to exploit or poke fun at true transgendered persons, they only create a negative stereotype of those who really feel 'trapped' inside the wrong body.

Thank god for the real shows like Maury, Rikki or Jenny.

Anyway. If I were to ever have an opportunity to make love to a real pre-op transexual I would definitely go for it.


Mallory

 

[Etoile]

You didn't read the thread properly. He stated that his attraction or curiosity towards m-f transexuals stemmed from the fact that he was curious about having a woman- a genetic one at that- to take him from behind with a strapon.

Uh, no, I've been reading the thread since the beginning! I was basing my statement on the part that I quoted, which was worded in a puzzling manner.

A true devotee to being a real trans-type person will make every effort to make themselves look as pretty and feminine as possible. I am aware that not all of those who tryly feel feminine inside are able to shave and I truly feel sorry for them but it would seem that there are a lot of phonies out there as well. When you see shows like Gerry Springer who only serve to exploit or poke fun at true transgendered persons, they only create a negative stereotype of those who really feel 'trapped' inside the wrong body.

Thank god for the real shows like Maury, Rikki or Jenny.

Heh, I don't watch talk shows enough to know them from each other, but I suspect they all are using T people for shock value rather than for audience education.

I'm puzzled by your use of this phrase:

A true devotee to being a real trans-type person

So...a transsexual, then? Or transvestite, if transitioning isn't a goal? Why obfuscate that way? I think the phrase "shemale" is commonly accepted for the people you describe as not liking. TS and TV are the "real" ones. Then again, there are plenty of TV and TS women who are working as shemales to get the cash for SRS.

Oh, and shaving? I know plenty of hairy GGs (I used to be one), so shaving has nothing to do with it. Feminity...well, let's just leave the FTMs out of this discussion entirely, shall we?

 

[AZMajician]

said with a tongue in cheek laugh.....

Oh, and shaving? I know plenty of hairy GGs (I used to be one), so shaving has nothing to do with it.

so Etoile.. which were you?? GG or hairy??? (seeing as you said you used to be one... )

ok.. now I know you read these posts.. so if you didnt read the "subject line.. this is being asked with a tongue in cheek attitude..


LOL...

Majic.

 

[Mallory69]

Uh, no, I've been reading the thread since the beginning! I was basing my statement on the part that I quoted, which was worded in a puzzling manner.

Heh, I don't watch talk shows enough to know them from each other, but I suspect they all are using T people for shock value rather than for audience education.

I'm puzzled by your use of this phrase:

So...a transsexual, then? Or transvestite, if transitioning isn't a goal? Why obfuscate that way? I think the phrase "shemale" is commonly accepted for the people you describe as not liking. TS and TV are the "real" ones. Then again, there are plenty of TV and TS women who are working as shemales to get the cash for SRS.

Oh, and shaving? I know plenty of hairy GGs (I used to be one), so shaving has nothing to do with it. Feminity...well, let's just leave the FTMs out of this discussion entirely, shall we?

obfuscate ? Nice word. What does it mean? I'll definitely have to look it up so that I can boost my vocabulary. I love learning new words so that I might incorporate them into conversation and confuse the hell out of those who might not even try to boost their own vocabulary.

As for my comments about the Maury or other shows other than Jerry. A good number of times they are not so much for shock value as they are for real entertainment and enjoyment. Some of the 'girls' Maury features are drop dead gorgeous and show incredible talent . He will mix them with genetic females and will challenge his audience to guess which have been born genetically female and which are not. It is very difficult to tell them apart. On shows like Rikki and the now cancelled Jenny, the stories are more heartwarming and sincere. On these shows the T*- type person shows a desire to present themselves to a dear friend or family member who gave them support in their formative years while others may have picked on them or harassed them in some way. More often than not, it is a happy reunion and not exploitive or met with anger, hostility or rage. The Springer show however tends to do just that. His shows are totally outrageous and have the shock value that seems to draw the crowds in with the hope that they'll see some kind of violent reaction. Sort of like the reason some people watch car races withthe hopes that they'll see an accident or a hockey game so that they might watch a fight.


Anyway. I appreciate your response to my post.

Mallory

 

[JeanetteLv2]

Don't you just love it when crossdressers think they can speak to the issues, feelings and experiences of being a transsexual?

this is being asked with a tongue in cheek attitude..

So the use of 'shemale' is a joke. Guess I miss the humor in that since I only see it as a derogatory thing. Personally I think those transsexual women that are okay with it's usage are merely bowing to society's take on us or are trying to 'retake' the term back from society which is I think is bad since the term holds no inherit respect for the desired gender.

The problem is how do you educate those that look upon you as freaks of nature or merely a sexual taboo object to be used briefly and then tossed out? Sorry but suppose I'm just in a discouraged with society mood tonigt.

 

[Squeezenplease]

Re: Re: Shemales, (transsexuals)

Just so you know...

There is a very big difference bewteen a shemale and a Transexual.

A Transexual is a male or female who feels that they are in the body of the wrong gender. A male to female Transexual feels that he is a femal trapped in a male body. Most not all, want to live, dress and hopefully have Sexual Reasignment surgery to complete the "physical" change. Some cant afford it, and are what others call non-op Transexuals.

A shemale is a term coined by the adult film industry, refering to a pornstar who was a male, has either taken hormones or had breast augmentation, and preforms in movies or as an escort providing services, and using her Male genitals as a "cum" on to attract mostly men. These persons are not alway wanting to have the sexual reassignment surgery, and some even advertise themselves as a "Shemale"

To use that term for all transexuals will create alot of anger, so I would be carefull how and to whom you use it.

Just thought you might like to k


you're right in most ways....those men who are attracted mostly to trannys ( as my former lover liked to be called in private) are just like anyone else...attracted sexually to someone. It's not a big deal

 

[Mallory69]

Don't you just love it when crossdressers think they can speak to the issues, feelings and experiences of being a transsexual?

Are you saying that because even though I am only able to crossdress and unable to take things any further than I wish I could that I have no understanding of how it is to be 2 spirited? I use THAT term because it is how I feel inside. I yearn to be a woman. I have been dressing since a very early age. I have wished upon shooting stars, the first, and /or brightest star at night to wake up as a girl when I was younger and even prayed to god to change my life and let me wake up as a girl and have everyone around me act and treat me as if I had been female all my life. I have read stories from others who have been successful in their whole transitioning process with the love and support I know I would not get if I were to go forward with my dreams and have been saddened by that knowledge. I have seen some of the most beautiful clothes on the racks in the store where I work, in the mall, in the various catalogues and even being worn by some of the most beutiful women I have seen and wished that I could be free to wear those clothes in public and look just as pretty and natural as any other woman. Granted I would still be mainly attracted to other women as I find a hairy overly muscular male body totally unappealing. At the same time though I don't find big chested women very appealing either. I am thankful that I have a small body frame and am very lightweight for my size. I make every effort to keep my body completely shaved so as to enhance the image I try to create when I dress. I am thankful that I am mostly passable but wish I could completely pass so that I could go out in public during the day and blend in with the crowd. I have often fantasized how it would be if I could find a job somewhere far from my home town or even within it's boundaries and dress en femme. I have let my hair grow out and arrange it in a feminine style as soon as it is dry enough after a shower to make me look and feel more feminine. I trim, file and shape my nails regularly but not so much soas to arouse suspicion amoong my co-workers. I almost always wear at least a pair of panties under my clothes every day fo keep me connected with my fem side. I get very envious of women when I see the camraderie they share with one another which is a much closer and affectionate bond than any male hetro relationship. hell I even get envious when I see a couple of girls helping each other put on their nailpolish or fix each other's hair wishing that I could have a turn. When I was very young I used to have a recurring dream that my bed would be mysteriously lowered into a secret chamber and I'd be immersed in a nice bath of perfumed water and then towelled dry by a number of loving caring women who would then dress me up all nice and girly and introduce me to my new playmates who for the most part would be real girls.

I am more than just a crossdresser unfortunately it is all I can ever hope to be.

Mallory

 

[JeanetteLv2]

I'm sorry. I probably shouldn't have said what I did above. Was a bad day emotionally for me I suppose.

But still basically your above comments especially the "a true devotee to being a real trans-type person" one... I feel seem to have signs of a fetishistic and perhaps to some an insulting mindset on such things yourself. And I mean fetishistic not per se in the sexual denotation.

 

[Etoile]

obfuscate ? Nice word. What does it mean? I'll definitely have to look it up so that I can boost my vocabulary. I love learning new words so that I might incorporate them into conversation and confuse the hell out of those who might not even try to boost their own vocabulary.

Did you look it up already? Sorry I didn't answer sooner! It means "to hide the meaning of something," and it's almost always used tongue in cheek (!) because the word itself does what it says.

As for the debate going on, I am sitting on the sidelines because I don't feel qualified to participate. As a GG, I cannot fully understand the MTF CD or Trans experience. I am pretty damn familiar with it, and the FTM side as well, along with other non binary trans issues...but I don't want to speak authoritatively when there are others here who could do so better than I.

 

[jessy19]

Ok i got a question and I hope it does not sound dumb but i'm very sheltered and I don't know much about shemales.

Are shemales guys with tits? or girls with dicks? are they naturally born like that?

 

[Wolf of Mibu 69]

Transsexuals are women trapped in a man's body. Some people would say a cross-dresser, but that is something else. A cross-dresser could be a gay man who gets off on dressing up as a school-girl and taking it up the ass, but a transsexual is someone who wishes to live as a woman, and maybe have gender re-assignment surgery.

There are instances of Hermaphroditism (not sure if that's the right term) where people are born with a conglomeration of sexual parts... partially formed versions of both, and from what I've seen, though they're partially androgynous, there's usually a leaning towards one side or the other.

A lot of Male-to-Female Transsexuals either get growth hormones to try and grow breasts or they get implants... or both.

Does that help? If not, read the entire topic. Some people have posted on here who are better-informed than this chronic masturbator and reader of T-Girl erotica.