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Wear a tank top.
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Use mind control.
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superlittlegirl
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Pheromones.
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Actually, I was just kidding.
Is her other relationship troubled? Is she looking to you for support or a way out?
What did she say to let you know of her feelings for you?
I need more details before I can give you any advice.
Is her other relationship troubled? Is she looking to you for support or a way out?
What did she say to let you know of her feelings for you?
I need more details before I can give you any advice.
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superlittlegirl
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yayati,
It sounds like you need to take some time out to be with yourself. Turning your attentions inward might make it easier to transition into married life, which for you, is imminent. If the casual relationships are, indeed, never going to result in a way that's fulfilling to either partner, it doesn't seem like a productive way to spend your time. I suggest finding an organization to volunteer with, or perhaps find a means of artistic or musical expression that you enjoy to fill your time.
As far as breaking up with the girl goes, I think your impending marriage would be reason enough for the breakup. She certainly cannot argue with the cultural mores you were raised to adhere to. I say, do it sooner than later, so both your feelings and hers will have a chance to heal.
Spend these last months of bachelorhood in the way that feels most fulfilling to you, because if your marriage does turn out to be a success, you may never enjoy such independence again.
And I know you weren't being a jerk. You didn't even have to clarify that.
Good Luck!
It sounds like you need to take some time out to be with yourself. Turning your attentions inward might make it easier to transition into married life, which for you, is imminent. If the casual relationships are, indeed, never going to result in a way that's fulfilling to either partner, it doesn't seem like a productive way to spend your time. I suggest finding an organization to volunteer with, or perhaps find a means of artistic or musical expression that you enjoy to fill your time.
As far as breaking up with the girl goes, I think your impending marriage would be reason enough for the breakup. She certainly cannot argue with the cultural mores you were raised to adhere to. I say, do it sooner than later, so both your feelings and hers will have a chance to heal.
Spend these last months of bachelorhood in the way that feels most fulfilling to you, because if your marriage does turn out to be a success, you may never enjoy such independence again.
And I know you weren't being a jerk. You didn't even have to clarify that.
Good Luck!
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You're right, yayati. There's going to be pain for all involved, no matter what you do. The best thing you can do now is reduce the amount of pain each person feels. I know you can figure out a way to do it. Honesty hurts like hell, but often it's the best solution for the long run. If you speak sincerely and truthfully about the situation, it'll be okay eventually.
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you said in the other thread that this wasn't about you.
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yayati said:
Liar.
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really, it was gas. Thats all.
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