How do you feel when you see the man your having an affair with his wife instead of you.

[DaniChris]

I was at a music festival over the weekend with some friends and spotted the guy ,who is having an affair with me, there with his wife. I actually felt a little jealous, angry and betrayed..I know what we have is a secret affair, but didnt think it would impact me like it did.

 

[Grumpy1973]

I'm gonna be honest and you may not like this answer. I wouldn't be in your situation in the first place. It's not a good, desirable, or healthy place to be. Oh, I'm sure you're loving the excitement of it all. But think about what you just told us about how it made you feel seeing him with her. And you're just the side piece. Imagine if she wound up seeing you together. But really, why are you jealous of her? You think this guy loves you? You think he loves her? Obviously he's fucking you both, and he's happy being with her as they were at this festival together having fun. But that's what I don't get about people hooking up with married people. So, say he does leave her and you get him. What happens when he's tired of you and starts having an affair? Obviously, you want him all to your own as you got all jealous when seeing him with his wife. What happens when he starts cheating on you? The other thing I don't understand with you people that get with people that are married is how casually disregard the fact that you're participating in actions that will rip apart another person's life cutting and damaging them to the very soul. How would/are you gonna feel when this guy does it to you. Because there are only a few ways your little affair are gonna end. The first is he grows tired of the fling and goes back to his wife. The second is he leaves his wife for you and you get him up until he finds a newer model to trade for. Think he won't, he's already done it once with you. And let's be honest he doesn't think as highly of you as you think he does. You're an easy catch so needy you'll sleep with a married man. The final way it ends is she finds out, divorces him, takes all his shit in the divorce and you get the prize, a broke ass cheater that's already proven he's capable of deception and disloyalty. My advice to you is to grow up and quit being a narcissistic whore.

 

[Britva415]

I was at a music festival over the weekend with some friends and spotted the guy ,who is having an affair with me, there with his wife. I actually felt a little jealous, angry and betrayed..I know what we have is a secret affair, but didnt think it would impact me like it did.

Have fun with it. Talk to him about it next time you hook up with him and turn it into some drama which will make him work all the harder at pleasing you.

 

[Yarglenurp]

I’d say… find a dude that wasn’t in the closet?

But seriously, you are at a music festival. Those things wouldn’t exist if there wasn’t the implicit promise of casual hookups because why the fuck else would anyone choose hard-to-hear singers, smelly crowds, and over-priced beers? If you can’t find a dude to fuck at that event… gotta up your game.

 

[DaniChris]

I'm gonna be honest and you may not like this answer. I wouldn't be in your situation in the first place. It's not a good, desirable, or healthy place to be. Oh, I'm sure you're loving the excitement of it all. But think about what you just told us about how it made you feel seeing him with her. And you're just the side piece. Imagine if she wound up seeing you together. But really, why are you jealous of her? You think this guy loves you? You think he loves her? Obviously he's fucking you both, and he's happy being with her as they were at this festival together having fun. But that's what I don't get about people hooking up with married people. So, say he does leave her and you get him. What happens when he's tired of you and starts having an affair? Obviously, you want him all to your own as you got all jealous when seeing him with his wife. What happens when he starts cheating on you? The other thing I don't understand with you people that get with people that are married is how casually disregard the fact that you're participating in actions that will rip apart another person's life cutting and damaging them to the very soul. How would/are you gonna feel when this guy does it to you. Because there are only a few ways your little affair are gonna end. The first is he grows tired of the fling and goes back to his wife. The second is he leaves his wife for you and you get him up until he finds a newer model to trade for. Think he won't, he's already done it once with you. And let's be honest he doesn't think as highly of you as you think he does. You're an easy catch so needy you'll sleep with a married man. The final way it ends is she finds out, divorces him, takes all his shit in the divorce and you get the prize, a broke ass cheater that's already proven he's capable of deception and disloyalty. My advice to you is to grow up and quit being a narcissistic whore.

Ouch,,,

 

[DaniChris]

Have fun with it. Talk to him about it next time you hook up with him and turn it into some drama which will make him work all the harder at pleasing you.

I did,,,I teased the hell out of him when we hooked up during the week

 

[easyoff]

I'd ask for a 3some

 

[Yarglenurp]

I'm gonna be honest and you may not like this answer. I wouldn't be in your situation in the first place. It's not a good, desirable, or healthy place to be. Oh, I'm sure you're loving the excitement of it all. But think about what you just told us about how it made you feel seeing him with her. And you're just the side piece. Imagine if she wound up seeing you together. But really, why are you jealous of her? You think this guy loves you? You think he loves her? Obviously he's fucking you both, and he's happy being with her as they were at this festival together having fun. But that's what I don't get about people hooking up with married people. So, say he does leave her and you get him. What happens when he's tired of you and starts having an affair? Obviously, you want him all to your own as you got all jealous when seeing him with his wife. What happens when he starts cheating on you? The other thing I don't understand with you people that get with people that are married is how casually disregard the fact that you're participating in actions that will rip apart another person's life cutting and damaging them to the very soul. How would/are you gonna feel when this guy does it to you. Because there are only a few ways your little affair are gonna end. The first is he grows tired of the fling and goes back to his wife. The second is he leaves his wife for you and you get him up until he finds a newer model to trade for. Think he won't, he's already done it once with you. And let's be honest he doesn't think as highly of you as you think he does. You're an easy catch so needy you'll sleep with a married man. The final way it ends is she finds out, divorces him, takes all his shit in the divorce and you get the prize, a broke ass cheater that's already proven he's capable of deception and disloyalty. My advice to you is to grow up and quit being a narcissistic whore.

lol, I wonder if you read OP’s post history when you wrote this. I doubt very much that a gay CD believes that his married, closeted affair partner is going to leave his wife for him.