Shaving

[Hisbabydoll26]

Hello,

I was wondering how much girls like (if you like at all) guys shaving/trimming their penis/balls . And for guys that shave/trim , how often do you do it?

thanks,
Joe

Liked him.."hairy" but he trimmed..shaved...and wow...I LOVE IT...don't get me wrong...we can just use it as a change...and I will like it no matter what..but...well he looks..bigger. *giggling*

 

[bourbonslut]

Can't say I've ever been with a guy who shaved, so really I don't mind the hair, as long as you are CLEAN. Thanks guys! Always open to new experiences, though.

 

[rbijon]

I love to shave my pubs....I feel clean and I do admit as a guy, i feel just a little chaste! I also love how I feel far more stimualtion because touch is closer and my skin is softer. I shave for my Mistress, who I believe would rather me be a woman....it's all in fun, and all is wonderful!

 

[tmtrouble2006]

Shorty has a beard!!!

I used to shave, but I have been married for a long time. Really didn't spiice things up. After a while, I was wondering what the heck was I doing. Who was I shaving for? If it wasn't for my wife who would it be for then? So, if I no one else other then my wife or I is going to see it, why shave?

 

[vanelane]

I used to shave, but I have been married for a long time. Really didn't spiice things up. After a while, I was wondering what the heck was I doing. Who was I shaving for? If it wasn't for my wife who would it be for then? So, if I no one else other then my wife or I is going to see it, why shave?

Maybe it's time to surprise her and do it again?

 

[tmtrouble2006]

Maybe it's time to surprise her and do it again?

She was surprised allrighty, she asked me what in the world possesed me to shave my balls and cock. I told her that it makes them cooler in the summer. She bought that. Oh well.

 

[jethrobodeen]

I can't remember what he does, but TBKahuna123 might know...he plays hockey, and I know that's extreme and comes with a ton of protective gear. You might PM him if he doesn't pop in.

A lot of times it's heat and sweating that causes problems like itching and chafing. Some people use an unscented anti-perspirant (like Sure) after shaving or before the activity (or in the summer), and others use talcum powder or cornstarch.

My experience has been that after shaving regularly, my skin becomes desensitized enough (though not so much to not be super sensitive during sex) to deal with heat, activity, and tight clothing just fine.

I've never personally encountered a guy with ultra hairy balls, but can't imagine removing what little hair there is on those of the men I have been with would cause problems. The bigger issue would likely be the triangle on top, so you might consider a close trim there, or shaving at a time when you have a few days before the sports.

If you use Magic or any chemical, make sure you do a patch test on the inside of your arm or leg just like the directions say. Since shaving's working well for me, I'm not motivated to risk the chemical burns to try Magic, but with the stories I've heard and my experience with other depilitories, I'd NEVER use it without the testing.

Check out The Blank Manual for shaving, Magic, and other removal info.

Awesome wealth of info there, SweetErika as usual. I'll try some stuff to see what works or not. Ya just can't walk around the dojo scratchin' and scratchin'. Good idea about asking TBK, I didn't know he shaved. And the antiperspirant was a big surprise, heh, funny me, so sheltered......

-JB

 

[jethrobodeen]

Ha! You knew I was already at work by then! No fair!

{pouts}

Sorry, I'll ask first next time...

-JB

 

[jethrobodeen]

Liked him.."hairy" but he trimmed..shaved...and wow...I LOVE IT...don't get me wrong...we can just use it as a change...and I will like it no matter what..but...well he looks..bigger. *giggling*

Side benefits ....what's not to love

-JB

 

[jethrobodeen]

She was surprised allrighty, she asked me what in the world possesed me to shave my balls and cock. I told her that it makes them cooler in the summer. She bought that. Oh well.

What? You thought of taking a risk to spice things up for her and she goes judgemental on you? Oooo, them's grounds for a page six

-JB

 

[Tat2Fiend]

my wife has never said one way or the other whether she likes it,but I can tell by her reaction that she loves it when I shave my balls and trim the top.
She keeps herself bald or very close shaved so its always a good time.

 

[vanelane]

She was surprised allrighty, she asked me what in the world possesed me to shave my balls and cock. I told her that it makes them cooler in the summer. She bought that. Oh well.

Is is summer where you are? Why not tell her the truth?

 

[Mr. Mann]

I shave completely and my wife likes it for similar reasons as stated above:

1) Looks bigger
2) No hair to deal with during oral
3) She shaves, so the skin to skin contact feels GREAT during the horizontal mambo.

I like it because I am pretty darn hairy down there. It DOES keep it cooler and less itchy. No hair to trap all that heat and moisture!

It took awhile for the skin to sort of get used to shaving. Razor bumps and ingrown hairs can be a challenge in the beginning. But your skin seems to get accustomed and you get more practiced at shaving those areas where the hair grows in all osrts of different directions.

I apply powder after shaving. This also helps keep things nice and comfy during the day - and it also helps prevent razor bumps and ingrown hairs. I *think* it sort of helps reduce the sweat/oil build up.

It can be a little itchy if I let myself grow some stubble.. but to me it is far less itchy than a having a whle shrubbery between my legs.

What is this Magic Powder? I gotta go check out the Blank Manual.... [Mr. Mann disappears in a puff of brimstone smoke.]

 

[jethrobodeen]

ok, so I did it...

Yep, you heard right, folks. JB is now hairless from triangle down around the
world. Ok, so maybe I missed a couple tiny spots but fairly good job for first time newbie I might say. I like the smoothness and it feels very different than natural. It kinda wants to get a mind of it's own again....

And of course by popular request, I trimmed and tidied the triangle. I was really surprised to find that shaving my face is far riskier than shaving my balls to the walls. I was afraid I'd end up in the emergency room, but found exactly the opposite. I was scraping along with my triple-edge edge razor like a banchee after a few strokes . Man, I'm talking about almost clogging up the drain with all the hair I shaved off.

My wife had no idea I was up to this level of mischief. After I dried off, I put on those sexy underwear she bought me...uh guys underwear...just sexy

She was on the bed waiting....not a clue about the surprise I had planned. I really want to continue to spice up things between us. To make a long story short, check my member page for my posts in general, but I gave her a few good ones still hiding my secret from her. As a side note, for some reason, tonight, her little man in the boat was especially prominent, and we both noticed as I lightly rubbed and rubbed and kissed her nipples and (well read my stuff to know me). Just thought I'd mention that.....I don't know why....

And as we've been learning, as a couple, that after several orgasms in a few minutes for her, we need to shift the focus to me. I never thought as I was growing up, that she should be concerned about my satisfaction...I'm a guy... I shouldn't need anything like that right? Shit.

She gets between my legs, doing some recently learned magic on me, eventually takes off my sexy *uh men's* underwear and begins to realize the surprise I had for her as it slowly unfolds bit by bit as she realized she was rubbing my balls but there was no hair. She didn't react with any type of excitement, only looked at me funny and I warned her about the page six if she laughed. It was a good BJ, don't get me wrong. After I exploded all over her in my, uh rather usual style, I laid back and we shared an after glow moment. And she found me still quite the stallion, so she rode me cowgirl till she almost disappeared into the sunset...she enjoys such ecstacy from this position, though I'm sure we'd both rate other positions equally as well or better in other ways...

But that was it. I surprised her with a risky move, a gift to spice up our lives, and she didn't get it. I would have been emotionally satisfied if she had expressed at least some excitement or acknowledge my effort at my vulnerable time...but no.

I can relate to the other posts of why bother....yet so many Women of Lit really like it, so...... now wondering whether to keep it shaved or not, that will depend on whether I like it enough myself....or..... no *slaps head*

Send me some lovin'...please. I'm a little bit messed-up over this...

-JB

 

[vanelane]

Well, I just don't know. To me it is so erotic to be able to lick and suck all those lovely bald bits I don't understand 'not getting it.' Of course my situation is a bit different, in that hubby was a shaver before we ever met so the very first time we were intimate I received the pleasant surprise! I can remember kind of giggling almost every time for about a year 'cause I thought it was so cool he shaved 'for me.' His response was always "Maybe I do it for myself." Rambling here. JB, I don't know the answer for you. From all the times we've crossed paths on threads recently I know you don't feel she's very skilled at oral lovemaking, although she's willing, so all I can say is communicate, communicate, communicate. I also know you believe she's hypersensitive to criticism so I realize there's a fine line. Maybe you could ask her to take your balls in her mouth; I know that's something that is much more fun with baldies than hair. Y'all are going through a process of making some changes to your lovemaking routine; I'd say keep up the hair removal to allow for the possibilities.

 

[SweetErika]

Maybe you could ask her to take your balls in her mouth; I know that's something that is much more fun with baldies than hair.

YES, that's exactly where it makes a huge difference for us. If I was just touching his balls, it might feel a little different, but it wouldn't be a big deal. However, kissing, licking, sucking, nuzzling...that's where shaved is far superior for both of us (sensitivity for him --though that's exciting to me too, and no hair near my mouth).

My hubby also pointed out less hair=more of a view, and I think that's somewhat true for me to. I like to see everything, and a very close trim or shave allows for that.

So, for someone who's not really excited about genitals or doesn't do much more than touch and give standard oral, I can see where it wouldn't be that much of a change or thrill. I'm not sure how your wife is, JB, but maybe you could subtly point some of these benefits out, and definitely let her know if it's exciting to you in any way (if it's not...just let it grow back! ).

 

[tmtrouble2006]

Let Me Clarify Something Here

Is is summer where you are? Why not tell her the truth?

Yes, it was Summer here, it gets to over 120 degrees outside where I work, yes it makes my genitals cooler. I didn't LIE to her. But...... the look of, YOU FREAK, on her face caused me to question it. I guess the chief reason why guys do this is to get their significant others to enjoy oral more on them. Well, since she doesn't enjoy GIVING oral, that really didn't help much. SO, shorty has a beard. It takes to much effort to keep it slick. Not to mention, when the hair starts to grow out, it is itchy!

 

[cfnmtom]

shaving

My swimsuits are meant for guys who shave....
http://i37.photobucket.com/albums/e96/cfnmtom/004-l.jpg

 

[tmtrouble2006]

I can relate to the other posts of why bother....yet so many Women of Lit really like it, so......

The women on Lit are unique, but the only one that I am having physical sex with is my wife. Maybe taking pictures of me shaved and posting it on the board would get some attention. But all that would be helping is my self-esteem. Because I don't suffer from low esteem, it wouldn't make much difference. Besides, I have posted pictures of my shaved member on a website before. There, I got lots of compliments. But compliments, don't make a sex life. All I am saying is that I have to try other things. Shaving, obviously doesn't work for her.

 

[vanelane]

Yes, it was Summer here, it gets to over 120 degrees outside where I work, yes it makes my genitals cooler. I didn't LIE to her. But...... the look of, YOU FREAK, on her face caused me to question it. I guess the chief reason why guys do this is to get their significant others to enjoy oral more on them. Well, since she doesn't enjoy GIVING oral, that really didn't help much. SO, shorty has a beard. It takes to much effort to keep it slick. Not to mention, when the hair starts to grow out, it is itchy!

See, I thought you'd just shaved. Silly me. Again, same as what I said to JB, communication is key. If intimacy is missing, just shaving your package and hoping it will lead to hot oral sex is probably unrealistic. If you tell her you'd like to shave again and why and how much it turns you on to think about her licking your smooth balls, maybe you'd get a better response. Just remembered one of the hottest evenings I had years ago involved someone shaving me. Just sayin...

 

[tmtrouble2006]

See, I thought you'd just shaved. Silly me. Again, same as what I said to JB, communication is key. If intimacy is missing, just shaving your package and hoping it will lead to hot oral sex is probably unrealistic. If you tell her you'd like to shave again and why and how much it turns you on to think about her licking your smooth balls, maybe you'd get a better response. Just remembered one of the hottest evenings I had years ago involved someone shaving me. Just sayin...

I appreciate what you are saying. You would be definitely one I would shave for. Would love to shave right in front of you. The problem is that she doesn't like giving oral. No problems receiving it though. Basically, I should have not expected more from just a shave. Silly me. I have learned to enjoy what I have. Doing it in the dark, missionary, and me giving her oral isn't bad.

 

[vanelane]

I appreciate what you are saying. You would be definitely one I would shave for. Would love to shave right in front of you. The problem is that she doesn't like giving oral. No problems receiving it though. Basically, I should have not expected more from just a shave. Silly me. I have learned to enjoy what I have. Doing it in the dark, missionary, and me giving her oral isn't bad.

Well, you could tell her I was never a big fan of oral either, until I met hubby, who shaves, and he enjoyed it sooo much that it just turned me on no end.

 

[SweetErika]

I appreciate what you are saying. You would be definitely one I would shave for. Would love to shave right in front of you. The problem is that she doesn't like giving oral. No problems receiving it though. Basically, I should have not expected more from just a shave. Silly me. I have learned to enjoy what I have. Doing it in the dark, missionary, and me giving her oral isn't bad.

You're absolutely right...if I didn't like giving oral in the first place, it wouldn't make a bit of difference. It doesn't even have a high "spice factor" like new toys or fantasies; it's just a little something different, and enhances things I already thoroughly enjoy.

In another forum, a member posted he shaved to try to change things up and get some passion back. Apparently it was NOT a hit with the Mrs. (she didn't hate it, but she didn't find it exciting either), and the poor guy didn't even get recognition for trying. So, I think so much of it's individual attitudes and the state of the relationship: if those are poor in the first place, little to nothing, and certainly not shaving, will get a positive reception.

 

[tmtrouble2006]

Well, you could tell her I was never a big fan of oral either, until I met hubby, who shaves, and he enjoyed it sooo much that it just turned me on no end.

I am glad hubby found your key!!! Would have been a shame for both of you if he had not. I have heard all the excuses about why she doesn't like oral. It takes too long for you to cum. My jaw hurts. I don't like the taste. It isn't ladylike to do that. Etc...Etc...Etc...

What she doesn't know is what it does to me when, in the every four years she does it all the way.

Literally turns me inside-out in ecstacy. The best way I can describe it for you ladies is while you are cumming your man clamps down on your clit and keeps sucking. I do this all the time. Puts women through the roof. Guess what ladies, it does the same thing to us.



Reminds me of an old joke.

Why does a bride smile on her wedding day?

Ans. Because she has given her last blow-job.

 

[vanelane]

See, again I'll say communication is the key. Why in the world does she not know how much you love it? I realize it's true that ladies on Lit are not the average, but anything my guy tells me turns him on turns me on because of that.