Sharing my bed?

[Straight-8]

OK. Masturbation implies intent to me. I assumed he was awake. 'Nocturnal emissions' I am familiar with but not 'sleep-jacking'. Do you believe him?

Ignore my advice, this is weirder than I thought.

 

[mjl2010]

Yes hes sound asleep, and dosnt remember doing it.

Ok well that's a completely different issue. Lots of guys have fantasies/dreams about all kinds of things. Dreaming you don't have control. Fantasizing there's less control but if you really want to you can stop thinking in that vein. I don't really know if an NE is brought on by masturbating in your sleep. I do remember dreaming all kinds of things when I was a teenager, even into my late teens and early twenties.

Falling asleep next to my GF once, I moaned another womans name. I remember right then I was not dreaming about sex, something completely different. But she was never able to accept that since we'd been making love just a half hour before. I think it was the beginning of the end of us.

SO you need to get him to be honest with you. Do you trust him? Does he have feelings for her? Do you believe him? All that.

Anyway, I'd say next time wake him up and see where it goes. Ask him what he was dreaming. If he's embarrassed, well....draw your own conclusions.

A good thread discussion though in any case.

MJL

 

[bgr]

ddddd

 

[M's girl]

leave the guy alone...

You mean leave the guy....

(Your) life is cluttered? Yeah, well, who's isn't these days? Deal with it. It's no reason or excuse to start behaving obnoxious...

 

[Lookingforideas]

leave the guy alone...there are very few places I can escape....my truck,
the toilet and my dreams....everywhere else life is cluttered.....don't wake him up and invade that space....leave him be.

So you are telling me that if your SO was repeatly moaning out someone elses name in her sleep it wouldnt bother you at all????