Sharing Kinks with Friends

Does anyone out there talk about the weird stuff they are into with their friends? Is it fun to find out if you share any kinks or is it too awkward to get into with them?
Only friends I can talk to about this are the ones who have had fun with my wife or with me. I can't talk about this with work friends or general friends. Kinks and fetishes are separate areas
 
I came out about my bisexuality to a female friend before I left for Australia in 2015. We had been having a sexual relationship, but there was a huge age difference and I was leaving the U.S. to start a new life, so we agreed to remain just friends and not try the long-distance relationship thing. She was very interested in my bisexuality, and wanted in-depth details. She's the first person that I ever told about ALL my kinks. She has visited me a couple of times since I moves to Oz and we still talk in-depth about my male and trans lovers.
 
Personally, I'm only interested in the kinks of my female friends or females I meet at parties or bars or my place where booze is available.

IMO, women are better at discussing that stuff than dudes and the convos can be interesting until some wet blanket barges into the talk and changes the conversation.
 
I share my kinks here on Lit only. Have had great straight sex, then great gay sex for many years. I write them in the "gay male" section but also involve the beautiful sexy girls who are into reading about male on male sex. Username is PG564E. Latest story is titled "A cure for Pain" in the gay male forum. Working on my 18th story.
 
This isn't a universe that we live in, but I wish I lived in an AU where sharing your wife with her brother was considered socially acceptable but VERY kinky.

I'd love for my wife's brother to move in with us as her lover and second husband. He moves in and the rest of our days are spent as a triad, my wife getting railed by bother of us daily. Waking me up with her creampie filled with her brother's semen as it drips out of her and onto my lips. Her brother watching me rail his baby sister while he masturbates, preparing to take her next, and each of us giving her all our love, DPing her, preparing her for each other, and spending a life just making sure she's the most sexually satisfied woman on the planet - a loving brother and a loving husband - two men always ready to serve her desires.

I'd love if all our friends and family knew about the arrangement, thought we were kinky, but did not judge us because it would be socially acceptable. On nights where I am out with friends they ask me how my family is and I always include my wife's brother in the update. They all know that since I am out at 11pm, she is probably getting railed by him.

Her friends ask her advice on DPing and have MFM sex because they know she's become somewhat of an expert.
 
I have one good friend I share sex stories with and pics of our wives. I don't tell him everything especially about me wearing female stuff. I also share stories with my brother in law, but since his heart attack he isn't interested in sex so much
 
So question.
I had a FWB on the past and it got complicated because I was married, she no longer wanted to be the “Ho” her words not mine at all. I cared deeply for her just wasn’t able to nor seriously wanted to leave my wife and family. We didn’t talk for almost a year. Now we’re talking again and she put down the serious “WE ARE JUST FRIENDS” parameter. Is there any way you all think I could ever turn the page and tell her my kinks I have that I didn’t share with her on the last? She has no idea I crossdress and really want to tell her now.
 
OMG NO! Only on-line and I am probably still naive that it's 'safe????
Haha I’m the same way. It’s probably because of our professions. I don’t really have a lot of online friends either. I mostly lurk and take opportunities as they happen. But this is also my only sex site I visit so it’s possible I’m not opening myself up to other chances elsewhere Lol
 
A few of my girl friends and I often tell each other when we do something especially fun/crazy/out-of-the ordinary/kinky/etc... with our bf's. It's like comparing notes, I suppose. And we often talk about what we want to try in the bedroom, but are afraid to. I guess we're also each other's moral support and sounding boards.

But these are my closest friends, and I wouldn't discuss these things with just anyone.
 
A few of my girl friends and I often tell each other when we do something especially fun/crazy/out-of-the ordinary/kinky/etc... with our bf's. It's like comparing notes, I suppose. And we often talk about what we want to try in the bedroom, but are afraid to. I guess we're also each other's moral support and sounding boards.

But these are my closest friends, and I wouldn't discuss these things with just anyone.
It seems like women are much more likely to talk about their sex life/fantasies with others then men, at least from what I have noticed
 
Online? I'm fairly open with my online friends about my kinks, but I won't let them read my erotica. And my IRL friends know I write erotica, but I've never shared it. They've asked to read it - the women are far pushier about this than the men - but I've always declined. If they know I'm a submissive, piss-worshipping, anal whore, it kind of changes the tone of our drink nights. And I wouldn't want to fuck any of my best friends. (I'd definitely fuck ANY of my best friends - I'm so demisexual it hurts).
Do you need any more friends? ;-) Don't worry, I won't bring up your submissive, piss-worshiping, anal kinks when we're out for drinks.
 
A few of my girl friends and I often tell each other when we do something especially fun/crazy/out-of-the ordinary/kinky/etc... with our bf's. It's like comparing notes, I suppose. And we often talk about what we want to try in the bedroom, but are afraid to. I guess we're also each other's moral support and sounding boards.

But these are my closest friends, and I wouldn't discuss these things with just anyone.
My wife and a few of her friends do the same.
 
Doing so actually gave me the courage to explore one of my curiosities.

Not going to involve my wife in it until I figure it out a little more. It'll probably weird her out of I expose her to it before hand.
 
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