Shameless comfort seeking thread

[Juspar Emvan]

We went down copuntry over the weekend to a big family Christmas do. International relations were there and all, was set to be a blast. Then the rain set in and (don't forget it's supposed to be summer here) the BBQ witha whole pig on a spit went kinda sour.

Then . .
My step father, who had been complaining of a sore stomache for a day or two, took himself to the afterhours doc, 'cause it was getting bad. They sent him to hospital. That was 3 days ago. They still don't know what's wrong with him, and I have very few details. They've done all sorts of tests and are still clueless, damnit! I love that man, as several of you will have read in my posts. This really sucks. For one reason and another I haven't been able to get in to see him yet, but I'm driving down tomorrow night.

What makes it worse, is that the last time I was in that hospital, was when my step son's father died there after an accident. I'm worried and sad and, and, and, I need a hug.

 

[Amelie]

HUG

 

[Rambling Rose]

I'm sorry, honey. I'll be hoping to hear good news from you soon.

 

[Starfish]

That really sucks Juspar. I hope that you get the word on what's up very soon.

((((((((((((Juspar))))))))))))

 

[Summery]

{{{comforting HUGS for Juspar}}}

 

[Siren]

Juspar...............

 

[LRC]

{{{{{{{{{{{{{{HUGGGGGGGGG}}}}}}}}}}

.

 

[kiwiwolf]

Brother I'm a long way from Roto-Vegas, but anything I can do, just give me a yell . I mean ANYTHING... OK?

Let us know how he gets on.

 

[Juspar Emvan]

Thanks all. Yes Myst would be there for me and supportive and loving, and everything I need, if I'd seen her on-line recently. Time zones suck, I vote we make the world flat. (Miss you, love you babe)

Wolfie, hehehe, Roto-Vegas is the proposed spot for the NZ Lit New Year do. I live on the North Shore, and he's in Waikato. But thanks anyhow, I appreciate the sentiment.

I will certainly keep you posted, it's nice to know people care, makes things easier.



Special mention to Siren, because I think she's a special person, even when we fight - ta babe.


((((Everyone who hugged me first)))) thanks

 

[Rubyfruit]

~hugs~ Juspar. I hope you have some answers soon and that it is good news.

xo
Ruby

 

[PacificBlue]

{{{{{{{{{{{{Hugs}}}}}}}}}}}}}}

Hang in there.

 

[Siren]

Juspar...

 

[Juspar Emvan]

Pac Blue, take your Av and leave this thread. It's supposed to be a comfort thread not a comfort thread Hot damn girl.

Thanks Siren, I'll see how I go for time, forgive me if I forget or run out of time though, thanks. I know so little right now, I expect it's probably going to turn out to be stress induced or something, but for now I know little and worry lots.

 

[kiwiwolf]

Wolfie, hehehe, Roto-Vegas is the proposed spot for the NZ Lit New Year do. I live on the North Shore, and he's in Waikato. But thanks anyhow, I appreciate the sentiment.

Oh Christ no... A SHORE boy... *shaking his fur in disgust*... Ah well it could be worse, you could live in Howick! Offer stands brother.

 

[Debbie]

*big bear/kiwi hug*
Thinking of you and your family.
Take care
Debbie

 

[Juspar Emvan]

Oh Christ no... A SHORE boy... *shaking his fur in disgust*... Ah well it could be worse, you could live in Howick! Offer stands brother.

I may have grown up north of the bridge, but I'm a Bogan at heart.


Hauraaaakiiiii - Classic rock that rocks.

 

[PHANTOM5875]

Heart goes out to you........

Juspar, by ALL means go see as soon as you can. And be SURE to tell him how you feel about him. I had a chance to do that with my dad about a month before he died and I can't tell you how glad and grateful I was that I had done that.

Hang in there!

Phantom

 

[JennyOmanHill]

Wishing you comfort and answers at this critical time. You have a good support team here for you.

 

[kiwiwolf]

I may have grown up north of the bridge, but I'm a Bogan at heart.


Hauraaaakiiiii - Classic rock that rocks.

Yeeehaaaa ... a kindred spirit... Thomas the tanked Engine forever.

 

[Juspar Emvan]

Thanks all. Not sure where we're at with this, but they have discharged him at least. I just had a call, mum and he are staying with my grandmother tonight and will be back tomorrow afternoon. He's still not 100%, but something must have changed. Please keep sending those happy thoughts, he can do with them.

 

[sch00lteacher]

Sending best wishes from North Carolina. I'd hug ya but I don't want people to get the wrong idea.

Seriously hope all turns out for the best.

 

[juicylips]

Big, Big HUGGS from...

J.L.

Kisses too if that will help