"Sexy" things that turn you off?

[SherlockianMan]

I've seen several "What turns you on?" Threads or "Biggest Turn offs?", but I thought I'd try something different.

What is something that other people find sexy that turn you off? I'm sure I can't be the only one who has a couple.

I know this topic could potentially start some debates, but let's let everyone have their own say. To each their own.

I'll give a few examples to start:

Tanlines- I have several friends that drool over tan lines, but I've never found them sexy. I don't understand the appeal at all.

Calling women sluts or whores (even if they are doing it themselves) - I was raised by my very proper grandmother to treat all women with respect and courtesy and have never seen using demeaning names as something sexy.

 

[de_Lioncourt]

I agree on the tan lines, I don't see the appeal either.

The whole being called 'Daddy' thing, I just don't understand how that can turn on a man.

Huge breasts. Seems like every guy likes a woman with massive tits, I much prefer proportion myself.

Clean shaven pussy. Just no. Seriously.

 

[SherlockianMan]

I agree on the tan lines, I don't see the appeal either.

The whole being called 'Daddy' thing, I just don't understand how that can turn on a man.

Huge breasts. Seems like every guy likes a woman with massive tits, I much prefer proportion myself.

Clean shaven pussy. Just no. Seriously.

Thanks for contributing.

I'm also not a fan of the "Daddy" thing. Borders on the creepy side in my mind to either want to be called "Daddy" or to think of a sexual partner as "Daddy."

 

[beachbaby179]

A tongue in my ear. Nibbling on the lobe is a turn on. But please stay external....

 

[TomBoner]

A tongue in my ear. Nibbling on the lobe is a turn on. But please stay external....

Maybe you just haven't had the right tongue.

 

[sogrl90]

Toe sucking. Don't suck mine and I'm sure not going to suck yours.

 

[destined]

A tongue in my ear. Nibbling on the lobe is a turn on. But please stay external....

Agreed! nibbling can be a turn on but stop at that with the ear.

Actually most any kind of licking does not work with me either.

Also beards - I like mustaches and goatees but a full beard is a turn off.

And me too on the toe sucking thing

 

[sogrl90]

A tongue in my ear. Nibbling on the lobe is a turn on. But please stay external....

This too.

 

[Leigh81]

The whole daddy, dominate, thing is a major turn off for me. Creeps the hell out of me since I have a dad.
Yet at the same time I like to be submissive, dominated, somewhat humiliated verbally by my one GF. Unfortunately that's rare since she's very passionate.
I like the "5 o'clock shadow (Colin Farrell look), but not big on beards at all.
I also don't like being finger banged roughly.

L

 

[LWulf]

Blow jobs. Well, it isn't a turn off as much as a waste of time. I don't like just having a woman please me without being able to please her in return.

Yes, there is always 69, but a 69 isn't a blow job. A blow job is the guy getting serviced and nothing more.

Edit: Forgot to mention; deep throat. I have an inane fear of loss of breath. I don't find someone else not being able to breathe, "sexy."

 

[pvt_addiction]

An overgrown patch of pubic hair. The thought of that area getting hot and wet, the juices flowing, the hair matted down...just appears dirty to me. Not sexy at all.

 

[thefishfryer]

Obviously fake panting and gasping by pornstars, it almost seems timed by a metronome in some instances.

 

[Othermoose]

Really really skinny girls. Like where you can see their ribs. A lot of people find skinny girls super hot, but I prefer my ladies with some fluff, or at the very least enough fat so they don't look like stray dogs.

 

[iamjustme4ever]

Huge breasts. Seems like every guy likes a woman with massive tits, I much prefer proportion myself.

Clean shaven pussy. Just no. Seriously.

Same here, even though I recognize boob's beauty, I prefer small breasts instead of big ones; also agree with clean shaved pussies; on the other hand, trimmed ones are great.

...and for the sucking toes issue, haven't been sucked but I've never had any complaints about my abilities on that matter.

 

[someoneyouknow]

Wearing open toed shoes with any type of hosiery. There have been many pictures I have passed on posting because that was in the picture.

The reason I don't find it sexy is one of those childhood things. When I was much younger I was looking at pictures from the old country. Something that always stood out were the old women wearing knee highs with open toed slippers. Since then I'm always reminded of the slovenly, nearly destitute, appearance.

In addition, a bit later on in my life, I was fairly interested in fashion. More just to see the neat designs, what I liked and didn't like, most especially the classic looks. Somewhere along the way I remember reading some truisms about fashion and one of them was women should never wear open toed shoes with any type of hosiery. Sort of like wearing socks with sandals.

I know there will be some (many?) women who will roundly dispute this, but I don't find it sexy.

 

[Mayberrygirl]

I love a bit of chest hair, and happy trails on a fella can really get me going...but dear gawd...I just cannot tolerate hairy shoulders or backs!! Instantly shuts me down!!

 

[BCSunshine66]

Toe sucking. Don't suck mine and I'm sure not going to suck yours.

I have to agree, big turn off for me!

 

[tolyk]

I love a bit of chest hair, and happy trails on a fella can really get me going...but dear gawd...I just cannot tolerate hairy shoulders or backs!! Instantly shuts me down!!

Is that actually a "sexy" thing? I can't think of any time I've talked to someone and they've admitted to being turned on by back or shoulder hair (I completely agree though, if it is considered sexy by any)

 

[ShelbyBubbles]

It turns me off when guys beg for sex. Sorry fellas, I just don't find it sexy or cute...I find it rather annoying....and I don't beg for sex either lol

 

[1sickbastard]

If it turns me off, then by definition, I wouldn't consider it "sexy".

 

[SMNaughtywife]

Overly muscular men. And then to top it off, coated in shimmering oil. Ugh!
A toned body is my preference.

 

[Deleted member 1178772]

Overly muscular men. And then to top it off, coated in shimmering oil. Ugh!
A toned body is my preference.

Yes I agree ha ha

 

[thefishfryer]

It turns me off when guys beg for sex. Sorry fellas, I just don't find it sexy or cute...I find it rather annoying....and I don't beg for sex either lol

Spoilsport.

 

[thefishfryer]

Overly muscular men. And then to top it off, coated in shimmering oil. Ugh!
A toned body is my preference.

No problems with me then ............. oh wait did you say toned?

 

[Kat73]

The Daddy/Mommy thing doesn't work for me either. I had someone recently explain what it meant to him and I understood how it turned him on, but it still creeps me out to a certain extent. I don't think I could ever refer to someone that way in a sexual nature.