Sexy Insults
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I'm going to need a little more information on her and her personality, a reporter's notebook, nine ballpoint pens, three bottles of non-rum or tequila alcohol and twenty-seven dollars. In return, you'll get more insults you can use in a year.
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Like mistersir says, we need more info, or you are just going to end up with humiliation boilerplate.
YourCaptor
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you cant just throw out bitch, or slut, it has to mean something to her.
also keep in mind that there is a difference between insults and humiliation.
also keep in mind that there is a difference between insults and humiliation.
Sir_Winston54
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Excellent point. You continue to amaze me, YC - just about every time I'm about to put you on iggy for excess dumbassery, you come up with something like this that makes me stop. Good job, dood!
WCHSP, you will also want to be careful in choosing your "topics" for humiliating forms of address or command, especially address. For example, a pyl into being humiliated might have self-esteem issues in a particular area - e.g., her intelligence - and an offhand comment/address/command in that particular area could be devastating in a not-good way. As in the example I just cited, someone with a self-esteem issue about her intelligence might get wet at being called slut, bitch, whore, fatass cunt, etc., and totally fall apart if you called her "dumbass."
I can insinuate that YC is a dumbass, as I did above, because I know from a plethora of his posts that he has no issues in that area, and will take the comment as it was intended - fairly good-natured railery - rather than being emotionally wounded. Someone who *does* have issues in that area, however, could find it to be a really *hurtful* comment.
Since I'm a (primarily physical) Sadist, not much into humiliation, I can't help you much with specific suggestions, but I think my observations above will certainly apply and probably should be heeded if you intend to build any kind of LTR with this young lady. Good luck to you!
This may seem like the way circle jerks get started, but that is quoted for emphasis because that's a common thread. I can't remember who said it, I have it narrowed down to two in my head, but one of the better known posters here made almost the exact same comment about herself and insults about her intelligence.
In partial seriousness, I wasn't entirely kidding earlier. A little bit of information goes a long way and I WAS put on this Earth to insult people, after all.
So how do you tell which are the sexy topics and which aren't? When it comes to which parts of the body to abuse it's easy to ask, like some women like pain to their breasts and others hate it, that's easy to ask/admit, but if she's sensitive about things like her intelligence, face, hair, etc, even asking about it could hurt.
That's why I kind of want to favour generic insults until I'm more comfortable and can see what really gets her going, and then I can tailor them more. But nobody seems to want to share any.
Any suggestions would be helpful! Just what has worked with your partner, even if it was custom tailored for someone else.
That's why I kind of want to favour generic insults until I'm more comfortable and can see what really gets her going, and then I can tailor them more. But nobody seems to want to share any.
Any suggestions would be helpful! Just what has worked with your partner, even if it was custom tailored for someone else.
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I love a verbal chastisement to go along with the physical aspect of my sub's punishment. It really adds another dimension to the experience and helps her get into her headspace as a fully submissive to me.
The key is to use your vocabulary and branch out more than the typical "slut," "bitch" etc. These are the building blocks you can string together to make some very good reprimands. For example, instead of "you little whore," try something along the lines of "you filthy little slut, you just love sucking your master's hard, throbbing cock, don't you?" Be creative and remember you're doing this out of love and concern for her/his well-being, not real anger.
The key is to use your vocabulary and branch out more than the typical "slut," "bitch" etc. These are the building blocks you can string together to make some very good reprimands. For example, instead of "you little whore," try something along the lines of "you filthy little slut, you just love sucking your master's hard, throbbing cock, don't you?" Be creative and remember you're doing this out of love and concern for her/his well-being, not real anger.
Well, I'm not particularly versed in this sort of thing, so take my idea with a big grain of salt. That being said...
Have her do it herself. That should make for a great chance to find out a lot about her buttons. For example, ask her if she is a slut/whore/bitch whatever. When she says yes, then ask her what kind of slut/whore/bitch she is. Make her come up with it and take notes of any pattern that emerges.
She won't say the things she find offensive herself, so you can rest easy knowing that not only will it not hurt her, but should work well for you to run with.
But again, I am not an expert in this field, so before you do any of that, let's wait for someone with a little more experience sign off on that, eh?
Have her do it herself. That should make for a great chance to find out a lot about her buttons. For example, ask her if she is a slut/whore/bitch whatever. When she says yes, then ask her what kind of slut/whore/bitch she is. Make her come up with it and take notes of any pattern that emerges.
She won't say the things she find offensive herself, so you can rest easy knowing that not only will it not hurt her, but should work well for you to run with.
But again, I am not an expert in this field, so before you do any of that, let's wait for someone with a little more experience sign off on that, eh?
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Is there really a need to direct your insults/humiliating remarks to things about *her?* Why can't you primarily direct them toward things that she has (or hasn't) done? Actions/non-actions are much less psychologically "threatening" than aspects of one's person/personality. That specifically fits into the mold of the second half of Sayyid's suggestion. It also makes it easier to think up the remarks you want to use in humiliating her. Just pay attention to what she does (and/or doesn't) do, and use those things for your statements. It has the added advantage of letting her know that you notice and care about the things she does/doesn't do... and paying attention to someone is an excellent way to, in most cases, keep the relationship going and growing.
Like Sir_Winston54 said, talking about her actions and non-actions is the way to go.
I have some suggestions for verbal humiliation along the slut theme that worked for me with a nice, proper girl who loved thinking about doing nasty things with not just me but lots of guys at the same time (nobody in particular - just lots of them).
Calling her a slut was fun at first but got repetitive. I used to imply that she was a slut, then started calling her one to get her over the edge.
Here are ways you can phrase what you say.
Rhetorical questions:
"You suck my cock pretty good. Did you practice with a lot of cocks or are you just a natural?"
"How many cocks have you sucked with that dirty little mouth of yours? 100? 200?"
"I bet you'd like it if I called some of my friends and let them take turns with you. Should I invite 10 of them or is five enough?"
Thinking out loud:
"I wonder how your face would look if you had a cock in every hole. That would make a nice picture."
Or commands.
"Get on top of me and show me how a good little slut uses her pussy."
In all those statements, the word "slut" was not used or was not such a focus of the content.
Just remember it has to be tailored for her. If she's not into the gangbang aspect of being a slut, those lines won't work.
You can even get verbal with her when you're not together to get her turned on.
You can also make up your own words besides slut - cockslut, cumslut, fucktoy - and mix them up.
You can take seemingly mundane, non-sexual aspects of her and turn them into something sexual and humiliating.
This girl loved animals and had pets all of her life. She took very care of her pets.
One day I called her my pet and told her I was going to take good care of her, then started petting her.
As time went on, I had her crawl around naked for me (taking her for walks), rewarding her with petting for fetching things for me, making her wag her tail to show she was a happy little pet, saying "you're such a good girl" to her, and a whole bunch of other stuff. It really turned her on for some slutty behavior.
She loved how I took something she loved and turned into our thing she she never experienced before, and she loved the humiliation aspect of being treated as less-than-human but still cared for - she didn't have to think or talk, just obey and please her owner who would reward or punish her for being good, bad or not bad enough.
I have some suggestions for verbal humiliation along the slut theme that worked for me with a nice, proper girl who loved thinking about doing nasty things with not just me but lots of guys at the same time (nobody in particular - just lots of them).
Calling her a slut was fun at first but got repetitive. I used to imply that she was a slut, then started calling her one to get her over the edge.
Here are ways you can phrase what you say.
Rhetorical questions:
"You suck my cock pretty good. Did you practice with a lot of cocks or are you just a natural?"
"How many cocks have you sucked with that dirty little mouth of yours? 100? 200?"
"I bet you'd like it if I called some of my friends and let them take turns with you. Should I invite 10 of them or is five enough?"
Thinking out loud:
"I wonder how your face would look if you had a cock in every hole. That would make a nice picture."
Or commands.
"Get on top of me and show me how a good little slut uses her pussy."
In all those statements, the word "slut" was not used or was not such a focus of the content.
Just remember it has to be tailored for her. If she's not into the gangbang aspect of being a slut, those lines won't work.
You can even get verbal with her when you're not together to get her turned on.
You can also make up your own words besides slut - cockslut, cumslut, fucktoy - and mix them up.
You can take seemingly mundane, non-sexual aspects of her and turn them into something sexual and humiliating.
This girl loved animals and had pets all of her life. She took very care of her pets.
One day I called her my pet and told her I was going to take good care of her, then started petting her.
As time went on, I had her crawl around naked for me (taking her for walks), rewarding her with petting for fetching things for me, making her wag her tail to show she was a happy little pet, saying "you're such a good girl" to her, and a whole bunch of other stuff. It really turned her on for some slutty behavior.
She loved how I took something she loved and turned into our thing she she never experienced before, and she loved the humiliation aspect of being treated as less-than-human but still cared for - she didn't have to think or talk, just obey and please her owner who would reward or punish her for being good, bad or not bad enough.
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Something for consideration. some people can tell a joke well and others can't. The difference is often in the tempo and delivery. Timing can be one of the most important factors.
A technique that is tried and true for me in delivering a precise verbal slap is waiting till she is begging for it. This allows for you to use her own lusts against her when she is in such a wanting way.
Cheeks will flush with not but a whisper
as shame aflames for her Mister
the tase of cock, the feel of thrusts
tis grand to wallow in her lusts.
As lascivious words strike her core
Reassure her lovingly by saying
"My" whore.
A technique that is tried and true for me in delivering a precise verbal slap is waiting till she is begging for it. This allows for you to use her own lusts against her when she is in such a wanting way.
Cheeks will flush with not but a whisper
as shame aflames for her Mister
the tase of cock, the feel of thrusts
tis grand to wallow in her lusts.
As lascivious words strike her core
Reassure her lovingly by saying
"My" whore.
