Sexually Starving

[kflanum]

Well, I'm not sure if im posting this in the right spot, but here goes.

Me and my boyfriend have been together for about six months, and when we first got together, we couldnt keep our hands off eachother. Now, im lucky if i get any sex every 3 days. I have a very high libido, and he knew that when we got together. I asked him about it, and he said im still sexy and everything, he just thinks it should be
1. anticipated, because the longer you wait the better it gets
2. special moments
3. and sometimes hes just not in the mood
But then he proceeds to be a merciless tease. And i havent stopped doing exciting things for him either. I still do oral, wear sexy panties and lingerie, the whole 9. ive tried masterbating in front of him, rubbing his cock. everything. One time, i got him hard as a rock, invited him into the shower, and he left me in the shower...alone. And nothing when i got out all wet and hot. and im not unattractive either. I mean, im not a porn star, but i think ive got assets. i practically have to beg for him to sleep with me. Then when he does, i dont even cum.
Im at a loss people. Im going crazy!
Please help! Any advice is welcome.

 

[beetlebum]

Well, I'm not sure if im posting this in the right spot, but here goes.

Me and my boyfriend have been together for about six months, and when we first got together, we couldnt keep our hands off eachother. Now, im lucky if i get any sex every 3 days. I have a very high libido, and he knew that when we got together. I asked him about it, and he said im still sexy and everything, he just thinks it should be
1. anticipated, because the longer you wait the better it gets
2. special moments
3. and sometimes hes just not in the mood
But then he proceeds to be a merciless tease. And i havent stopped doing exciting things for him either. I still do oral, wear sexy panties and lingerie, the whole 9. ive tried masterbating in front of him, rubbing his cock. everything. One time, i got him hard as a rock, invited him into the shower, and he left me in the shower...alone. And nothing when i got out all wet and hot. and im not unattractive either. I mean, im not a porn star, but i think ive got assets. i practically have to beg for him to sleep with me. Then when he does, i dont even cum.
Im at a loss people. Im going crazy!
Please help! Any advice is welcome.

you can thank me later, dear

 

[kflanum]

That looks promising indeed!

 

[neci]

Well, I'm not sure if im posting this in the right spot, but here goes.

Me and my boyfriend have been together for about six months, and when we first got together, we couldnt keep our hands off eachother. Now, im lucky if i get any sex every 3 days. I have a very high libido, and he knew that when we got together. I asked him about it, and he said im still sexy and everything, he just thinks it should be
1. anticipated, because the longer you wait the better it gets
2. special moments
3. and sometimes hes just not in the mood
But then he proceeds to be a merciless tease. And i havent stopped doing exciting things for him either. I still do oral, wear sexy panties and lingerie, the whole 9. ive tried masterbating in front of him, rubbing his cock. everything. One time, i got him hard as a rock, invited him into the shower, and he left me in the shower...alone. And nothing when i got out all wet and hot. and im not unattractive either. I mean, im not a porn star, but i think ive got assets. i practically have to beg for him to sleep with me. Then when he does, i dont even cum.
Im at a loss people. Im going crazy!
Please help! Any advice is welcome.

here's the thing. you are begging. he doesn't have to do any work, and pretty much gets sex on demand. he doesn't have to make you come, because you will do that for yourself, in front of him. he is lazy and overindulged. there is no more chase. make him starve a bit.

 

[kflanum]

Yeah that is true. I want him to be attentive to my needs as well as his own.

 

[Killswitch]

Complaining about sex every three days.

How old are you.

15?

 

[neci]

Yeah that is true. I want him to be attentive to my needs as well as his own.

you can't make someone change. if he isn't attentive to your needs now, chances are he will be less attentive in the future.

 

[pete]

Well, I'm not sure if im posting this in the right spot, but here goes.

Me and my boyfriend have been together for about six months, and when we first got together, we couldnt keep our hands off eachother. Now, im lucky if i get any sex every 3 days. I have a very high libido, and he knew that when we got together. I asked him about it, and he said im still sexy and everything, he just thinks it should be
1. anticipated, because the longer you wait the better it gets
2. special moments
3. and sometimes hes just not in the mood
But then he proceeds to be a merciless tease. And i havent stopped doing exciting things for him either. I still do oral, wear sexy panties and lingerie, the whole 9. ive tried masterbating in front of him, rubbing his cock. everything. One time, i got him hard as a rock, invited him into the shower, and he left me in the shower...alone. And nothing when i got out all wet and hot. and im not unattractive either. I mean, im not a porn star, but i think ive got assets. i practically have to beg for him to sleep with me. Then when he does, i dont even cum.
Im at a loss people. Im going crazy!
Please help! Any advice is welcome.

it's possible he's not the right guy for you. take some time to re-think this thing.

if you threaten to leave, he'll jump on you again like it was in the beginning. that'll last a week or so, then he'll go back to how he is now.
and on, and on.

so meditate on it. it's not like he's the last man on earth.

 

[SkAoUt]

I'd suggest turning off PM's for a while. As your op is practically begging the mouthbreathers (of which I'm one) to carpet bomb your PM box.

As to your problems. I'm just going to suggest couples therapy or suggest to your bf that you start doing the hot wife/gf thing and make him a cuck. Might be his kink. Never know until you discuss it, or force him to make a decision.

 

[kflanum]

Im 20, actually. And yes i am complaining about sex every 3 days. Thats if im lucky. The longest it has been is 2 weeks.

 

[Killswitch]

20...lol

It only gets better toots

Just wait till you're older and or married. You'll be lucky to get sex once a month plus you'll also get to wash his sox and underwear, clean the pee off the toilet seat and then make him a sandwich while he's watching tv.

But don't worry. You can and will pay him back by gaining fifty pounds and hanging out here.

lol

 

[beetlebum]

aaaand if it all falls down and crumbles and your relationship disintegrates into nothingness and you feel an overwhelming amount of uncontrollable emotions and broken dreams and you lose sleep over this whole ordeal, remember:



the hitachi magic wand will ALWAYS be there for you.

 

[butters]

Well, I'm not sure if im posting this in the right spot, but here goes.

Me and my boyfriend have been together for about six months, and when we first got together, we couldnt keep our hands off eachother. Now, im lucky if i get any sex every 3 days. I have a very high libido, and he knew that when we got together. I asked him about it, and he said im still sexy and everything, he just thinks it should be
1. anticipated, because the longer you wait the better it gets
2. special moments
3. and sometimes hes just not in the mood
But then he proceeds to be a merciless tease. And i havent stopped doing exciting things for him either. I still do oral, wear sexy panties and lingerie, the whole 9. ive tried masterbating in front of him, rubbing his cock. everything. One time, i got him hard as a rock, invited him into the shower, and he left me in the shower...alone. And nothing when i got out all wet and hot. and im not unattractive either. I mean, im not a porn star, but i think ive got assets. i practically have to beg for him to sleep with me. Then when he does, i dont even cum.
Im at a loss people. Im going crazy!
Please help! Any advice is welcome.

just stop, will you?

stop badgering, whinging, begging, throwing yourself at him, performing, demanding and being so needy. stop everything. it can be very wearing and off-putting.

when two libidos fail to match-up evenly, there are problems. problems get resolved by compromise or by finding a better match.

he might find you more interesting, sexually, if you aren't 'on tap' and it might be a problem for him that you are doing all the propositioning instead of allowing him to come to you. if you can't work things out in a fair way that suits both your libidos, then walk away.

of course, it could also be he's playing away.

 

[JohnnySavage]

I'm happy as a pig in shit if I get it once every three years.

 

[kflanum]

it's possible he's not the right guy for you. take some time to re-think this thing.

if you threaten to leave, he'll jump on you again like it was in the beginning. that'll last a week or so, then he'll go back to how he is now.
and on, and on.

so meditate on it. it's not like he's the last man on earth.

Yeah i have been kinda rethinking where i want to go with the relationship. To me, sex is important. I mean its not the end all, be all of a relationship, but physical intimacy and attraction is important. i did talk to him, and for a couple days he was flirty and initiated once. But now its back to business as usual. I love him, but its painful to be sexually frustrated continuously

 

[kflanum]

I'm happy as a pig in shit if I get it once every three years.

I am so sorry for you. Really. I couldnt imagine that kind of pain

 

[kflanum]

aaaand if it all falls down and crumbles and your relationship disintegrates into nothingness and you feel an overwhelming amount of uncontrollable emotions and broken dreams and you lose sleep over this whole ordeal, remember:



the hitachi magic wand will ALWAYS be there for you.

All i have to say, is youre awesome. That is definitely a great plan B

 

[Killswitch]

Yeah i have been kinda rethinking where i want to go with the relationship. To me, sex is important. I mean its not the end all, be all of a relationship, but physical intimacy and attraction is important. i did talk to him, and for a couple days he was flirty and initiated once. But now its back to business as usual. I love him, but its painful to be sexually frustrated continuously

You have sex more in one year (appx 120 times) than everyone in this thread combined does.

For three years.

Get the fuck over yourself.

 

[kflanum]

20...lol

It only gets better toots

Just wait till you're older and or married. You'll be lucky to get sex once a month plus you'll also get to wash his sox and underwear, clean the pee off the toilet seat and then make him a sandwich while he's watching tv.

But don't worry. You can and will pay him back by gaining fifty pounds and hanging out here.

lol

You have a positive outlook on marriage. My mom was married 11 years and got it every day, 3 times a day. I already wash his stuff, clean the house, and everything.

 

[run_silent]

Cut him off and see what happens.

 

[Killswitch]

You have a positive outlook on marriage. My mom was married 11 years and got it every day, 3 times a day. I already wash his stuff, clean the house, and everything.

Holy Uterus Batman!

Well good luck honey. Your expectations are going to kill every relationship you ever have.

 

[HoHoBomb]

pu pu platter

 

[devinity7]

Just because some of you aren't getting laid, doesn't mean she doesn't have a right to complain. I agree with what some have said, withhold from him and see what happens. If his sexual appetite doesn't match with yours, I feel the relationship is doomed, it won't get any better with time and you're already frustrated. Unless he's willing to let you have someone on the side.

 

[pete]

Yeah i have been kinda rethinking where i want to go with the relationship. To me, sex is important. I mean its not the end all, be all of a relationship, but physical intimacy and attraction is important. i did talk to him, and for a couple days he was flirty and initiated once. But now its back to business as usual. I love him, but its painful to be sexually frustrated continuously

it sucks, i know

so take a break from him (assuming you're not living together) and get your search on for a new guy.
maybe you'll miss this guy so much you won't care about the sex as much as you thought.
OR maybe you'll find a new guy who loves it just as much as you do.

good luck!

 

[Billionaire]

Well, I'm not sure if im posting this in the right spot, but here goes.

Me and my boyfriend have been together for about six months, and when we first got together, we couldnt keep our hands off eachother. Now, im lucky if i get any sex every 3 days. I have a very high libido, and he knew that when we got together. I asked him about it, and he said im still sexy and everything, he just thinks it should be.

I was raped and that's why I am here today.